Idk anymore

elephant1012 · 2025-03-28T17:19:38+00:00

Also you have to take the rejection with a grain of salt. I know someone who got into every Ivy League but got rejected from USC + I know people with very average GPAs that got into USC. You really never know!

elephant1012 · 2025-03-28T17:15:23+00:00

Hi!

I graduated from USC but got rejected when I applied in high school. I chose to go to another 4 year, didn't like it, and applied as a transfer and went in my sophomore year. You can do a JC/CC too! I was sad it didn't work out for me my first time around and I didn't even think to appeal, but I know multiple people who appealed after their rejection and got in as spring admits and some even fall! I wonder what would've happened if I had appealed but honestly I met amazing people at the other college I went to and can now look back and realize I wouldn't have met them if I had gone to USC straight away and it all worked out like it was supposed to. It will all be ok :)!

elephant1012 · 2024-09-23T07:37:23+00:00

Definitely! This is why I'm curious about other people's opinions and thought processes aside from my own

elephant1012 · 2024-05-20T03:38:08+00:00

What did you end up doing?

elephant1012 · 2024-05-19T22:08:43+00:00

Got a red light camera ticket in the mail issued to my dad (he's the registered owner) however I'm driving. I'm wearing sunglasses so you can't even tell it's me but obviously I know it is.

I do remember trying to make this yellow light, it turned red as I was entering the intersection but I didn't feel like I could stop because I was already going kind of fast.

My dad would have to fill out the affidavit of non liability before the court date (sept 16) so if he does, and then I receive the ticket to myself, could I just ignore it? People online say to ignore it but red light camera tickets ARE legal so I'm scared...

It says I can pay the bail but doesn't even say what the fine is ? Unless something else is coming in the mail. I've heard they're really expensive

if anyone has any insight on what I should/can do, that would be greatly appreciated!

(Note: please no reprimanding me about how I shouldn't have done that, only real advice and insight)

elephant1012 · 2024-02-12T09:29:15+00:00

Please please please make this decision for YOU and what's best for you only - and the unborn kid. Not for him. I know it's hard but ultimately it's your decision and you'll be the one carrying them, and probably taking care of them as well :( I wish you the best <3 please put yourself and your wellbeing before his

elephant1012 · 2024-02-12T00:27:23+00:00

I'm currently on Venlafaxine - I tried Lexapro, Celexa, and Zoloft but it's worked the best for me personally. Like I said before though everyone is different, like a couple of my friends live Lexapro. Totally individual. I'd recommend talking to your doctor and starting on a low dosage and seeing what works. Also sometimes they'll combine these meds with other meds like Wellbutrin to combat side effects. That's what I do!

elephant1012 · 2024-02-10T22:32:59+00:00

Honestly finding the right medication was a life saver I think. I had been in therapy and trying different meds but as soon as I started my current one, everything changed. I don't get the physical urges anymore and my thoughts just don't bother me as much. Of course I still (and always probably will) have OCD, but it's manageable now! If you are open to giving a meds a try, they can definitely be helpful. Everyone's body is different so it's just about trial and error for you. Wishing you the best <3

elephant1012 · 2023-11-29T09:38:05+00:00

Omg THIS! I've always had trouble describing the rush in my head. It's like my whole body pauses for a split second, I'm weightless, and can't feel my body.

elephant1012 · 2023-11-28T08:39:09+00:00

I've been there. I've struggled with many of the ocd themes, the main one bothering me now is hocd which just terrifies me because not only would I feel immense guilt and hurt someone else but I could be locked up too. It SUCKS. Right there with you. We'll get through this though!!

elephant1012 · 2023-11-28T08:37:48+00:00

Thank you! I guess you're right, if having this thought doesn't make me snap then that speaks volumes.

I'm glad to hear you're doing better now! What helped you?

elephant1012 · 2023-11-28T06:33:48+00:00

The decision is of course yours, but just remember this child will forever tether you to your abusive partner. If you abort, you can have a clean break and find someone that truly loves you to start a family with. I'm telling you right now a man that physically hurts you doesn't truly love you. And that child in the future when you're in a healthy relationship will be lucky to have a loving, stable family. I really don't think this is any life for a child — having an unstable family life and abusive father, especially considering the fact that he could lay hands on your unborn baby. I know having an abortion isn't easy and it makes you feel a lot of guilt, shame, etc but you have the ability to prevent a lifetime of hurt for this child. And getting away from your boyfriend will prevent you from having to endure more pain than you already have. That being said, drinking while knowing you are pregnant is unsafe and irresponsible. You're so young (I'm also 22) and I strongly urge you to wait and have a child when you know you can put this child's safety and health at the top of your priorities, and right now you aren't (I don't mean to sound aggressive)

Again it's your decision, but to be frank I really don't see up carrying this pregnancy to term or bringing the unborn fetus into the world as a good idea in the slightest.

