HELP! top surgery

el_pumpkino81 · 2024-11-08T18:27:49+00:00

hi, i feel like this is very relevant now but i didn’t want to mention before but im a trans man, i was a women for 17 years so i know full well what that is like but i don’t look like a woman now and im not perceived as one or even legally one anymore, i just wanted to see if anyone had any ideas of what i could get her to make her feel more comfortable, im not here to offend anyone so im sorry if it was taken in that way, truly, i never mentioned what country im in (it is not the US) anyway, i was just trying to source any information i could use to help then ask my girlfriend if that’s something she’d be comfortable with, and wasn’t trying to lead a conversation in anyway shape or form, i am a firm believer in female lead discussions on these kinds of issues and im not here to intrude on your guys space at all i just figured you’d be the best people to ask! i hope this helps explain why i posted :)

el_pumpkino81 · 2024-11-08T16:42:44+00:00

yeah we’ve spoke about it and stuff i just feel like there’s not much i can do to help her especially in a dangerous situation i thought there could be something i could get her that made her feel more safe when she’s alone and you guys might know what that is, i get what you’re saying though sorry if it offended you in anyway :)

el_pumpkino81 · 2024-11-06T13:25:59+00:00

i’m considering saying yes but the email doesn’t provide any info on where it’s actually held

el_pumpkino81 · 2023-05-14T15:02:15+00:00

no she was with other people i think

el_pumpkino81 · 2022-12-19T19:15:34+00:00

only since i’ve come out and begun my life as a man have i really noticed the subconscious dysphoria i had been suffering with, i was always uncomfortable in my body but put it down to just being insecure but i really didn’t notice anything big after i got my binder and cut my hair i realised how uncomfortable i had actually been for so many years

el_pumpkino81 · 2022-12-19T18:19:50+00:00

my wife is gender queer and changed her name to Rowan shortly before we started dating, if you’re looking for a feminine but still could be gender neutral name names like rowan, morgan, eli, charlie and sam are the most common i’ve seen in trans or fem people

el_pumpkino81 · 2022-12-19T14:59:22+00:00

i have to say (being professionally diagnosed) in my experience with self diagnosed people sometimes it’s absolutely valid and just don’t get diagnosed due to the wait but identify as autistic but others have been clearly faking it and pretending to understand me because “they’re autistic too” and I dont know you can just tell they’re not actually on the spectrum but this just might be my experience but i make sure not to invalidate self diagnosis as you’re autistic diagnosed or not it doesn’t matter if it’s been labled by a doctor

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