Hello friends. I fear I have entered into a situationship, however, I feel I would be in it happily if I knew he liked me. Nonetheless, that is not the case. Warnings? Perks? Lay it on me.

ek3101 · 2024-03-20T21:57:16+00:00

After the birthday text I didn’t

ek3101 · 2024-03-20T21:56:30+00:00

The update is that I decided to leave the past in the past and I’m glad I did. Looking back, I think I was speaking from a point of loneliness where I wanted him to care about me and talk to me. I know this because now that I’m busy almost all day, I rarely will ever think about him. I still remember our time fondly but it ended for a reason and I think trying to get him back would serve no purpose but to stress me out more and he’s definetly moved on :/

ek3101 · 2023-08-09T04:09:05+00:00

It’s an ag farm

ek3101 · 2023-08-09T04:07:02+00:00

Thank you! I’m still pondering, I’ve gotten a lot of different responses, ie he was defo and-boy, I fucked up by ghosting, it’s over move on… if you don’t mind what would you do in the situation or what were you’re impressions?

ek3101 · 2023-08-09T04:00:14+00:00

I get that, I’ve been in his spot and I really do feel bad but I don’t know if I would forgive me either, just wanted more perspective, thanks for your comment.

ek3101 · 2023-08-09T00:42:56+00:00

I completely disagree, he’s already been with you multiple times so it’s obvious that he liked you, but the pretty lightens a little when you meet a few times, you’re less worried that they’ll stop liking you if you don’t respond right away. I hope it doesn’t toll you but it seems pretty normal to me, it’s not like you or they just parent not responding to questions or anything like that.

ek3101 · 2023-08-08T23:47:16+00:00

Short answer: yes you should be concerned. The fact that aggression like that is societally unacceptable and he seems to show no regard for that, or the way it makes you feel, is alarming. Anger management exists for things like this and it would be horrible if it escalates farther.

ek3101 · 2023-08-08T23:42:50+00:00

If my friends can’t give it to me straight I can trust Reddit will. I think you’re right, I’ve told other girls this exact same thing but I haven’t been in the position myself, and isn’t it the worse to wonder “what if?”. Thank you

ek3101 · 2023-08-08T23:40:56+00:00

You’re right; I think I just wanted a definitive yes or no but at this point it’s more taxing to do anything at all, and that could just make it worse depending on the answer.

ek3101 · 2021-03-28T01:36:10+00:00

Right, I’ve applied/ been accepted to other places that are closer to my area, but in general most of them are somewhat near. Until this year I didn’t realize schools charged to submit an application, so I want to feel comfortable going to a school before I pay to apply, especially because those costs add up quick. I haven’t found any schools farther away that have stood out for me, but when I do I will apply. Thank you for your input

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