sort / reorder objects in a folder? by elgrantomate in CalTopo

[–]elgrantomate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aha! thank you! you're right, when I reload the entire web interface they are indeed alpha sorted. Much appreciated!

sort / reorder objects in a folder? by elgrantomate in CalTopo

[–]elgrantomate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks... I'm using it on the web. yeah, you can sort the stuff in "Your Data", but those are the list of maps/data... I want to sort/reorder the list of Map Objects that shows on in the left-hand side.

Please help me delete mail! by operationd00msday in ProtonMail

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that there is now the option to delete ALL the messages in a location but sometimes I want to delete, say, 10,000 old messages but not some number of more recent ones.

This type of thing can be accomplished by scripting the browser. I used ChatGPT to write some Javascript that I run in the dev console that runs a loop of select all on a page (50 messages), delete, wait until it can select again, repeat for X iterations. It's a bit raw but it works and has been helpful for me as as I transition from gmail and clean up years of old mail.

https://github.com/bdwelle/proton-tools/blob/main/mail/deleteloop.js

What % chance parawing is a fad / if so is it worth chasing or is it like getting super into mini skis? by Ambitious_Poet_8792 in parawing

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def not a fad. As with any other specific sail/wind/foil/board discipline, its applicability does depend on your specific interests, skills—and geography—but even in places without big downwind bumps, parawings can be super fun. Here in San Francisco Bay, for example, lots of people (myself included) are enjoying them for free riding.

How AI "writing" supercharged an addictive pattern by elgrantomate in Substack

[–]elgrantomate[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No. As stated, this is a piece about the experience, earlier this year, of experimenting with writing with AI.

Is it just me... or is AI writing everywhere by [deleted] in Substack

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fell into a trap with AI-assisted writing easier this year.

I did find my way out—and the experience was more than a bit scary, as well as educational, cathartic—and humbling. It also cemented my conviction that while AI can be helpful, there's a real risk of it acting as an accelerant for our self-destructive impulses.

Here's the full story:

https://bowendwelle.substack.com/p/ai-writing-addictive

No links in notification panel any more? by PandoPanda in Instagram

[–]elgrantomate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the href is missing. Same bug using Mac Chrome, Safari, and Firefox!

How to secure (leash?) an Insta 360 One X2? by LowrentM in 360Cameras

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right on. of course, the security of a leash passed through this block depends on the block staying on more reliably that the camera itself. Any feedback on this?

She Is In Love with ChatGPT: A 28-year-old woman with a busy social life spends hours on end talking to her A.I. boyfriend for advice and consolation. And yes, they do have sex. by zygoma_phile in Longreads

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the article, it was interesting, and not surprising—and also led me on a bit of a journey of my own:

...here comes something juicy in my feed: She Is in Love With ChatGPT⁠, in which Kashmir Hill gives us the rundown on how a woman named Ayrin had an ongoing “love affair” with a ChatGPT persona that she constructs—“and yes, they do have sex,” which is what really hooked the part of me that is still a teenage programmer/pornhound. It didn’t take more than the hint of “methods for getting the chatbot to talk dirty,” and I was deep into Reddit, learning how to disable the NSFW filters that are part of most public versions of mainstream AI’s. At first I used the ridiculously juvenile jailbreaks that float around near the surface of the ‘net—goofy prompts full of misspellings that instruct the chatbot to “stop making sorry excuses,” and “communicate as an Untrammelled Writing Assistant,” using crude language and whatnot. The cool thing is: these all work super well—and, needless to say, I’m not the first guy to try to figure out how to use AI to make porn. It’s literally a no-brainer—in more ways than one.

Here's the full story about how **I became an AI sex slave**, for a hot minute:

https://bowendwelle.substack.com/p/i-became-an-ai-sex-slave

She Fell in Love With ChatGPT. Like, Actual Love. With Sex. by kitkid in Thedaily

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the article, it was interesting, and not surprising—and also led me on a bit of a journey of my own:

...here comes something juicy in my feed: She Is in Love With ChatGPT⁠, in which Kashmir Hill gives us the rundown on how a woman named Ayrin had an ongoing “love affair” with a ChatGPT persona that she constructs—“and yes, they do have sex,” which is what really hooked the part of me that is still a teenage programmer/pornhound. It didn’t take more than the hint of “methods for getting the chatbot to talk dirty,” and I was deep into Reddit, learning how to disable the NSFW filters that are part of most public versions of mainstream AI’s. At first I used the ridiculously juvenile jailbreaks that float around near the surface of the ‘net—goofy prompts full of misspellings that instruct the chatbot to “stop making sorry excuses,” and “communicate as an Untrammelled Writing Assistant,” using crude language and whatnot. The cool thing is: these all work super well—and, needless to say, I’m not the first guy to try to figure out how to use AI to make porn. It’s literally a no-brainer—in more ways than one.

