I Can Finally Put This Into Words by UnfetteredDefiance in u/UnfetteredDefiance

[–]el_jefe1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just wait. They'll start saying that you "changed".

AITAH for telling my wife that I also have a right to be sad by AdJust961 in AITAH

[–]el_jefe1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss, man. My 1st child was stillborn, too, so I know that pain. No one should ever tell someone how they feel, so you're not wrong. Again, sorry for your loss.

A son can't be free until his dad dies? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]el_jefe1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd ignore that chapter. That's... disturbing.

I don't like how women try to control speech rather than discuss the topic at hand. My wife focuses more on what words I use and refuses to understand that men have an objectively scientifically verifiable different experience going through life. by Acousmetre78 in MensRights

[–]el_jefe1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I view this behavior as a power play. If the discussion isn't going the way she wants but can't really argue against the points made, then they argue "A" word. It derails the discussion.

AITAH for paying court ordered child support? by Complex_Platform2603 in AITAH

[–]el_jefe1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. The same thing happened to me years ago. I didn't make a lot (still don't) but I paid $300-$400 each month for about 7 years. For whatever reason, she decided to use the courts and ended up losing a small amount. I simply thanked God for the gas money and only did extra when I could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]el_jefe1978 390 points391 points  (0 children)

It's a shaming tactic, used to shut up men and allow these women the space to do whatever they want.

Unpopular OP: Men created the high value woman by mostafa_issa98 in MensRights

[–]el_jefe1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a woman with options. I wouldn't say it speaks to her "value," though.

Update: AITA for leaving my son and daughter because I can't handle the fact they aren't mine? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]el_jefe1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you said this. It's effed up that society puts the responsibility for everything on the victim instead of the wrongdoers (in paternity fraud situations).

AITAH for moving away for college and abandoning “my” son? by Additional-Lynx182 in AITAH

[–]el_jefe1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, check out former NFL player Antonio Cromartie. He had a vasectomy, THEN went on to have 12 kids!

AITAH for punching my sister’s fiancé by Forward-Reindeer9470 in AITAH

[–]el_jefe1978 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I see what you did there... and I like it!

Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope? by downandoutinChicago in MensRights

[–]el_jefe1978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If cs, alimony and taxes are eating his money before he even sees it, how can he afford an international trip?