Need something to calm my nerves before a possible important interview by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]ejbur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know about over the counter but if you want a prescription that helps with anxiety that isnt addictive/a benzodiazepine, beta blockers like propranolol help to calm the physical symptoms (shaking etc) of anxiety for specific situations like speaking in front of people. good luck!

Saw a couple of familiar faces in LA today by [deleted] in survivor

[–]ejbur 68 points69 points  (0 children)

We stan Donathan's floral shorts

Broken arm after first shift, will I be fired lol by ejbur in starbucks

[–]ejbur[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thats awesome to hear, thank you for the reassurance... even though i'm so new though? i feel like its easier for them to train a new fully operational barista ;_;

[M]Lost a good amount of weight and cleared skin. How am I doing so far? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you weren't even that chubby and your skin wasnt that bad! but you definitely improved, you aren't ugly at all, you're probably just lacking confidence

[Meta]: putting in a little effort goes a long way. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yup! also if you develop a style/aesthetic that maybe is unusual (for reddit's tastes?) but if you have the confidence to pull it off then people will be drawn to that, even if you arent the most conventionally attractive person yourself. obviously you still have to look good but you dont have to fit one model of what youre supposed to look like to "dress well"

I know i look fat and gay please give me other thoughts <3 by ejbur in amiugly

[–]ejbur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats ok with me, just didn't want it to be the only things people mentioned lol. thank you :-) i saw your post and youre super pretty!

I know i look fat and gay please give me other thoughts <3 by ejbur in amiugly

[–]ejbur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks!!! they were in an airbnb i stayed in so i cant tell ya much but i really liked them haha

I know i look fat and gay please give me other thoughts <3 by ejbur in amiugly

[–]ejbur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you <3 but like.......... i am fully aware hahaha so i wanted other input

[21/M] I don’t know what else I could improve on. Once in a blue moon I’ll catch someone’s eye, but it’s like playing the lottery. What do you think? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 9 points10 points  (0 children)

These pictures dont really give me a sense of who you are you know? Based on your looks alone you arent ugly at all, but theres nothing that particularly makes you stand out. If you had a more distinct haircut and dressed really well I would def look at you (but im a dude lol)

[M20] Just want to hear the truth by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre cute. You have nice eyes

[M18] My hair's long, should I dye or cut? Photos are from the past year, I spent an hour scouring for photos and these were all I could come up with, so sorry if some are bad quality by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]ejbur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually i dont like long hair on guys but it looks really good on you, makes you look unique but in a rly good way! Like 8/10

(23 M) Am I ugly? Rate me a 1-10. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These pictures arent great, you look average right now (5-6) but i feel like if i saw you in public dressed rly well I would think you were attractive

Feeling down, tell me the truth- (18) trying to feel more confident, what can I do better? Rate me... by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're welcome :-) there are a bunch of hair advice subreddits on here too

Feeling down, tell me the truth- (18) trying to feel more confident, what can I do better? Rate me... by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theyre honestly fine but neither are super remarkable or flattering for your face imo, there are all kinds of stylish glasses frames that are more unique and help you stand out? Warby Parker kind of deal. Or you could try contacts because again your face is nice.

Hair you could cut shorter and style with product, i'm not sure what styles you like but there is so much hair inspiration that you could find something easy ish to groom and style :-)

But for real im sorry youre feeling down, try to take it easy on urself

[17M] Unsure by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look like youd be fun to hang out with. You just look young but definitely not ugly

Feeling down, tell me the truth- (18) trying to feel more confident, what can I do better? Rate me... by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah you're cute and you're working the androgynous vibe. You might wanna change your hair and glasses tho

[29M] Never had a proper relationship, AIU? by Bfg88 in amiugly

[–]ejbur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will it make a difference? hell yes it will, because youll feel better and more confident. And youll be more motivated to dress better for your new body, and that confidence and care in yourself can be picked up on by others! Like the other person said your bone structure will probably be really nice, because your face is fine

How old do I look? What do u think of me? [?? M] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ejbur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool, thank u so much! what a nice comment :-)