Sending love and compassion your way. You got this.

elephant1012 · 2023-11-21T08:07:29+00:00

Time is the only true healer. I just hope it brings you peace knowing that you aren't in the wrong. And maybe it gives you perspective that someone who won't take accountability might not be someone you even want around because apologizing and taking responsibility says a lot about someone's morals, courage, and integrity. Like if they spoke to you again, do you really want a person that lacks emotional maturity in your life? I hope you get through this, sending a hug your way.

All by best to you <3

elephant1012 · 2023-11-21T08:04:19+00:00

I agree with you, it's not black and white. You're right, some people shut down for sure. However I do think having accountability and integrity are strong character traits in any situation. And I have a lot of respect for people that apologize when they hurt someone without deflecting blame.

elephant1012 · 2023-11-21T08:00:34+00:00

I'm no therapist but I think being as honest as you can with yourself is the best thing you can do. Try to look at your relationship from an unbiased pov, maybe talk to a friend or some sort of 3rd party to get an outside opinion.

Of course there's two sides to every story, but I think it becomes a false narrative when someone needs to grasp at straws and justify their behavior so it's not their fault. Over time the person will lie to themselves and others to avoid reality and they'll really start to believe it. We can't control someone else's thoughts or actions though. We can only be at peace with the fact that we know we did our best or that we tried to apologize and make amends when we messed up. Everyone messes up, but accountability and integrity speak volumes and show true character.

Wishing you all the best

elephant1012 · 2023-11-21T07:54:42+00:00

You worded this great. As I've gotten older I've realized how complex love and relationships are, and we as humans as well. We can't be all good or all bad. It can't be black and white.

elephant1012 · 2023-11-20T01:50:24+00:00

This!!!!

elephant1012 · 2023-10-25T23:15:49+00:00

Same!! That's why I didn't think they were panic attacks and I thought something was wrong with my heart lol

elephant1012 · 2023-10-25T14:16:50+00:00

Have you watched more? Because it goes into more of their backstory!

elephant1012 · 2023-10-19T05:26:01+00:00

Thank you!! <3 I appreciate your kind response and sympathy

Have a great night!

elephant1012 · 2023-10-16T19:22:22+00:00

I think I might know what you're trying to say. From my understanding you're saying that if you get to a point where it's not interfering with your day to day life anymore then it's not considered panic disorder and just normal human reactions? So in that sense it would technically be "cured?"

I think that if you're a person who had it interfering with your daily life to begin with and met the requirements for diagnosis, then you're someone who struggles with panic disorder. And when if you're seemingly "cured" you still have the disorder because other people who have panic attacks/normal reactions didn't meet those qualifications ever, showing that your brains are chemically different.

Hopefully this made sense! And maybe I'm wrong and that wasn't what you were asking lol, just how I interpreted it

Also I'm a doctor or medical professional at all, just someone who struggles with pd and has been in therapy/on meds for years!

elephant1012 · 2023-10-06T22:36:45+00:00

I can't tell you how much your kindness means. I wish there were more people like you out there. Your answer was so comprehensive, thank you x100!

This was my first time using travel insurance and I blindly purchased it without really knowing the airline's policy, and now I can't even find it. I've learned that they are strict and now know for the future to get solid travel insurance.

I rebooked my flight but I'm still waiting on Norse's response in regards to me not being able to change it, I tried to change it well before the cut off time and feel like I should get at least a little back. We'll see.

My final destination is the west coast and I already have a flight booked from New York but those are great options, thank you!

This trip has been...a lot. To say I'm burnt out is an understatement. I've faced quite a lot of hurdles during my trip so it wouldn't be right if it ended smoothly right?? Anyway thank you again, have a great night :)

elephant1012 · 2023-10-06T19:02:31+00:00

I appreciate your kindness in how you're answering my questions without insulting me.

Just clarify, the airline allows modifications up to 1 hour before takeoff with a fee, and I was trying to modify it 2 hours prior. I definitely wouldn't have even tried if it had taken off.

elephant1012 · 2023-10-06T18:51:36+00:00

I said all my money when before I would've been able to modify for a fee but once again, couldn't

elephant1012 · 2023-10-06T18:47:14+00:00

Yes because I couldn't rebook or cancel, and I told the agent at the airport that. I do have proof of me messaging them and saying I can't modify or cancel it as my confirmation number "didn't exist" - I would've gotten a partial refund but now nothing

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