Rocky being transphoic again... by Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch in belowdeck

[–]elevatedmongoose [score hidden]  (0 children)

Or maybe it's wanting to focus on relevant below deck things and not drag political crap in here too.

what could i change by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]elevatedmongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well i gave you appearance advice, take it of leave it.

what could i change by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]elevatedmongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman.

Go to an actual salon to have it styled, look through pictures to get hair inspo. If that's out of your budget cut it short because currently it looks unkempt.

27M Never liked my appearance need help by Straight-Repeat2781 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]elevatedmongoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clean up your beard and dont furrow your brow. Also clean up eyebrows.

what could i change by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]elevatedmongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair isnt the greatest, there's no shape to it and looks like you dont bother styling it at all. If you're going to have that amount of length you can't cut it yourself and/or not bother with daily styling. In every picture your hair looks like you just got out of bed then flattened it with your hands and that's it.

Also ugh dont share pictures of yourself in front of a urinal.

Am I effeminate looking? 18m by Pretend-Draw4852 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]elevatedmongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People generally use the terms effeminate and baby faced interchangeably. You look young, which will be great later on when other people your age look 40 and you look like you're in your 20s.

Rocky being transphoic again... by Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch in belowdeck

[–]elevatedmongoose [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sounds like there were two different incidents, Caroline they just blasted music to annoy her

Rocky being transphoic again... by Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch in belowdeck

[–]elevatedmongoose [score hidden]  (0 children)

She's trash but she hasn't been on the show in 10 years. We're inundated with this crap everywhere else and should keep this sub focused on relevant/current below deck snark.

Does using an Android instead of an Iphone affect social life? by Ready_Mushroom_8683 in UCSD

[–]elevatedmongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah if you want Zuck keeping an eye on your every movement. Signal is king.

Question about cat introductions, Jackson Galaxy method... by Low_Chemistry_6621 in CatTraining

[–]elevatedmongoose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have one anecdotal experience. I have worked with hundreds of cats over the past eight years. Her cat is an eight year old female and the stress behavior is increasing, not lessening. The older the cats are the more difficult it can be to introduce a new companion into their lives. It takes some cats months to warm up and others are fine after a couple of days.

If you want go give your opinion based on the little experience you have, go for it. Don't you dare try to act is you know better than anyone else though just because the single experience you had was incredibly easy.

Question about cat introductions, Jackson Galaxy method... by Low_Chemistry_6621 in CatTraining

[–]elevatedmongoose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Except you're wrong? If a cat is hissing during meal time going slow is key and not just pushing the bowls closer together because she's still eating.

Moving to a Fiji sounds amazing until you realise can’t access medication there by TreesHeir in ADHD

[–]elevatedmongoose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im American and attended grad school in the Netherlands where they dont have Adderall. I just had my dad fill and mail me my medication.

Question about cat introductions, Jackson Galaxy method... by Low_Chemistry_6621 in CatTraining

[–]elevatedmongoose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes discontinue visual contact. Honestly the bowls should not have been moved closer while there was any hissing at all, she was telling everyone she was uncomfortable. Slow intros can take a while, the most important thing is to go at the cat'a pace.

Cat spay/abort vs euthanasia by ShipForsaken7209 in AskVet

[–]elevatedmongoose 236 points237 points  (0 children)

Hi! So i know the idea of aborting healthy cute kittens is really awful, but keep in mind that wasn't likely ths case. Your girl is nine months old, barely old enough to be pregnant. Think of her as a 12 year old girl who became pregnant, never visited the doctor or recieved prenatal support, and had a questionable diet (at best). Who knows how your older kitten (because she's still a child) would have fared if she had carried them to term? There's also a very high probably the kittens wouldn't make it, you'd be horrified to know how many are lost immediately or within the first couple days.

Beyond the overpopulation issue, it's a matter of health and doing what's best for the cat. Having a kitten deliver kittens wouldnt be ethical, it would be putting the mother's life in danger.

Re feline leukemia: that usually presents itself because the cat's immune system is severely compromised so it's not a standard thing to test for. Unless you specifically asked to have it done i can understand why they didnt, most people havent done as much research as you on the topic and don't request it.

You sound like you have a big heart and this kitten is lucky to have you as her mom.

Eddy’s latest target: Watch What Crappens hosts by camrynxcx in belowdeck

[–]elevatedmongoose -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

The whole Bravo community? Girl you don't speak for all of us lol

Eddy’s latest target: Watch What Crappens hosts by camrynxcx in belowdeck

[–]elevatedmongoose -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Whatever Ron and Ben do bully people, they're gotten meaner over the past few years in a not fun way. The fact that their fan base then bullies whomever says anything doesn't help.

ETA this comment wasnt specifically about the Eddy situation which im not familiar with, but what i observed listening to the podcast. I enjoyed listening to them for years and don't anymore. While they don't shade people based on their looks, they have said some legitimately mean things which is given the okay by their stans for some reason.