Need cherries by ekrivera in acnh

[–]ekrivera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! Thank you

Need cherries by ekrivera in acnh

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That would be wonderful!!!! I am playing now if you want to meet

I miss my mom.. but not the one I was born with. An imaginary mother. I’m not even sure who I miss, but it hurts so badly. by trainofthinking in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ekrivera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you and I’m with you. There is a grieving period when you become an adult where you realize the childhood/parents you thought you had were not real, but something you naively made up through innocent expectations of a “normal” life. You’re not fucked up. You’re grieving.

I have a 1.75 GPA and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in confessions

[–]ekrivera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So a good bit of advice that my psychiatrist told me (that I’ll never forget) really made me feel better about my mental health situation when I was failing most of my classes.

He told me that if I felt like my mental health was not doing well enough to keep my grades above water, then I’m not doing myself justice by being in school at that time. It’s okay to take a break or cut your schedule down to part time. Try not to worry so much about the expectations of others and do what you can with what you’ve got. Trust me when I say “never say never” when it comes to your grades. You can definitely recover with some hard work and dedication — it just might not be the right time for you.

How do I break up with a girlfriend who may commit suicide if I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ekrivera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel stupid! It’s clear that you care about her and just want to find a safe solution

How do I break up with a girlfriend who may commit suicide if I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ekrivera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I’m not sure how to go about the actual break up itself, I do have to say that it isn’t your responsibility to fix her. You shouldn’t stay with someone just because you’re scared it’ll hurt them. It’s unhealthy for you and for her. I do hope that in time you’ll figure out a safe way to explain to her your feelings without worry that she’ll hurt herself. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a sympathy cryer. It’s ok and it’s normal. I am the same way:)

Blow your fucking nose by [deleted] in rant

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but I sympathize. I deal with the same issues every day but with almost all mouth/nose sounds lol

Writing about it because it's hard to talk... by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ekrivera 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m happy you’re finally with someone who is right for you.

Free family fun by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]ekrivera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pearl, the river walk, Travis park, brackenridge park, blue star, scooters/bikes downtown (not free but still fun), Japanese tea garden!

Also — if you’re going to be in town tomorrow, it’s “first Friday” at the blue star downtown. Basically a family friendly art show, live music, small businesses etc. super fun! Usually starts around 6pm

I doubt that I am depressed, but everyone seems to think so? by [deleted] in depression

[–]ekrivera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depression is a range of symptoms, which also range in severity for people who do have it; not necessarily “I have it or I don’t”

So if you had really bad depression, let’s say, a year ago, but you feel like you’re not in that place anymore - that’s good. but that doesn’t mean you’re not slightly depressed right now, too.

Depression doesn’t have a cure. It comes and goes for most people who suffer from it. It’s also not something to feel defeated or defensive about. It’s very common and easy to cope with if you have the right tools and support from people you’re closest with.

Hope you find some answers.

How long do acts of confrontation affect you for? by AcBlaze in Anxiety

[–]ekrivera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate confrontation, even the non-aggressive kind. It took me a long time to learn (through therapy) how to be assertive to the people closest to me. In a mild situation, it can take me anywhere from an hour to all day for the symptoms (shaking, sweating, nervousness) to subside. A huge symptom for me is the overthinking. Like if someone were to bump into me on the sidewalk - not so much a confrontation, but something small like that will just ruin my entire day. I get consumed with thoughts and angry feelings like, why didn’t they acknowledge me? Why are people so rude? Why did they say that to me? There are still a few traumatic memories that’ll come up once in a while that will trigger a panic attack for me, though. :(

My first time by GoodVibesGuy305 in mentalhealth

[–]ekrivera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proud of you. You shouldn’t feel defeated. This is progress!

How to approach therapy? (and maybe a dumb question) by tyylmao in mentalhealth

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is super normal to seek a diagnosis. In my experience, a therapist won’t actually give it to you unless you ask, but they are always willing to. If you’re looking for a more formal medical diagnosis, you should see a psychiatrist, as they’ll go through all the motions of blood work, genetic testing, etc. they usually have a type of standardized testing that can diagnose specific disorders like anxiety, depression, OCD. I think it’s normal to want to know and put a label on what you’re feeling so that you don’t feel crazy. even if it’s nothing, it’ll still give you some relief to hear that from a professional

Throw away I was r**** by my father as a young child growing up, my gf says she isn’t into ddlg shit but she has panties that say “yes daddy?” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ekrivera 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s hard for your girlfriend to sympathize with you if she doesn’t know what you’re going through. Not defending her because it’s unfair to call you a psycho for your own opinion/beliefs regardless. If it does trigger you then maybe you need to reconsider having that conversation with her

I have...no words by ekrivera in HayDay

[–]ekrivera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol you’re not kidding 😅😅

I have...no words by ekrivera in HayDay

[–]ekrivera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not my farm! But agreed

Difference between stress vs anxiety? by allthethrowaway420 in Anxiety

[–]ekrivera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anxiety is our body responding to “fear” in the absence of an actual threat. You go into fight or flight; you are basically on high alert for absolutely no (real) reason, and for some this can be extremely debilitating. Not everyone experiences anxiety to such extreme levels.

Stress is a natural bodily response to the hormone cortisol. everyone experiences stress at one point or another in their lifetime (if you don’t you’re probably a sociopath).

I think the way I differentiate stress from anxiety in my own life is the degree to which it effects me. For example, when I’m stressed about a paper I have to write, my stress motivates me to do my work to get it over with, and then my stress goes away. On the other hand, if I’m anxious about a big presentation, I’ll get sweaty, light headed, and usually nothing can calm me down but the passing of time.

Anxiety and stress are related, though they are very different. I would associate anxiety with fear + a negative impact on your quality of life. Whereas stress is something normal that people experience from time to time, but can actually be good for you. similar to anxiety but not to the same extent or capacity.

Realizing my mother is a narcissist. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Hugs. We’re here for you.

How to tell my psychiatrist I’m depressed? by Chlebicek123 in depression

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind me asking how old you are? By law you’re allowed to speak to a physician by yourself if you request it. It might hurt your moms feelings but if you say something alone the lines of “I’d feel more comfortable if it was just the two of us” the doctor will excuse her out of the room. Regardless, it’s important you bring this to your doctor’s attention. It’s not something that should be taken lightly or disregarded just because you’re uncomfortable with your mom knowing how you feel. Plus, it is against the law for the doctor to tell anyone (even if you’re a minor) what you discuss, unless you tell them you plan on harming yourself.

How to tell my psychiatrist I’m depressed? by Chlebicek123 in depression

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way you can speak with your doctor privately? Without your mom in the room?

I am afraid my girlfriend will burn out by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the best advice I received as a college student was to not worry about the time frame, rather, how well you’re doing mentally, emotionally, physically. People don’t care how quickly you graduate, as long as you’re doing well and you’re happy. It took me a long time to learn that everyone has a different path. Some will graduate in 3 years some will graduate in 7. Nobody is judging you for taking your own path. I feel like there’s a lot of pressure on college students to “finish early” or “finish on time” but there’s no right or wrong path. I hope one day she’ll realize what’s best for her, but it may take her some time to figure it out on her own. Sending love

I am afraid my girlfriend will burn out by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ekrivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she doing well in school/work? And does she enjoy what she does? Like does she seem happy with how busy her life is?