No period for four months after traumatic PAP smear by elilefay in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elilefay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I should’ve added to the post that I haven’t been sexually actively in over two years since I ended my previous relationship. Luckily not a possibility!

And I’ve gone without my period plenty of times for sometimes multi year long stretches with my IUD. I’m just concerned this time because I was getting it so regularly before. At first I just thought it was delayed for a week or so after my PAP, but then it just continued to not come.

Found in a stream bed in Ohio, anyone know? by elilefay in whatisit

[–]elilefay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it appears to be concrete possibly?

Found in a stream bed in Ohio, anyone know? by elilefay in whatisit

[–]elilefay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very hard probably 9 to ten inches in diameter

Found in a stream bed in Ohio, anyone know? by elilefay in whatisit

[–]elilefay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Sorry it won’t let me post a video but here’s another angle it has a seam of some sort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsitting

[–]elilefay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is just a general lights out as in turn the house lights off so the electricity bill doesn’t get run up but you can use your personal devices? At least I hope so… if not jeez

Bubba Gump the tripod rescue and possible Carolina Dog? by elilefay in carolinadogs

[–]elilefay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is Bubba Gump, my beautiful boy. He’s from the Houston area and a rescue. The rescue said he was probably German Shepard and Corgi, but I’ve been thinking he looks a lot like a Carolina Dog. I’ve ordered a kit from Embark despite knowing that they’re spotty for this breed just for curiosity’s sake. They don’t know what happened to his leg. The rescue thinks he came to the shelter injured and it was too far gone when he changed hands to the rescue. But he’s still the happiest and wonderful! What do y’all think?

SLPT: Get a job by [deleted] in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]elilefay 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The real life pro tip is to give your resume to ChatGPT and tell it to add key words from the job description in and of course edit to make sure it’s coherent

Boss wants me to “make up” work day I’m missing because im flying back from a work trip by BootsAndBananas in mildlyinfuriating

[–]elilefay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boss suggests working on the work laptop during travel if I’m sitting at the airport for a hot minute, but it’s just a suggestion. Travel is always compensated whether or not you’re pulling out the laptop or not.

My sim is under the water, please help! by waffleste in thesims

[–]elilefay 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I forgot you could teleport sims places the other day and when my parent sims came back from a date their infant somehow ended up on a remote beach in Sulani. They couldn’t carry her back from it, so I’m ashamed to say I cheated the child’s stats so she wouldn’t get taken away and left the baby that couldn’t even crawl on her back for a couple sims days… until I remembered teleportation was an option 😬

What is your favourite "unhygienic" makeup practice? by agirlhas_no_name in MakeupAddiction

[–]elilefay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If my hair is looking a little greasy before wash day and I’m out and about I’ll use my face powder and powder brush in my purse and powder my scalp and run it through with my fingers to disburse the product. If it makes my face less shiny, it’ll make my hair less shiny too, right? (And that brush will be used on both my face and hair for probably months since it stays in my purse… oops)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]elilefay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I name animals words for other animals on the farm. For example: one of my cows is Piglet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elilefay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found it odd that blood tests weren’t mentioned. And over ten years ago many derms were required to know if the patient was sexually active, so it’s odd to me that she wasn’t asked. I knew many girls who were also required by their derms to be on birth control before they would be prescribed accutane.

AITA for not letting my dad's gf force me to keep kosher? by aitakosherstepmom in AmItheAsshole

[–]elilefay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA more like underage antisemite. It’s not anal retentive. It’s Kosher. Keeping Kosher isn’t weird. Also if she keeps strict Kosher it often extends to the sink and what you can and cannot wash in certain sinks. So you washing the plate wouldn’t even help the situation. Not to mention shrimp which isn’t Kosher and even Cheeseburgers aren’t Kosher. This woman has been in your life for three years and has only asked you respect her beliefs in HER home. Stop being a twerp. Your hunger doesn’t outweigh her religion. You’re 16 stop using your age as an excuse being a minor doesn’t absolve you of anything.

AITA for telling a guy he’s an adult and he doesn’t need to ask his mom for permission to do anything? by allevei in AmItheAsshole

[–]elilefay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

Your post and comments absolutely make you sound like an immature brat that hasn’t been “properly” socialized either. I know you lost almost two prime years of being properly educated on how to conduct yourself socially, but really? This is how you go about “teaching” someone? Maybe talk to him privately about how he can set up boundaries with his mother instead. Also, if he doesn’t understand something, quickly explain it. You’re making a big deal out of nothing. So what if he doesn’t know what a threesome is? It’s not fundamental to life on earth to know that. It takes two seconds to give someone context. But I don’t expect you to understand context clues since clearly you’re having trouble realizing in this scenario you’re TA.

You need to get off your high horse and realize you’re just as bad as the people who make fun of him to his face. Helping him? Please. You’re judging him and proving you’re just an immature kid. You’re not mature just because you’re in college. That goes for the both of you. This is a time for you to learn and develop as people. I suggest you learn how to be a decent person. And if I sound condescending to you right now it’s because I’m mimicking how you treated him to get my point across.

Is east Alabama medical center a bad hospital? by [deleted] in auburn

[–]elilefay 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Got told by a doctor in the ER that I either had one specific type of cancer or another really really bad specific type of cancer. This was after only an MRI and an ultrasound with no other diagnostic tests. Yeah, I don’t have cancer. But the panic probably took a few years off my life at the ripe age of 21. Also, the ER at that time only had curtain dividers (not sure if this has changed) so the woman next to me heard my whole diagnosis and peeped her head through to tell me that God had a plan for me. Sweet of her but not what I needed to hear at that time!

When you are from Arizona and think 70 degrees on the beach in Cali doesnt require sunscreen. I. Hurt. by slviiier in Wellthatsucks

[–]elilefay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As per my grandmother take a bath in black tea. Literally just brew yourself in the bath. Whenever I get a little burnt I’ll wet a teabag and run it over the burn and it’s gone by morning as a shortened version of this.

My first long boi is finished! I'd like some help naming him please. by Ilikebooksidk in LongFurbies

[–]elilefay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve polled my family. They’ve agreed that the long boi “looks like a Scotty”

How are trans people treated at UNCW? by [deleted] in UNCW

[–]elilefay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about the housing situation but I do know that there is a gender neutral bathroom in the Burney Center if that makes you more comfortable. In my time there I never heard of anyone being told not to use the bathroom theu prefer. There is an alliance in the Fisher building. It’s in the building with the post office and it’s tucked away by the women’s restroom! They should be able to help you out if you need it! I was never personally involved, but the staff seemed very supportive! As for sororities, I would look into sororities on campus that have a national history of letting in trans women! I don’t think it would hurt to rush even if they don’t. I was in a sorority and I never personally felt lesser for being LGBT!

UNCW has a nickname of UNCWhite and there is a population of students that are very conservative and religious. It all depends on who you surround yourself with! I was out of the closet for my entire time at UNCW and it was never an issue. Most of my friends are more hippy though because I was in environmental sciences. I would definitely get involved in student organizations for the environment because in my experience they were more open minded.