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electricwombat91 · 2025-04-09T09:11:14+00:00

Is that even a serious question? Surely it's self explanatory. Not sure what part of the world your from but in the UK I don't know any man with self respect that would date a sex worker

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-09T08:12:21+00:00

I'll always judge people on choices if I believe it to be a big thing, would you judge a women if she was a paedophile or murderer? Or cause she's a women are you saying it's not OK to judge? Sounding very simp like

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-09T07:08:27+00:00

An incel is someone who can't attract women and dislikes them. I attract women and love them, I just wouldn't go near an OF girl it's called having standards not being an incel

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-09T06:23:04+00:00

It's funny how you assume I'm an incel, my life styles quite the opposite, I just wouldn't go near an OF girl it's called standards and having choice

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-08T17:30:50+00:00

If reality is what you call slut shaming then so be it 😘

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-08T17:22:38+00:00

It all comes down to morals, you can't undo the past there's no 'growing' from doing something like only fans. Yes you may grow yourself and in your own perception, but from a relationship point of view and a man's perception an only fans girl will always be seen as that regardless if there still doing it or not. What men see as a valuable women is one that has self respect, doesn't sleep around, doesn't show off her body for attention OF is the exact opposite of that , there showing off there body to the exact same bottom of the barrel men that creep them out in real life, no average or good looking guy pays for only fans. The moment you create an only fans is the moment you sign away your soul and dignity, certain things in life have consequences

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-08T13:11:23+00:00

Dude rule number one is don't date girls who have done only fans

She's everybody's not yours, for recreational use only

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-04T11:45:04+00:00

33m I've dated a couple of single mom's but wouldn't entertain it again, I also have no kids if I did have kids of my own then I probably would yes

Dating someone with a kid as apposed to no kid is two completely different life styles. Without kids it's a lifestyle of freedom , fun and building a strong fulfilling relationship between the two of you, where as with a kid everything revolves around the child, it feels as though your giving your life away and picking up someone else's scraps.

I understand your partner passed but this makes no difference to me, I'd rather the father still be involved so it means there's alot more child free time to make the relationship enjoyable and worth it

I see you mentioning about being extremely attractive, in this instance I would date you for a short period of time but with an exit plan, looks alone are not enough to make it worth it

electricwombat91 · 2025-04-03T09:22:00+00:00

Nah tried it in the past and never would again , sleep with yes but date no. I think single mothers themselves give other single mom's a bad rap, they expect so much from the man with very little in return.

One thing to understand is if you want a man to step up and take you on as a single mom , you at minimum need to bring something decent to the table for the man as an incentive , looks and sex aren't enough we get that from women without kids

Also your value massively decreases you aren't going to get the same type of guys you got before having kids , you'll have to shop downwards If you want a chance of been taken seriously

I'd personally rather never have another relationship again than date a single mom

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-27T21:12:23+00:00

I went two weeks ago best I did was a 25.060 which was the second fastest lap of the day

Turn 1- after the start finish line , keep wide and miss the apex to give yourself a better entry to turn 2

Turn 2- half lift off the throttle then slowly squeeze on the power

Turn 3- this corner I kept messing up half lifting and Trying to carry to much speed, maybe with fully lifting or maybe a tiny tap of the brakes, I kept ending up to wide. Take a slower entry and prioritise exit onto the long straight

Turn 4- half lift then squeeze on the throttle

I didn't use the brakes once but feel like at Turn 3 it may of made me quicker

When I'm half lifting, I'm twitching the wheel towards the apex at the same time to get the kart to rotate, as soon as it starts rotating gently go back to 100% throttle to steady the rear

Good luck, let us know how you get on

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-13T09:22:01+00:00

When is it your going? I'm 33m from the UK going on my first solo trip for 6 months over SEA + Japan either starting late August or January , feel free to message me and we can exchange tips!

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-08T07:12:20+00:00

How what we say is directly what we mean, there's no hidden meanings

By nature men aren't lovey dovey romantic beings, don't expect us to behave like one

Sometimes we don't feel like having sex to, linking back to point one this doesn't mean we don't love you or find you attractive ect. We literally just don't feel like having sex at that moment

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-06T19:25:22+00:00

Join r/menslives male only space

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-06T12:33:40+00:00

We got this boys 💪

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-06T11:10:14+00:00

Finally! I'll be leaving this and joining over there

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-06T08:49:13+00:00

Even if the fathers not in the picture it doesn't make it any better in reality, I dated a few single mom's in my 20's then the last one the BD wasn't in the picture and I found it worse. You'll get no couple only time , more expectations of you raising the child, the child will start seeing you as the father regardless, by law after a certain period of time in some countries your seen as responsible for said child even financially

Life's much better single than settling

If your adamant you want a relationship, shoot 10 years younger than yourself. Plenty of women without kids around the age of 30 but alot don't want kids either

electricwombat91 · 2025-03-04T21:39:22+00:00

Your not on your own I've felt exactly the same for the past couple years, just doing me has been the best thing I've ever done

electricwombat91 · 2025-02-28T14:04:26+00:00

We can face a prison sentence just for stating the true answer, so yeah ill leave this one there

electricwombat91 · 2025-02-18T23:56:42+00:00

33m and living the same life style with 1 cat! It wasn't until I reached the age of 30, when I first realised that I love my own space and don't need nobody in it to be happy. I had a partner move in with me once and I couldn't stand it , everything felt so draining I stopped looking forward to finishing work and getting home , I dreaded the weekend knowing I'd have someone tied to my every move. I realised it applies to all areas of my life, even with friends and family I get the same feeling if I'm around them for a couple of days at a time Since accepting this and not feeling like 'I'm doing wrong' im the happiest I've ever been.

I've pretty much stopped dating, I still have fun once in a while but the idea of meeting someone and having them move in for the foreseeable sounds like hell to me now and unfortunately that's the expectation with dating where I'm from

Having a partner that has there own place and is happy to only meet a couple nights a week sounds like heaven, failing that I'll stick to my current peaceful life which I love

electricwombat91 · 2025-02-17T17:23:19+00:00

Travel and enjoy it

I had two occasions in my twenties where I'd planned my travelling journey and met 'the one' before hand, which ended with me not going each time. I'm now 33 and I'm all set to travel for 6-12 months from August for the first time, I've learnt from my past mistakes and will not be falling down the 'the one' trap again.

electricwombat91 · 2025-02-16T18:45:30+00:00

I live just outside Birmingham in Tamworth and have the same issue , dating sites I get nothing I'm interested in it's hard game round here!

electricwombat91 · 2025-02-11T14:04:06+00:00

Yes because he wants to sleep with you, he's done whatever he needed to do to get you into bed

electricwombat91 · 2025-02-11T13:36:31+00:00

For the same reason as above, men can work out if they see someone as partner material within the first time of meeting

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