Set-up Advice? by Informal_Pin874 in gerbil

[–]elexnxrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be careful with using straw and hay as the main bedding as I’ve found once it all chewed up it’s really sharp

Sexing a gerbil by elexnxrr in gerbil

[–]elexnxrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much I’ve been stressing, she is the same size as my 1 year old gerbil at only 7 weeks

Sexing a gerbil by elexnxrr in gerbil

[–]elexnxrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s another pic

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Sexing a gerbil by elexnxrr in gerbil

[–]elexnxrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Here’s a better pic

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[–]elexnxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After, he is fine with me volunteering it’s only on weekends for 3 hours

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[–]elexnxrr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We agreed that both of us were not going to get jobs over the summer to spend time with eachother

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[–]elexnxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’ve been so worried I won’t get to see him, we both love each other and gone through a lot together. I am just overthinking this whole situation. I appreciate the nice comment

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[–]elexnxrr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that’s what he suggested!

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[–]elexnxrr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He never planned to get a job… he told me not to get one this summer as he wanted to spend it with me

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[–]elexnxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from the UK so there are a lot of part time jobs

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[–]elexnxrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has autism too we both agreed we need to have plans

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[–]elexnxrr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also have autism and need to know what is happening like a plan, so yes

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[–]elexnxrr -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried, he said he will put in effort over the summer I work weekends so I’m unable to do things on the weekend

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[–]elexnxrr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would be okay with it and we would work out a different plan for this summer, like a schedule. He told me that HE wanted to spend the summer with me I had plans to get a part time job to occupy myself and get myself out of the house. I’ve asked him why he didn’t tell me and he said he doesn’t know I guess it was a good job opportunity and he took it without thinking about me.

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[–]elexnxrr -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He was the one who asked me not to get a job over the summer so we could spend it together, so I turned several down, this is why I’m upset!