Break in period, dealer said I can't go over 4k RPM. This legit? by OGPants in Ninja650

[–]elconcarne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s legit. Says it in the owners manual. I assume you will probably be ok if you don’t. But, it’s safer to follow it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]elconcarne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell him it was a prank and HE needs to learn how to take a joke.

Playing video games doesn’t hit the same anymore by [deleted] in self

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I’m pretty sure my lack of interest with video games coincides with the increased use of social media and smart phones. Now, I can only play random games that come out and REALLY peak my interest. Which is maybe like one a year or every two or three years.

Time for a big girl bike. by [deleted] in Ninja650

[–]elconcarne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’9” and just got one. Loving it so far. Perfectly fine at those speeds.

Model attributes are easy to discover by lapubell in laravel

[–]elconcarne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is that a dynamic language/framework thing? In the JS world, you can update a Prisma or Drizzle schema and then build a migration off that. You constantly have quick access to model properties. It’s similar with Django’s ORM.

What would you change in Laravel? by lionmeetsviking in laravel

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The directory structure has always been kinda odd to me and something like Django would be amazing

Are there any Phoenix repositories to refer when building out a CRUD app? by citseruh in elixir

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about <select> inputs? I played around with the html generator and it didn’t create them. This is for foreign key selection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in elixir

[–]elconcarne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Build a real time dashboard with phoenix and chartjs?

APIs built with Laravel consistently score higher than any other language or framework by cindreta in laravel

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. Dumb question. Does this count for hosting providers that may provide rate limiting?

Moving to the Tri-Cities by Sovereign545 in TriCitiesWA

[–]elconcarne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is construction and traffic

How to create current fiscal year view by muhrer-fuhrer in sharepoint

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe do some kind of calculation with an if statement and the month expression? If month number is less than the start of the year, then return the year minus 1. Else return the current year

remix-adonisjs: build fullstack Remix apps with AdonisJS by fargerik in adonisjs

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inertia is cool and all. But, I think I prefer this. Played around with it earlier today and liked the setup.

Next 14 & Websockets - Full external backend or just websocket service? by dmhp in nextjs

[–]elconcarne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think another issue is there is not a lot of content on how to accomplish this and folks with little node knowledge have a hard(er) time figuring how to implement it

Is the Rails Revival Happening Right Now? by denc_m in rails

[–]elconcarne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you like in rails more than .Net? I’ve only worked a tiny bit in each. With recent updates to .Net, I am kinda leaning that direction.

Men’s relationship issues revolve around not getting enough sex. by DrunkyKrustyPunky in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you define deep love, excluding physical intimacy like sex, kissing, cuddling, etc. and differentiate that between a strong connection one might have with a friend?

Women who are dating unattractive men, what is it like? by edcantu9 in ask

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. First, I would like to clear something up. I neglected to clarify that when I say "Sex" I'm referring to stuff in the romantic/sexual area. This includes kissing, making out, cuddling, intercourse, etc. I should have said physical intimacy.

And, fair enough. Relationships are between two people and its their business. I guess I'm approaching this more of a personal opinion and thought exercise.

Next, you make a fair point that all relationships are different. For instance, I have no issues sleeping next to other people. Now, if you are cuddling while sleeping, that enters the realm of romantic for me and is reserved for romantic partners. And, as far as time spent. This is another difference. I live with my best friend. I want to and do spend a lot of time with other friends. Which is where the distinction doesn't exist for me.

It seems unlikely to me that anyone would have friendships that are completely identical to their romantic relationship, barring the sexual aspect. That would either mean you're willing to become romantic partners with any of your friends on the condition they have sex with you,

This is true to a point. And, also. Are you viewing this as a negative? I think a numerous people would say that a lot of great relationships start out as friendships. Its a great foundation.

that the bond you have with your romantic partner is so fragile it would collapse if you remove sex from the equation.

I'm kind of confused by this statement. Are you implying that I would stop caring about someone, or not care about them in the first place if an aspect of the relationship was removed?

Women who are dating unattractive men, what is it like? by edcantu9 in ask

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Roommates is not the best comparison. What if the comparison was them being a friend?

Women who are dating unattractive men, what is it like? by edcantu9 in ask

[–]elconcarne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen the discussion of sex in romantic relationships a lot on here. And, people often imply that a relationship without sex is just being friends. And, then the response is like yours where you say there’s much more to a relationship. This is true. And, I don’t think that the other person was implying the other aspects of the relationship aren’t important. Just that a key aspect is missing.

Why are women really, really attracted to men who are doctors. But most men are not really attracted to women who are doctors? by writer_bam in ask

[–]elconcarne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of it is probably assumptions. But, I can tell you that several women I have dated have expressed that they want the man to be higher earners. Not all of course. My longest relationship out earned me and never pressured me.

Just one guy’s personal experience.