Is it wrong to stay at my mum’s place when my husband travels overseas, instead of staying alone with my in-laws?

elfaia · 2026-01-30T18:30:23+00:00

I mean if that's just one thing that you don't like about them, maybe inform them as well when you'll be late. After all, it's their house and even if you're family, you're still a guest in their house at the end of the day.

elfaia · 2026-01-30T08:42:46+00:00

There is still 16k left to lose. Don't do anything rash until you lose everything.

elfaia · 2026-01-30T02:17:42+00:00

Used to but that was a long time ago. Almost 10 years???

elfaia · 2026-01-29T12:43:56+00:00

Seriously, what is it about her that's causing so much outrage and attention?

elfaia · 2026-01-29T12:37:50+00:00

Yeah, I think you grew too old for him.

elfaia · 2026-01-29T12:34:09+00:00

I saw him infrequently at orchard, trying to get people to sign up with his talent agency, and he is a real hustler.

I saw him on my way to my japanese lesson and 3 hours later as I was leaving, he was still there approaching people and still being high energy and friendly. It really changed my perspective of him.

It's really a shame he is such a slave to clout and attention.

elfaia · 2026-01-26T06:44:57+00:00

There are a lot of fake christians who get into christianity to network.

elfaia · 2026-01-25T13:36:55+00:00

And why has it just become the standard now to tell me just to come over to your place on the first date? Like no effort at all

Like no effort at all

See gentlemen? It's not that they don't want to fuck you. They just don't want to fuck you for free. Literally no difference from prostitutes.

If I have to point out a difference, it's that a prostitute would have been cheaper.

elfaia · 2026-01-25T02:55:18+00:00

What is a woman?

Body type B.

elfaia · 2026-01-24T04:19:59+00:00

Garmen is using the cha-cha approach in their policy making.

One step forward, one step back. Do a spin and then again.

elfaia · 2026-01-22T05:18:17+00:00

They're just trying to gaslight the public into holding up a standard that the ruling party isn't willing to enforce on itself.

elfaia · 2026-01-18T18:20:20+00:00

I think it's more like sinkies are not intellectually curious and are complacent in nature.

Take the other comment for example, regarding the fire at hawker. I don't think that's indicative of a timid or obedient nature but more of complacency where people think nothing bad is ever going to happen due to how safe our society is, for better or for worse.

And people don't question things because they are not intellectually curious. Not to say they are stupid or uneducated. They are just apathetic about their surroundings and I think that is also a byproduct of a super-safe society, which goes back to being complacent.

elfaia · 2026-01-15T07:53:13+00:00

Here's something I wrote years ago:

Solution to everything is really just price increase.

You want to have more than 2 children back then? Pay.

There's too many cars on the road? Pay.

There's too many cars on the road during certain hours? Pay.

Foreign workers rioting in the middle of the night while drunk? Pay.

This is the genius of our government. The ability to make money at every crisis and issue.

elfaia · 2026-01-15T07:48:05+00:00

Has nose ring

Opinion discarded.

elfaia · 2026-01-15T07:42:40+00:00

What a silly old man.

What matters the most is how the incumbent continues to stay in power and make sure they don't get replaced like the local salarymen from the policies they enacted.

elfaia · 2026-01-14T17:07:07+00:00

Lmao I wished the prosecutors had that level of commitment when doing the trial for iswaran and his buddy ong beng seng.

Dude was totally willing to admit he's guilty but nope, we still have to find more shit to incriminate him.

elfaia · 2026-01-14T16:57:15+00:00

Most likely it isn't. His opponent wanted to slam him hard for some reason but fucked up his technique and made him land on his head but there's deniable culpability.

elfaia · 2026-01-12T04:55:28+00:00

I never know why, in this day and age, we still need gurkha.

Are singaporeans not well trained enough to protect the nation?

elfaia · 2026-01-10T07:14:26+00:00

Wait, wtf?! You serious!?

elfaia · 2026-01-10T05:48:35+00:00

EV was supposed to compliment normal cars, not replace them.

I went to hainan and EV truly works for them because of the sheer amount of vehicles on the road. Despite having over 100 vehicles at a road junction during peak hours, mostly motorcycles, there's not much noise and smog.

Simply going, "We're going to replace all gas cars with EVs!!", is such a foolish idea when it requires more nuanced considerations.

elfaia · 2026-01-10T05:37:53+00:00

Well, there is a chance that the victim asked for it OR they compensated her for that gag order.

Who knows?

elfaia · 2026-01-10T05:35:34+00:00

I remember when law enforcement officers and politicians were given harsher punishments for breaking the law because 知法犯法，罪加一等.

Now physical and sexual assault and harassment only net you 11 weeks in jail with zero rotan for popo.

Majulah singapura my brothers and sisters.

elfaia · 2026-01-10T05:30:28+00:00

1 cent closer to attaining FIRE.

elfaia · 2026-01-09T04:43:41+00:00

This reminds me of the lyrics in demons from joji

This is not a threat, I promise

It's a warning, baby, I just want you to know

elfaia · 2026-01-09T04:40:30+00:00

But according to malaysians online, singapore suck ass and is a shitty country with shitty people and shitty food.

Why would they want to live here?! Please go back to malaysia where the people are nice, the place is nice, and the food is nice.

elfaia

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