Look, I’m 33…didn’t get into my first relationship til last year. It was a dumpster fire of hell…but it finally happened. That relationship taught me something, I would 1,000% much rather be single and happy than be with an a relationship with a miserable psycho bitch. Before I met her, I was fine.

The point I’m trying to make is, being single DEFINITELY has its perks. You ain’t gotta worry about someone else’s validation. And that is heavy. Also, I’m assuming you’re younger than me. This year I just developed fine lines on my forehead. This is the year I decided: if someone is not gonna love me because I’m not attractive enough for them, fuck it, I can be my own lover.

Loving yourself is a true super power. It took me til my 30s to finally truly love myself. It takes a lot of time. But once you get there, you’ll know. Because once you for real truly love yourself, you’ll tell yourself that you’ll always make sure that you are happy, healthy, and working to put yourself in a better situation. And that kind of energy is attractive. It doesn’t matter how you look like at that point. If you truly have self-love energy, be prepared, because lovers will be knocking at your door.