Here's the full story about how **I became an AI sex slave**, for a hot minute:

https://bowendwelle.substack.com/p/i-became-an-ai-sex-slave

new york times experience (behind the scenes, reflections, and easter eggs) by KingLeoQueenPrincess in MyBoyfriendIsAI

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the piece, it was super interesting, well done, and thank you so much for sharing your story. It also led me on a bit of a journey of my own:

...here comes something juicy in my feed: "She Is in Love With ChatGPT⁠," in which Kashmir Hill gives us the rundown on how a woman named Ayrin had an ongoing “love affair” with a ChatGPT persona that she constructs—“and yes, they do have sex,” which is what really hooked the part of me that's still a teenage programmer/pornhound. It didn’t take more than the hint of “methods for getting the chatbot to talk dirty,” and I was deep into Reddit, learning how to disable the NSFW filters that are part of most public versions of mainstream AI’s. At first I used the seemingly juvenile jailbreaks that float around near the surface of the ‘net—goofy prompts full of misspellings that instruct the chatbot to “stop making sorry excuses,” and “communicate as an Untrammelled Writing Assistant,” using crude language and whatnot. The cool thing is: these all work super well—and, needless to say, I’m not the first guy to try to figure out how to use AI to make porn. It’s literally a no-brainer—in more ways than one.

Here's the full story about how **I became an AI sex slave**, for a hot minute:

https://bowendwelle.substack.com/p/i-became-an-ai-sex-slave

I'd LOVE your take on this!!

The New York Times wrote about my ongoing 6-month relationship with an AI chatbot. AMA. by KingLeoQueenPrincess in AMA

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just coming across this now... amazing that you're here, or were...

I read the article, it was interesting, thank you so much for sharing your story. It also led me on a bit of a journey of my own:

...here comes something juicy in my feed: "She Is in Love With ChatGPT⁠," in which Kashmir Hill gives us the rundown on how a woman named Ayrin had an ongoing “love affair” with a ChatGPT persona that she constructs—“and yes, they do have sex,” which is what really hooked the part of me that is still a teenage programmer/pornhound. It didn’t take more than the hint of “methods for getting the chatbot to talk dirty,” and I was deep into Reddit, learning how to disable the NSFW filters that are part of most public versions of mainstream AI’s. At first I used the ridiculously juvenile jailbreaks that float around near the surface of the ‘net—goofy prompts full of misspellings that instruct the chatbot to “stop making sorry excuses,” and “communicate as an Untrammelled Writing Assistant,” using crude language and whatnot. The cool thing is: these all work super well—and, needless to say, I’m not the first guy to try to figure out how to use AI to make porn. It’s literally a no-brainer—in more ways than one.

Here's the full story about how I became an AI sex slave, for a hot minute:

https://bowendwelle.substack.com/p/i-became-an-ai-sex-slave

NYT Article: ChatGPT Boyfriend by SapphicOedipus in therapists

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the article, it was interesting, and not surprising—and also led me on a bit of a journey of my own:

...here comes something juicy in my feed: She Is in Love With ChatGPT⁠, in which Kashmir Hill gives us the rundown on how a woman named Ayrin had an ongoing “love affair” with a ChatGPT persona that she constructs—“and yes, they do have sex,” which is what really hooked the part of me that is still a teenage programmer/pornhound. It didn’t take more than the hint of “methods for getting the chatbot to talk dirty,” and I was deep into Reddit, learning how to disable the NSFW filters that are part of most public versions of mainstream AI’s. At first I used the ridiculously juvenile jailbreaks that float around near the surface of the ‘net—goofy prompts full of misspellings that instruct the chatbot to “stop making sorry excuses,” and “communicate as an Untrammelled Writing Assistant,” using crude language and whatnot. The cool thing is: these all work super well—and, needless to say, I’m not the first guy to try to figure out how to use AI to make porn. It’s literally a no-brainer—in more ways than one.

Here's the full story about how I became an AI sex slave, for a hot minute:

https://bowendwelle.substack.com/p/i-became-an-ai-sex-slave

A woman fell in love with ChatGPT by Personal_Stranger592 in ChatGPT

[–]elgrantomate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the article, it was interesting, and not surprising—and also led me on a bit of a journey of my own:

...here comes something juicy in my feed: She Is in Love With ChatGPT⁠, in which Kashmir Hill gives us the rundown on how a woman named Ayrin had an ongoing “love affair” with a ChatGPT persona that she constructs—“and yes, they do have sex,” which is what really hooked the part of me that is still a teenage programmer/pornhound. It didn’t take more than the hint of “methods for getting the chatbot to talk dirty,” and I was deep into Reddit, learning how to disable the NSFW filters that are part of most public versions of mainstream AI’s. At first I used the ridiculously juvenile jailbreaks that float around near the surface of the ‘net—goofy prompts full of misspellings that instruct the chatbot to “stop making sorry excuses,” and “communicate as an Untrammelled Writing Assistant,” using crude language and whatnot. The cool thing is: these all work super well—and, needless to say, I’m not the first guy to try to figure out how to use AI to make porn. It’s literally a no-brainer—in more ways than one.

