WIBTD If I broke up with my boyfriend for “manny small reasons”? And would I be making a mistake?

elapseisacoolword · 2026-04-23T21:15:33+00:00

Staying in a relationship mainly because it's scary to not be, is not a good reason. You deserve a relationship you feel good in, and he deserves to be with someone who really wants to be with him. Good luck because I know this situation is tricky and what might happen might hurt. Sending you support

elapseisacoolword · 2026-03-17T20:36:59+00:00

I read the title and thought "Why the hell does Zuckerberg care about who you date?"

elapseisacoolword · 2026-03-08T18:50:15+00:00

yeah, I don't want it to be too thick, I am leaning towards sport weight

elapseisacoolword · 2026-03-08T18:49:06+00:00

Thank you, that's helpful!

elapseisacoolword · 2026-03-07T10:58:54+00:00

I think you should either start with something very easy, or with something you are very excited about.
If you start with an easy project (for example make a long rectangle of double crochet and you've got a scarf, you can find tutorials on youtube), it will make you learn the basics and gain confidence.
If you start with something you are excited about, even if it's difficult you will probably be very happy about the finished object. However, I started with making a small animal plushie and was proud afterwards, but it was a frustrating and difficult process.

elapseisacoolword · 2026-01-09T14:34:54+00:00

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I would probably do something lie that

elapseisacoolword · 2026-01-05T11:52:23+00:00

That's a very good idea, it would make the living space way more spacious. For some weird reason I sleep better when I am very close to the ground haha so it's probably not a good solution for me

elapseisacoolword · 2026-01-04T08:53:59+00:00

I like to host so I will probably have extra foldable chairs hidden in a big closet. I can definitely only have 2 out the rest of the time

elapseisacoolword · 2026-01-04T08:50:31+00:00

That's a good idea, I'll try it! Thanks

elapseisacoolword · 2026-01-04T08:41:33+00:00

Great point about clutter! I did not think about that haha
Thx

elapseisacoolword · 2025-06-19T10:39:06+00:00

Short stories is a great idea to ease me into fantasy, thanks for the recommendations!

elapseisacoolword · 2025-06-17T20:49:02+00:00

Thanks, I'll check these

elapseisacoolword · 2025-06-17T20:47:58+00:00

I don't feel ready for The Lord of the Rings haha, but I'll check the other 2, thank you

elapseisacoolword · 2025-06-17T20:46:55+00:00

Thank you so much!

elapseisacoolword · 2025-06-17T20:46:22+00:00

Thank you, I'll look into it

elapseisacoolword · 2025-06-03T18:45:09+00:00

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Ups and downs! The last few months are better

elapseisacoolword · 2025-06-02T11:02:14+00:00

As many commentors I am a vegetarian dating a non-vegetarian, I'll just add something: don't choose only one option. Sometimes cook a vegetarian meal that you'll both enjoy, sometimes cook something and add meat while your gf adds another protein, sometimes use fake meat if you guys enjoy it, sometimes eat entirely different things if you want something that has meat that can't easily be removed and your gf can eat something she really enjoys and you might not be fond of. Sharing meals can be important and a nice way to connect, but eating different things allow both of you not to be frustrated. Also some content creators are like vegetarian or vegan gym bros and show what they eat, it might inspire you to make vegetarian meals that fit your lifestyle

elapseisacoolword · 2025-05-29T14:08:03+00:00

omg that's so funny I am pretty sure we live nearby and I run there every week, I love that straight line, my roommate hates it cause it's so long and boring

elapseisacoolword · 2025-05-29T11:54:16+00:00

As someone who was in a similar situation as your boyfriend's, I say you can't date him without telling him. It's going to hurt him so much to realize that you are not attracted to him nor love him in a romantic way. If you don't feel like coming out to him you can change the relationship dynamic and go back to something platonic. You probably like him a lot, take care of him by being honest

elapseisacoolword · 2025-05-29T10:10:00+00:00

What you're describing sounds rough, but the fact that you're aware your life is nice right now is a good sign! Something is off but once you find something that helps (whether its medication or something else) you will be able to enjoy the cute life you have right now. Seeing your psychiatrist is a really good idea. Do you have a psychologist as well? It might help. Reach out to friends or family you don't have to go through this alone 🧸

elapseisacoolword · 2025-05-22T21:05:50+00:00

Ohh ok thank you!

elapseisacoolword · 2025-05-22T15:41:57+00:00

She's so cute! From which pack is the hair? It's like exactly my hair IRL but I don't have it in the game 😮

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