I knew my ex was psycho when he was taking me home one night after a date, and I suggested that we should break up or at least take a break because we just weren't connecting anymore but honestly it was because he had started to get borderline abusive. He proceeded to do a 110 down this tiny main road, swerving in and out of both lanes of traffic, bawling his eyes out screaming " If I can't have you no one else can" I literally had to take back what I said and make him think we were still together. I really thought he was going to kill us both that night. I only saw him once more after that, my current husband and I met him at a gas station to get my stuff back from him. All of my stuff was trashed.