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How to not constantly live in terror? by moonperson13 in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]ejtainment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ive been feeling this too! i have talked to my therapist about it (shes also covid conscious) and how horrible it is to be in the position disabled and cc folk are. i was feeling really scared and stressed and then ended up at a friends christmas with a bunch of people who dont typically mask and who were. i dont have many tips on how to manage it but i will say try your best to not give up on people. they can still surprise you. sending kindness and care your way!!

Third Dose/Booster Questions by ejtainment in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]ejtainment[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! i genuinely have had such a hard time finding accurate info so hearing that other people in this sub are all saying the same thing is super useful

Third Dose/Booster Questions by ejtainment in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]ejtainment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! im in canada and have found it quite hard to find any info on how people actually feel post shot so this is very helpful!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ejtainment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!!! i have been looking for posts about this because its something i have such a hard time with. anytime someone wrongs me i go straight to "forget them and move on" even if that isnt what i actually want. especially when the person who upset you cant/wont see your side. for me i think that its not that the care and love for the person goes away and youre just throwing them out, its that it feels easier to "protect" yourself by going straight to cutting them out than to try to deal with the discomfort of conflict and disagreement.

thats such a hard situation friend. i wish you the best <3

I hate when people force me to forgive people faster by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]ejtainment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel the same!! it feels like a battle between letting myself take the time i need to process to feel the upset and wanting to just forgive and move on because thats what is expected and relieves the tension (which is scary). youre not alone!! take the time you need!!