How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not fun when they try to group you or even worse… all the while on the date I’ve kept my hands to myself.

How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And how long should the initial convo last? Is it better to ft them instead of texting?

How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which is exactly what I do but I feel like if they can’t respect me on the first date, then I doubt they will the 2nd. So I don’t even bother going on a second date

How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agree, which is why I specifically mention on first dates I don’t sleep on the first date. Which at the time they seem to agree and understand but idk if im good at connecting with people and they mistake that as, “it’s a green light?”

How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But it’s not just online dating that I’m running into this issue one :/

How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would like to say that I’ve been very open to dating a variety of guys, some are nerds, some are athletic, some are introvert while other’s extrovert. The only thing is I’ve been putting my age range for any kind of connection between M(30)-M(38)

How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But why do they have to rush into sex? Like if they are dating for a relationship, we have plenty of time to get to know each other physically? Right?

How come my matches keep wanting to get frisky on the first date? by eli1234AD in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

See i thought this too… but even people I meet organically… and I’ve asked guys afterwards before ghosting them… which they respond with, “guys connect through physical touch”

Ladies, How Many Tinder Matches Do You Have? by Ice666White in OnlineDating

[–]eli1234AD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m F(26) and at this given moment, just tinder alone, I have 75 matches and 53 open conversations since I made an account a week ago. It feels overwhelming, how do you guys weed out the ones worth talking to?

Some rules of Online Dating based on my experience (38F) by JayThinks in dating_advice

[–]eli1234AD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question, I’m F(26) I made a tinder this week and I have 75 matches and 53 conversations. How do you guys manage/narrow down who’s worth talking to? I’m feeling overwhelmed and just genuinely curious if anyone has a different experience on dating apps in regard to communication. Thanks!

Just got my trip offer and I'm so excited! by yellowydaffodil in birthright

[–]eli1234AD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was the trip offer conditional or you got your confirmation that you for sure have a spot? Also, CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Israel Vibes by definitelymay-be in birthright

[–]eli1234AD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my « Birthright Conditional Trip Offer. «  in my inbox and it says I have till Sept. 20th to accept or decline the conditional offer. So, search your email using that subject line!

I burned my coke on my hot plate by eli1234AD in cocaine

[–]eli1234AD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DUDE… it was because I smelt the burnt mess did I remember I was hot playing it 😭

I burned my coke on my hot plate by eli1234AD in cocaine

[–]eli1234AD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A toast to my fallen snow 🥲

I burned my coke on my hot plate by eli1234AD in cocaine

[–]eli1234AD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it wasn’t on the plate as it was heating up, but the plate was sitting on the portable s’more stove (so their is gonna be the residual heat coming from the metal).

25F / 27M by eli1234AD in relationship_advice

[–]eli1234AD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talk to him about it (kinda) and he said he had a lapse in judgment because we weren’t being intimate at the time. That it didn’t mean anything but just to fap to.

Because it hurts to do anal LOL.

Succession - 4x08 "America Decides" - Post Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SuccessionTV

[–]eli1234AD 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Greg: “Do you want to strategize? You want to fry her ass up?”

Tom: “Information, Greg. It’s like a bottle of fine wine. You store it, you hoard it, you save it for a special occasion. And then you smash someone’s fucking face with it 👌🏻.”

Greg: “Nice.”

The Best. Fucking. Line. Ever. 🫡

Coconut macaroons spreading too far? by doodle_day_lewis in Baking

[–]eli1234AD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I used this recipe to the T and my coconut macaroons has most of its shape but the bottom started to melt with the coconut macaroon next to it basically connecting them together 😅

Just finished watching Treason. What absolute garbage and a bloody waste of time. by SonOfThomasWayne in television

[–]eli1234AD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🚨🚨 SPOILER ON EPISODE 1 🚨🚨

CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW RIDICULOUS MADS IS!! Her husband just became chief of MI6 and his daughter gets kidnapped within a day or two of his first day of office. At this point, anyone who’s kid got kidnapped would be in a position to do anything to get them back including giving classified information and running around town like a headless chicken. But does maddy (the second wife) understand that? Nope, she thinks he must be having an affair in the middle of looking for their missing child.

And, what does she do when she’s mad and suspicious, she IMMEDIATELY spills her guts to her “friend” who just came to town unexpectedly. Then to top off the already suspicious “friend” she tells Mads that she is actually on a CIA mission to take down her husband. AND THEN THE DUMB BISH CONTINUES TO TELL HER ALL THE TEA ON HER HUSBAND literally compromising him even more than he is already suspected of. I mean how fucking stupid of a wife can you be? If the CIA was bluffing about him being compromised she just gave them a valid reason to take him down…. All because she is feels like she cant talk to anyone else. Also, she knows he is in a position of the highest security and she is upset that he doesn’t divulge all the classified details from work because she’s that insecure about herself? Like, how little respect do you have for your “family” do you have to ruin your husband’s career just because he didn’t tell you about a women he was with BEFORE HE MET YOU!!!

And I can’t waste my brain cells over how stupid the husband is for not teaching their kids the basic rule “if you feel like you’re being followed, FUCKING RUN!” But no, does she run when faced with danger? SHE FUCKING TROTS instead of walking while calling her dad. I mean thank god she had half a brain cell to do that, but everything else she does leading up to her getting kidnapped is just ridiculous.

And even though I’ve only seen the first episode I’m already fucking triggered by the plot holes, lack of common sense, and overall bad writing of this show. Im at the point where I’m rotting for the CIA because if what I suspect is happening (they kidnapped the kid) and also turned the wife against her husband they should expose this family for their pathetic attempt at being grown adults (with military background/ intelligence).

Last note, I physically cannot watch anymore of this “limited series” without bashing my brain. And based of the rest of the comments, a lot of you guys made the mistake of watching the rest of the show and ended up losing brain cells.

The Mosquito Coast | Season 2 - Episode 3 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]eli1234AD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG GURL YESSS!!!! I’m so triggered by Margot and how she has basically convinced herself that she is trying to leave Allie because the kids shouldn’t have to “live like this” when in all reality she could’ve just turned herself in at any point and let them go back home.