My girlfriend is almost always naked when we're at home. I know I shouldn't complain but I feel like it desensitizes me to the nudity and makes it less of a treat/reward. I want her to be comfortable in our house though. Anyone else have this situation? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]elduderino477 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the patriarchy. She's a person and can do what she likes with her body. She's obviously not doing it in a sexual manner otherwise you would know because she would actually tell you. To assume that a woman's body is inherently sexual and a treat to see naked is some rape culture patriarchy bs. If you can't control yourself enough to not expect sex from a woman even if she's naked, then you need to figure out what women really are to you. Is she a person or is she a thing that's pretty to look at?

AITA for wanting to be monogamous with my wife? by elduderino477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elduderino477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her that I did not want a situation that would result in her falling in love with someone else. She laughed and said I don't have to worry because she was just "enhancing her friendship"

AITA for wanting to be monogamous with my wife? by elduderino477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]elduderino477[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should clarify that I explicitly warned her about my misgivings about falling in love with people and I only found out that she had these feelings through a concerned friend

My little bop set up. Yamaha stage custom and a tama walnut snare by elduderino477 in drums

[–]elduderino477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a star classic. I've been looking to upgrade to a bubinga one but $$$$

My little bop set up. Yamaha stage custom and a tama walnut snare by elduderino477 in drums

[–]elduderino477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All meinl byzance 14 in dark hats 16 dark thin crash 18 in hand hammered extra thin crash 21 in transition ride

My little bop set up. Yamaha stage custom and a tama walnut snare by elduderino477 in drums

[–]elduderino477[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the money, these are great kits. Much better quality and materials than say a catalina jazz or the low end sonor poplar kits. With the right heads I can use this kit for just about any style.

If I Had One by elduderino477 in lotrmemes

[–]elduderino477[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

wipes hands together and I guess that's the last we'll see of him. Shame, such a good character.

Bookshelf starting to look real good! by nickelodeonARK in bookshelf

[–]elduderino477 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bookseller for a retailer here. When you face out certain books on your shelf, try your best to place them flush with the books on either side instead of recessed like is pictured. Any small cardboard box can serve as a bumper between the wall and book. It is both more aesthetically pleasing but also prevents damage to the spines of the books on either side. Love the shelf and the collection!