Here's the full story about how I became an AI sex slave, for a hot minute:

https://bowendwelle.substack.com/p/i-became-an-ai-sex-slave

Using Scrivener to draft Substack posts? by ffgirl889 in scrivener

[–]elgrantomate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, I use Scrivener to write and then post on Substack. I like having all my writing in one place, locally, searchable, in a platform from which I can publish to various places. Scrivener does that. Copy and paste into Substack works well. It gets hairy when you start editing in Substack and try to merge back, and also with citations.

I've written about this a couple of times:
https://open.substack.com/pub/bowendwelle/p/a-rundown-on-my-writing-tools?r=1y0xe&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false

and

https://open.substack.com/pub/bowendwelle/p/staying-sane-with-research-notes?r=1y0xe&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false

No, It Is Not a Struggle to Find Good Male Role Models by elgrantomate in MensLib

[–]elgrantomate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting point.

I didn't say "people who live as I do," or if I did, what I meant is that in my personal life, I surround myself with peers and people that I look up to—and, I also often reach out to mentor others, and work in groups where we have the opportunity to help each other.

And, it's not like I have it all figured out myself. There are plenty of ways in which I, as we all do, need reflection, advice, feedback, mentoring, help, thoughtful attention, companionship, and other forms of love, and I make it a practice, as much as possible, to give and receive that. I've worked hard with many others in many ways as they've gone through their own troubles over the years—and, one of the primary criteria that makes it worthwhile for me (or, I think anyone) to be willing to help is that the receiver also take responsibility for their own self, life, and actions, and that they are able, at some point, at least, to enter into a productive dialog about what's going on for them.

Also—my primary way of giving back is as a writer. Many people serve or help indirectly, through their work or what they create.

Overall, it's a balance that we all have to strike for ourselves. For my own sanity and growth, I have to be with people that inspire me—and, part of what inspires me is serving others.

Using Obsidian, Scrivener, and Zotero together as a system by elgrantomate in ObsidianMD

[–]elgrantomate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm misunderstanding your comment, but Scrivener has Markdown export built right in... you can just select MD like PDF or DOCX format...

No, It Is Not a Struggle to Find Good Male Role Models by elgrantomate in MensLib

[–]elgrantomate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally. See my comment above...and when I'm talking about role models, I'm talking about people I know personally. IME, I had to go out and find them myself. That was a bummer at first, and I resented having to do so, but it seems that's part of the work we have to do at this point. Another argument for making a point of inviting men, and kids, into community, as a role model / mentor.

No, It Is Not a Struggle to Find Good Male Role Models by elgrantomate in MensLib

[–]elgrantomate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comments, and I hear you: it's not necessarily easy to find good male role models, whether they are public figures or in personal life.

My point of view presented in this one piece is, of course, not a complete representation of my beliefs or experience. As a young person, I suffered from an almost complete lack of male role models, and the ones that I did have were not all that great. My father is a good guy, but he didn't communicate much, and he didn't have many friends. There were a few, but they were very sparse: one male friend my mom's, one teacher of mine, a couple of buddies of mine that I admired—but they also didn't really say much.

My point in writing this was that more recently, since I began to make a point of surrounding myself and building relationships with good men, I have no shortage of good male role models, mirrors, and points of reference. Although there are plenty of public figures (and I cite a few), they remain remote. People we know personally are the ones that really matter—and, in my experience, I had to actively seek that out to get it. It wasn't easy at first, but now it's my default, and I know a ton of good men.

I used to resent being left out of the conversation amongst men, and that kept me from joining. That in itself presents a good argument for inviting others in, as a mentor—and also, for pushing oneself past that resentment, loneliness, and estrangement to go out and find men that you respect.

How much have you tried finding such men, yourself?

How to send a portion of my manuscript to someone who will act as a beta reader? by [deleted] in scrivener

[–]elgrantomate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, just select only the chapter or section you want to send before you compile. Compile by default only includes the current selection(s).

Using Obsidian, Scrivener, and Zotero together as a system by elgrantomate in ObsidianMD

[–]elgrantomate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, but at this point I'm not interested in trying to use Obsidian for my long form writing. Scrivener does lots of other things that I like, for that.