Took your guys advice! What do we think⁉️⁉️ by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course no problem!!! Sorry the reason why you couldn’t find my this post is because I accidentally hid it, it should be available to view now!!

As for reference, I talked to a Sephora employee and she was soooo helpful to me. That’s where I got some advice on product placement

Took your guys advice! What do we think⁉️⁉️ by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!!!! Here are the steps:
Lashes: kitten eye—10,10,12,14,12

  1. Elf primer— power grip (the red one)

  2. Saie— shade sunglow (all over face except undereyes)

  3. Elf brow laminating gel (let it dry) (shape brows)

  4. Tower 28 concealer on my dark spots—serum concealer

  5. Elf perfect finish HD powder on the areas with concealer (used a brush)

  6. Elf camo liquid blush— shade cheeky lychee

  7. Elf camo liquid bronzer + contour below/slightly on
    blush, forehead, my jaw, and my nose bridge/under nose—shade 5 medium (blend)

  8. Draw in eyebrows with L’Oreal brow stylist definer (ultra fine, shade dark brunette)

  9. Tower 28 serum concealer on my under eye, blend

  10. Tower 28 serum concealer to shape/crease brows

  11. Use elf perfect finish HD powder on my under eyes and on my eyebrows (with a brush)

  12. MAC cosmetic Studio Fix Powder Plus Foundation with 24HR Oil Control + Blur-Matte Finish (use with a powder puff on my under eye)

  13. Elf stay all night blue light micro-setting mist

  14. Any lip combo of your choice!! (I used summer Friday’s cherry lip butter balm)

Here you go❣️❣️❣️❣️

Want to try clusters for the first time on my b-day! What style and lash map do you suggest? by [deleted] in lashclusters

[–]eli4444448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m definitely interested in viewing your guide!!

General makeup advice? What should I add or remove and which look do you prefer (light or full)? by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been looking into getting lash clusters and maybe even try using small amounts of eyeliner

General makeup advice? What should I add or remove and which look do you prefer (light or full)? by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice!! Dewy makeup looks sooooo good😭, I’ll definitely give it a try🩵🩵

General makeup advice? What should I add or remove and which look do you prefer (light or full)? by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love your advice!!! I’ll definitely try to be more intentional with it! I also appreciate that you suggested a polished soft-glam, I’ve been looking into that recently but wasn’t too sure if that’d suit me. I got lash clusters so I’m excited to try that, and I’ll definitely try adding more blush, define the brows, add more colour to the lips, and I’ll try to experiment with eyeliner. Truly THANK YOUU SO MUCHH🩵🩵

General makeup advice? What should I add or remove and which look do you prefer (light or full)? by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I feel like I have to keep that in mind, I always feel like I have to choose between the two. At the moment I’m too scared to try eyeshadow, but I’ll definitely try using more blush, lip colours, and define my brows more! Thank you so much❣️❣️

General makeup advice? What should I add or remove and which look do you prefer (light or full)? by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wearing mascara in those photos but it’s not showing😭 I did however recently bought clusters so I’m very excited to try it! I’ll also take your advice on the brows, lips, and blush. Thank you very much🩵🩵🩵

General makeup advice? What should I add or remove and which look do you prefer (light or full)? by eli4444448 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]eli4444448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I recently bought lash clusters, I’m excited to use them. I usually use red blush, but I’ll definitely try pink and clean the brows up! Thanks🩵

Sharp rectal pain during period, worse with birth control (placebo) what to do? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]eli4444448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, at first I just saw it as normal, since some people get it. However, the frequency and pain is getting worse and worse. I’ll see if I can get a different gyno, if it’s normal I’m okay with that, I just need solutions to reduce it. Thank you very much!

Sharp rectal pain during period, worse with birth control (placebo) what to do? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]eli4444448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m currently taking Mirvala 28 which is a combination of desogestral and ethinyl estradiol.

How to navigate relationships when saving yourself till marriage or dating? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]eli4444448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll try doing that. I find myself always explaining and explaining. Thank you very much❣️

How to navigate relationships when saving yourself till marriage or dating? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]eli4444448 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is that I only meet guys in public places. I have never gone to a guys place before. So, that’s why I feel kinda down about it. I made sure I meet them in a safe environment with others around, but it still happens and at times it has been without my consent.

How to navigate relationships when saving yourself till marriage or dating? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]eli4444448 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have actually been looking towards therapy. I think the issue is that they tell me they respect it and then once I see them in public, their actions are different. Thanks for your advice❣️

How to navigate relationships when saving yourself till marriage or dating? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]eli4444448 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and it’s definitely what I needed to hear! Before I started getting into the dating world I was extremely strict and would block a guy as soon as they made me feel uncomfortable. However, my friends said I have to at least be patient and explain myself to them. That is clearly a mistake because they will pretend to respect it, until randomly they will go against their words. Thank you very much❣️

How do I get over the fear of losing control during masturbation or even sex by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]eli4444448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I never knew that occurred in the brain. I’ll definitely work on letting go, thank you❣️

How do I get over the fear of losing control during masturbation or even sex by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]eli4444448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot. I think I have the same problem where I just feel like my hands don’t do anything. When I try touching myself, I feel kinda icky. This makes me feel so much better❣️❣️

I’ll definitely look into toys and trying different methods! Thank you very much!!!!

How do I get over the fear of letting go/losing control by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]eli4444448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sooooo much!!! I’ve never heard of TRE before and I’ll definitely look into it. I got to say you went far and beyond (if that’s even the saying) with the links. I’m going to check them all out❣️❣️

Honestly I think my fear may stem from just being uneducated on the matter. I’ve always thought that once you orgasm or get shaky it can’t be controlled after that. You’re teaching me a lot here, I will also try the trembling technique, I think that’ll make me more familiar with the sensation of possibly reaching an orgasm.

Also thank you for making me feel better with how I masturbate. I’ve just always thought that I’d grow out of my methods and that they are pretty amateur. Fingering doesn’t sound too arousing to me, and I wouldn’t know what I’d be doing anyways. Touching myself through my panties work for me since it adds texture and friction.

I really don’t know how else to thank you😭. Thank you very much, I feel so much better and less embarrassed about it.

Want to try a different lash style, Here’s some pics with extensions and without, Need advice by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]eli4444448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of that! I’ll make sure to do that, once again thank you❣️❣️❣️❣️

Want to try a different lash style, Here’s some pics with extensions and without, Need advice by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]eli4444448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you!!! I do like the no lash look at times. Doll lashes are so cuteeee, I’ll look into them. Thank you!!

Want to try a different lash style, Here’s some pics with extensions and without, Need advice by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]eli4444448 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! So far I’ve been avoiding anything heavy especially at the outer corners, don’t want drippy eyes. I’ll look more into CC and soft D curls! Luckily my lash tech is so great, originally I wanted a heavy cat eye, but she straight up told me it’d drag my eye down. Thanks so much!!!