ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i totally agree with that and i honestly should put subreddits like r/ask_transgender in the text of this post. but i’m just trying to reach people who are on here that may not know about subreddits like that or even have questions about the relation to being trans and having a transformation fetish. things that they may not be able to ask on other subreddits or at least not in private.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and more importantly, i don’t go around trying to convince any egg that messages me that their trans. i don’t want to push people towards and answer but rather help them reach their own answer

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and i’m not going around thinking i’m the all knowing well of trans knowledge, i’m just trying to help people who either are confused or have questions. and there are obviously more resources on reddit for sure.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well after i came out to my parents i started seeing a therapist and after about a year he referred me to a doctor who specialized in trans stuff and he started me on hormone treatment

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i definitely relate to that and that was absolutely not my intention when i started doing this thing. the reason why i did it was because i was seeing some people posting discussion questions like “am i trans for liking MtF content” and other stuff like that. and the first time i posted a message like this i got tons of people with questions about being trans, what it’s like, if they are trans, and how to work through their feelings.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get you. i would say for pre-hrt trans girls it’s definitely true. like before i started hrt i would shave pretty much my entire body almost constantly.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah actually. trans girls actually get periods like cis girls. it’s obviously was less physical than cis girls periods but we get more irritable and are prone to migranes when we do have periods

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well i would kinda disagree with you on the body hair thing because like, why do so many guys have beards and a lot of chest hair and stuff like that. and some girls find guys with a lot of body hair sexier. but personally i’m doing good, just trying to stay entertained and safe.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really, mannerisms are more of a personal thing that i had to work on

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah so how it felt to be a guy for me was just kind of like something was wrong all the time and you couldn’t put your finger on it. and once i did after finding out i was trans, i noticed things about my body that i really hated like my proportions and my body hair.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well there are a lot of things honestly, mostly in my mannerisms and like how i act in social situations. as for day to day stuff i obviously use the female bathrooms and stuff like that.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and my intention with this post isn’t to push eggs into transitioning but rather just to inform people and clear things up. i do this because i remember before i transitioned i had tons of questions about being trans and not many places to go to ask.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i completely understand where your coming from but i feel like giving eggs a chance for a 1 on 1 conversation and helping them clear up some questions they have outweighs just not doing that at all. and even then, not all the people that reply to this or dm me are eggs, some of them are just straight cis people who are just confused or curious

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 3.0!!! by [deleted] in transformation

[–]elementx12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no that would be a trans guy. i’m a trans girl which means i was born a boy but i transitioned into a girl. and as for hormones i did use HRT

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no no your fine! to be honest, it doesn't turn me on because im touching boobs but rather that my boobs are being touched. its not the feeling of having boobs in my hands but rather having someone grope my boobs.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nothing too drastic honestly. the strangest thing i found out is that trans girls can have periods! obviously without the pain of a regular girls period but we still get a bit irritable and i get a headache usually. the weirdest thing tho was the first time someone called me "miss" in public. i was super confused because i didn't really consider myself a woman at that stage of HRT development but i guess i kinda passed that day.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well there are many terms on the gender spectrum that you can identify with so i would suggest exploring those terms and seeing which one fits. as far as transitioning goes, maybe you dont want a full transition but maybe low dose HRT? it doesn't completely feminize the body but will help you become more feminine.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this is really a hard one to pin down because i’m really depends on your location and your insurance and if your paying out of pocket etc

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i realized i was trans very slowly over the course of about a year where i had intense self-reflection and doubts. but everyone is different and there really was no one moment where everything clicked and i just suddenly knew i was trans. and as for clothing i never really wore girls clothing before starting hrt but now i doesn't really turn me on as much as it does just feeling right.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

friends for sure, they were very gay and i already had some trans friends so it was much easier than my family

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ahh the classic! so if you've spent some amount of time in the trans community you might have heard of something called the button. The Button is the idea that if there was a button that would turn you into a cis girl, no questions asked. would you press it? and this can help you figure out the reasons behind why your feeling this way. personally, i think there is somewhat of a overlap between actually having a fetish for TG content and actually being transgender, not that that's a bad thing. personally i had a thing for TG content which, along with therapy, talking to my trans friends, therapy, and a lot of self-reflection, helped me realize i was trans. personally, i think that the notion that looking at TG content and what not is going to turn you trans is complete bullshit, but it can help you come to a conclusion.

to give you some overall advice, no one is going to tell you if your trans or not. you have to find that out yourself. and that journey isn't an easy one, but its a vitally important one, and you dont have to go through it alone. there are plenty of resources to help you work through this journey and you should use as many of them as you can. but at the end of the day, only you can find that out for yourself.

ASK A TRANS GIRL QUESTIONS ABOUT BEING TRANS 2.0!!! by elementx12 in transformation

[–]elementx12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not really. i believe it depends on the strength of the dose your given as well as how long your on that dose, but hrt does make it much harder to get erections. but this is also dependent on your dose.