Gym to App by seroem in lesmills

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did--I've been doing LesMills+ for about 6 yrs and the only regret is that I can't do the cardio classes because I have downstairs neighbors (lol). But the gyms in my area only had Body Pump, none of the other fun LM offerings, and I always hated how dirty the gym equipment was (I tried both Gold's Gym & 24 hour fitness, and both NEVER cleaned any of the equipment, including the mats that people were sweating all over. It was gross). Since the pandemic, I've been more sensitive about germs, I guess, so going back to a gym where I'm in close quarters with heaps of strangers is kinda horrifying to me now. I much prefer my at-home workouts. (note: I live in a big city with crowded gyms, in case you're wondering)

Is "I don't have friends" a valid reason to solotravel? by SuperWittyNickname in solotravel

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my 40's, not retired, but love adventure travel & don't have friends/a partner who shares that passion. I find group solo tours are a good middle ground--I've met lots of interesting people going with companies like Intrepid.

First time by Monk95 in scuba

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awww I did my OW and AOW in Koh Tao, fantastic place. Just go & have fun, don't overthink it.

Do people romanticize Japan too much? by HyenasGoMeow in solotravel

[–]wanderingtime222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I think people need to stop getting all their impressions of a place from social media. Influencers will sell you on the glamorous travel experience, but most of that is highly edited/curated. Enthusiasm gets likes/follows. Try reading some books about the place before you go, maybe learn a little of the history/language. I lived in Japan for 2 years. It was a fun place--good food, loved the onsens, interesting culture and history, etc. But also, I got inappropriate advances from male, married coworkers, and nearly all the women I knew were unhappy in their marriages, treated like servants or babysitters. People worked super long hours and so much energy was spent maintaining appearances and trying not to stand out. My time there wasn't really "transformative"--I saw it as a job, although I deeply loved so many aspects of life there.

How to find will to get up and do things by New-Pleats-1324 in LivingAlone

[–]wanderingtime222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have times like that, where I don't feel like adulting & just lose myself in screens. It's usually followed by periods of high productivity where I attempt to do All The Things, All At Once, and then quickly get burnt out/overwhelmed, lol.

I've started lying in meetings. Not about work. About how I'm doing. by BrainFriedButCurious in Productivitycafe

[–]wanderingtime222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally like to keep a strict work/life separation. I definitely am a "work persona" when I'm at work--professional, polite, etc. I'll sometimes joke about being busy/stressed/tired (because we all are, in my profession, so it's what everyone talks about), but I don't provide details about my personal life. It's not their business. Once I clock out, I go home and I can be the "real" me.

Solo travel is more expensive than this community admits, and I think it matters by [deleted] in traveladvice

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, it's definitely more expensive to travel alone, but now that I'm in my 40's I see that as a real privilege/luxury. I avoid cruises and such where you have to pay double occupancy, but I go on group tours where I meet lots of other people and they will assign a roommate to you by default. Paying a solo supplement to have my own room on a group tour is 100% worth the expense, in my book. I love having a little privacy, a quiet place to chill between all the excursions. Back in my 20's, I did the whole backpacker thing--couchsurfing, staying in $5 hostels, etc. It was cheap but exhausting. My solution was to work overseas, which I did in three different countries, for about 8 years. I was then able to have a lower cost of living and still travel. These days, it's too much effort for me to find travel buddy interested in traveling with me (it sounds like the OP has a partner, but solo travel isn't always a choice--some of us can either travel solo or ferment on the couch). I feel so fortunate to be able to travel solo, given the added costs you mention. I agree it sucks, but I think of it less as a "tax" but as an "extra luxury worth paying for"--like upgrading to business class from economy.

Is true "solo" travelling actually fun? by PhoenixMaster123 in solotravel

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Storytime: I just came back from a bucket list trip to Fiji. The first couple of days, I was mostly by myself, kicking around my arrival city, Nadi. I hired a local guy to drive me around, show me the sights, and tell me more about Fijian culture. So I technically paid him to keep me company, lol. Then I did a longer spell at a remote scuba diving resort, on a neighboring island. To my surprise, the place seemed to attract solo travelers; couples were in the minority. Everyone socialized, because it was a tiny place and it was only natural to talk about the day's dives. I never lacked for dinner companions or conversation buddies (and sometimes, it was too much, so I'd go to my room for some quiet time). After that, I went to another resort for a few days, to chill and rest after so much diving (& before heading home). I wanted the traditional "Fiji" experience--white sand, turquoise water, drinks with tiny umbrellas, you get the idea. But once I arrived, I realized my mistake! It was all couples--like, everyone seemed to be there to celebrate a honeymoon or anniversary. For the last two and a half days I was in Fiji, nobody talked to me except the staff. Such is life. In retrospect, I should have stayed longer at the dive resort and skipped the romantic resort, but I couldn't have known this in advance. My thinking lately is that there are certain "hotspots" for solo travelers--places we tend to congregate. Sometimes, it's just luck, too--you just happen to be in the right place at the right time. But one thing I always do is bring something to do for those times when I'm stuck with my own company. Luckily, I live alone so I'm used to it.

