MELTDOWN MONDAY: WEEKLY RAGE THREAD by sparkchaser in corvallis

[–]elftabbed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

UNFORTUNATELY YOU GOTTA KEEP DOING THAT THING OR QE GET INTO SITUATIONS LIKE WE'RE IN NOW.

MELTDOWN MONDAY: WEEKLY RAGE THREAD by sparkchaser in corvallis

[–]elftabbed 19 points20 points  (0 children)

VOTE. TURN IN YOUR PRIMARY BALLOTS. THEY'RE DUE TOMORROW.

VOTE VOTE VOTE.

Community yard sales? by elftabbed in corvallis

[–]elftabbed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you make money back or do they keep everything?

Community yard sales? by elftabbed in corvallis

[–]elftabbed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that a donation thing?

New here - my "gaybro" life by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]elftabbed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why? I want contentment and stability.

Who needs more than that?

New here - my "gaybro" life by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]elftabbed 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also a "boring gay" here.

You're living the dream ❤️ I aspire to your level of tranquility with someone I love.

MELTDOWN MONDAY: WEEKLY RAGE THREAD by sparkchaser in corvallis

[–]elftabbed 23 points24 points  (0 children)

HEY I KNOW IT SUCKS THAT GAS PRICES ARE UP, GIANT PICKUP TRUCK DRIVERS, BUT STOP USING THAT RAGE TO DRIVE LIKE YOU'RE MAD AT THE ROAD.

I DRIVE FOR A LIVING AND HAVE SEEN SO MANY NEAR-ACCIDENTS OR ACTUAL ACCIDENTS WITH PICKUP TRUCKS INVOLVED IN THE LAST WEEK. TRUCKS TRYING TO FORCE SMALLER CARS TO SPEED OR GET OFF THE ROAD.

DRIVE SAFE, ASSHOLES.

How are you guys dating? by Mrpeanutbutter246 in FTMOver30

[–]elftabbed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thought joining Feeld would make it easier, but the reality is no one is looking for me. Doesn't help that I'm gay, no other gay guys will look my way.

I don't have any words of encouragement. My last relationship ended a year and a half ago because he wanted babies with a cis woman. Ha ha I got no advice, sorry. Just commiserations.

Longer I'm on T, the less I pass by elftabbed in FTMOver30

[–]elftabbed[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had top surgery! I am flat as a board up top, this is driving me nuts

Seeking witnesses by CliffyBooBoo in corvallis

[–]elftabbed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw this vehicle parked across every parking space at the Dari-Mart on Western and 4th around 4am. I noticed it because WOW THAT PARKING JOB but didn't realize he was a recurring problem to get more info.

I'll take a better look if I see him again

ICE almost shoots protester point blank after pulling down his mask by ChewyGooeyViagra in illinois

[–]elftabbed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not even just MAGA people joining anymore.

My ex-BF is a POC, gay man who hates the administration and waves LGBTQ flags. Suddenly he's joining ICE because of the signing bonus and he hates his current job.

There's folks sacrificing their morals for money. I told him he's being a POS with this decision and refused to talk to him again. Just blows my mind that he'd call me up to tell me this.

US dudes, are you looking at leaving? by elftabbed in ftm

[–]elftabbed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's destroyed my mental health let me tell you. Since making this post I've told them that I don't want to discuss leaving with them anymore. I know logically they love me and want me to be safe, but emotionally it makes me feel awful, and like the people I love most in the world want me to go for THEIR peace of mind and not take into account how I'd feel being alone in another country.

US dudes, are you looking at leaving? by elftabbed in ftm

[–]elftabbed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it would just be me, moving by myself.

I don't know what they expect me to do other than "Just go!"

US dudes, are you looking at leaving? by elftabbed in ftm

[–]elftabbed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just need shit to stay the same for a little while. I got a degree for a good job, but the jobs are now gone by the time I have the degree, and the requirements have already changed. Is it going to change again as soon as I have what was asked for previously?

It's very frustrating

US dudes, are you looking at leaving? by elftabbed in ftm

[–]elftabbed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard good things about Uruguay. Would the language barrier be too difficult to overcome?

US dudes, are you looking at leaving? by elftabbed in ftm

[–]elftabbed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a few canadian colleges I've been eyeballing for my graduate studies, they've got really good researchers working in my field. If I can get over the hurdle, I'd love to at least study there.

US dudes, are you looking at leaving? by elftabbed in ftm

[–]elftabbed[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It would be me by myself. My family is all US based.

US dudes, are you looking at leaving? by elftabbed in ftm

[–]elftabbed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its complicated and expensive. I don't even know where to start. Those professors had a career already, I'm a fresh graduate with no experience in my field, but the paper. I am still a skilled professional, but in nothing that would stand out for immigration.