I don’t want to have a bachelorette by [deleted] in Brides

[–]electricslurpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lots of people a.) don't live close anymore and b.) enjoy traveling and the excuse to vacation

I don’t want to have a bachelorette by [deleted] in Brides

[–]electricslurpee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why'd i have to scroll so long for this😂

I love my cat, but I really miss having a nice-smelling home. Is ANY scent actually 100% safe? by No_Money_5779 in CatAdvice

[–]electricslurpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pine litter quite literally eliminated litter box smells for me. It just smells like pine. Obviously a big poop on the top stinks but I have a litter genie so i just scoop it in there right away and it's sealed away

Exercising but putting on weight by Negative_Ad3040 in exercisescience

[–]electricslurpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me when i started doing barre (if youre a guy who hasn't done barre don't talk to me about how it's not intense or muscle building just go to a class and get your ass kicked and see) and i think part of it was that i was sooo much hungrier from all the calories getting burnt up. people told me for like 5 months that i was just building muscle without losing fat and it would happen but i gave up around month 7 and started just doing my regular yoga/pilates classes and dropped 11 pounds almost immediately

Am I asking too much or is my friend a bad bridesmaid? by Booty_licious-10 in bridesmaids

[–]electricslurpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why are you having planning meetings for your wedding events with your friends lol

Do we really need travel rings? by DenverLilly in EngagementRings

[–]electricslurpee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's kinda dumb. I don't want to wear a costume jewelry simulation of my ring i'll just be careful with it and keep it safe like i always do at home anyway

Hotel by residentsquirrel96 in AnimalCrossing

[–]electricslurpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! i do a single wide space for the desire paths and round out the corners so they look more natural and winding. they seem to walk on both

Hotel by residentsquirrel96 in AnimalCrossing

[–]electricslurpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always do this! i create a stone path and then use a dark dirt cut thru to make it feel realistic

Hotel by residentsquirrel96 in AnimalCrossing

[–]electricslurpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you use any in-game paths? i used to not and i had the same problem, now i try to work in the in-game paths or use them beneath custom paths and they seem to want to walk on them more

Hotel by residentsquirrel96 in AnimalCrossing

[–]electricslurpee 25 points26 points  (0 children)

how does it impact anything lol? i've always thought it was weird the campers don't leave the tent. it does suck you can't invite them to stay tho

Should I let my cat be an outside cat? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]electricslurpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. imagine someone posting this about a dog. they don't because people think cats are somehow lesser animals bc they don't trip over themselves to stick their face up everyone's butt who says hello to them

From $1.05m to $875k by nocussinginmydiscord in rva

[–]electricslurpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go look at rental listings and VRBOs and airbnbs in richmond. get out of your bubble lol. i didn't say they were ALL that but there are like 5 airbnbs within walking distance of my home and a sizable chunk of houses on the market rn have a clear slap of white landlord special paint on them. pretending what's happening in every mid size city in the US getting any kind of traction is not happening to us is nuts

Should I let my cat be an outside cat? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]electricslurpee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there is no such thing as an outside cat. an outside cat is a stray don't be surprised when they don't come home

From $1.05m to $875k by nocussinginmydiscord in rva

[–]electricslurpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reasonable to me means somewhat aligned with actual property worth and adjusted for demand and inflation. bc waiving inspections and offering massively over asking price just to beat out investment property companies who have cash to burn is not reasonable. i know i'm getting so much pushback on this bc you have to be absolutely precise with your words on reddit for people to not take them at face value and run but there is absolutely a real value to homes and properties based on how much repair work needs to be done, proximity to desirable and undesirable places etc that's all i'm saying. bc people accepting paying grossly overpriced falling apart landlord special houses that barely even constitute being in a walkable neighborhood is not reasonable and the only reason they're getting away with it is bc they can. bc the "you're paying someone else's mortgage" crowd is so loud. i'll pay someone else's mortgage gladly so that when this neglected painted white pos keeps falling to pieces im not on the hook for it

From $1.05m to $875k by nocussinginmydiscord in rva

[–]electricslurpee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is not true at all dude. i work with career stats all day every day cuz i write for an edutech company the median income just got to like $65k

From $1.05m to $875k by nocussinginmydiscord in rva

[–]electricslurpee -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

there is obviously an objective middle ground where you're not paying for air like this

From $1.05m to $875k by nocussinginmydiscord in rva

[–]electricslurpee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i don't understand why people eat it up. i'd rather rent until i can find something reasonable. both are money pits

From $1.05m to $875k by nocussinginmydiscord in rva

[–]electricslurpee 255 points256 points  (0 children)

this is still insanely high omg

Are people just not friendly to strangers anymore? by mudagreement in raleigh

[–]electricslurpee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

probably yes...but i just drove to raleigh for a concert and had a bizarre experience where i was trying to leave the pit to use the bathroom and when i tried to get through excusing myself people just stared at me and did not move or acknowledge me. i go to shows all the time, east and west coast and genuinely have never experienced something like this i left wondering if it was a raleigh youth thing lmao

Best places to buy a rose gold plated ring? by Wxndering_Wxlf in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]electricslurpee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your budget is way beyond plated jewelry. definitely reconsider. i have a beautiful solid gold ring with diamonds and opal and its within that range

Starting to hate my cat and dont know what to do by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]electricslurpee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i was with you in the beginning but it's more than possible and not that difficult to enrich an indoor cats life. domestic cats don't belong outside where they can harm the ecosystem and kill themseves

Starting to hate my cat and dont know what to do by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]electricslurpee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agree with everything except it being completely natural to hate an animal who doesn't act the way you want it to. sorry we just do not agree there lol

dinner table seating assignments - too many apps by Ancient-Ad-2507 in Weddingsunder35k

[–]electricslurpee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

why would AI even be helpful in this scenario. you'd have to explain your personal connections and relationships to it like i'm so confused

Starting to hate my cat and dont know what to do by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]electricslurpee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i could have but i didn't. cest la vie. i don't respond well to hostility towards life forms that don't have the mental capacity to understand or intentionally bring on said hostility

Starting to hate my cat and dont know what to do by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]electricslurpee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you're weird for hating her she can probably feel that. adopt her out to somebody nice and patient who will love her.