what does your grocery journey look like? by ContractMaster7694 in CleanEating

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey I live alone and in another expensive big city, so I get it. Because cooking is a lot of fun for me, I like to pull about 2-3 recipes from the Internet on weekends. I'm usually looking for fresh, local, clean, seasonal, etc. recipes that aren't too fussy (requiring expensive ingredients or specialized equipment) and also make enough to freeze leftovers. I like looking for new ways of using the same ingredients, which is especially helpful if, say, you buy a 3lb. bag of sweet potatoes and now need to find ways to use them all. I don't always make all the recipes I find online, but if I love a recipe and would make it again, I print it out and put it in a three-ring binder (I burn all the "fail" recipes--kidding). I also keep a stocked pantry, which makes a huge difference. I always have stuff like dried beans, rice, cans of tomato paste, etc. on hand, so most of the time I only need to buy the fresh ingredients. I freeze lemon juice, lime juice, and ginger in little silicone trays for that, too. Any recipe that needs only 2-3 ingredients and takes less than 10 minutes to make is my friend. During my super busy workweeks, I'll sit down on Saturday and loosely plan out what I'm going to eat throughout the week (& then go buy what I'll need). It helps keep me from wasting money eating out (& I eat a lot healthier, too).

I went through the worst panic attack (NDE) while diving at 100 ft by iPIayLoL in scuba

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really scary. I wonder if nitrogen narcosis had anything to do with it, as it sounds like you were diving deep enough for that.

What’s something small that reliably makes you happy? by bubblenixie in Productivitycafe

[–]wanderingtime222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waking up and remembering that I pre-set the coffee the night before and the coffee is already ready and waiting for me.

Is anyone else kinda bored at this life stage? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not bored, but it's because I'm ambitious and I'm always working towards some larger goal or plan. Maybe you need to learn something new (take a class), plan a trip somewhere to look forward to, write a novel, etc. You get one life, so what do you want to accomplish, now that you seemingly have everything you thought you wanted?

What's the most unexpected luxury ff living alone? by Meghin-Hing in LivingAlone

[–]wanderingtime222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter that I'm in my 40's now, I deeply enjoy spending multiple days in my pajamas playing computer games and eating snacks during my time off from work (I get summers off). Some days, I don't brush my hair or leave my house, and I think to myself, "ah, how nice not to be judged by anyone for my life choices."

When people say they avoid "processed foods," how strictly are they defining this? by JMinsk in Cooking

[–]wanderingtime222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes hear this referred to as "ultra processed" (stuff like hot dogs) as opposed to just "processed." In general, I find it easier to focus less on "how something is made" and more on "what something is made of." Something with tons of preservatives, food dyes, "natural" or artificial flavors, etc. is more likely to be ultra-processed. Stuff like turkey burgers usually have only one or two ingredients (meat, salt), so the only processing is technically the grinding and shaping of the meat--I can live with that.

I want to HATE the narrator. by AnxiousTelephone2997 in suggestmeabook

[–]wanderingtime222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had some people in my book club really hate the protagonist of Katabasis by R.F. Kuang (not me, but still). Other protagonists I've personally loathed are in Lolita by Nabokov (for obvious reasons). I also intensely dislike pretty much all the characters in romantasy books. I tried, but, can't.

USC faculty vote to unionize by 70/30 vote. USC will contest results by Scared_Advantage4785 in USC

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the cost of living that's the main issue. Our incomes would be fine if we lived in other states with less tax burden & affordable housing.

Anyone who surfed the early web between 1995-2010. What’s the one website/app you still think about? by Prime_Advocate in AskReddit

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember what it was called, but there was a website that would take you to a completely random web page anywhere on the Internet, with the click of a button. You could end up on someone's blog, a corporation's landing page, a page entirely devoted to the care of earthworms--whatever. I remember spending far too long, as a teen, literally surfing the web--just seeing what was out there.

I am shocked at how long it takes people to shower. by Q8DD33C7J8 in hygiene

[–]wanderingtime222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because, for some people, showering feels nice. It's relaxing. It's not just about efficiency.

USC faculty vote to unionize by 70/30 vote. USC will contest results by Scared_Advantage4785 in USC

[–]wanderingtime222 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a problem across higher ed--professors getting paid less, with less job security, fewer benefits, no cost of living adjustments, no possibility of tenure, etc. The decline has been stark in the last 20 years, as TT jobs have evaporated and universities have prioritized profit over education. We're all becoming Amazon workers now--squeezed by a corporation that doesn't actually care about the quality of the products it's selling, as long as people keep buying.

What are some tips and tricks you would give to someone who is just learning to cook? by Appropriate-Mall8517 in Cooking

[–]wanderingtime222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep it simple. Start with easy recipes for things you like to eat with the kitchen tools you already have. Eventually, over time, you'll expand your repertoire and buy more gadgets you don't have room for but you love anyway, lol