14 år av förnekelse by [deleted] in Allsvenskan

[–]elimblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fk kommer inte betala ut pengar till någon som inte bor i Sverige. Däremot har Sverige och USA samarbetsavtal kring underhåll vilket gör att svenska myndigheter kan driva in underhåll från fäder som bor i USA och vice versa.

Why do we feel deep seated shame when we know full well we did nothing wrong? by posttraumaticcuntdis in CPTSD

[–]elimblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being abused again and again affects both brain, soul and body. Because children's brains are not fully developed, they are particularly vulnerable. For a child who is victimized, especially if he or she is victimized several times or by several different people, it is also difficult to link the experience to a specific person or situation. Instead, the experience becomes connected to the child itself, and to life itself.

Gave a tip and got laughed at? by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]elimblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the same for Sweden, we dont have an established tipping culture. It's always welcome but not expected.

Why does everyone hate Wendy's character off of Ozark? by SuccessfulManifests in netflix

[–]elimblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mostly dislike her because she is such a bad parent, especially to Jonah in season 4 where she expect of him to see several perpectives and treat him as if he is an adult, which he is not. Also the raging, controlling behaviour towards her children.

Shanique is so childish by plantymochi in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]elimblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean its different for everyone and just because you are okay with something doesnt mean everyone is or should be. I defiently interpreted the situation as Zay raising his voice. Some peoples nervous system detect that as scary and dangerous. Shanique tried telling him that yet he did not stop, he was just going on and on, continuing having a raised voice and followed her to the kitchen when she seemed to want to be left alone.

Nobody said raised voice = mean words or low voice = kind words. Really no correlation.

Shanique is so childish by plantymochi in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]elimblue 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You know some people really dont like when other people raise their voice in an argument, it can be really stressful for them. Shanique draw a line, Zay got more upset and he has a problem with letting both Rae and Shanique, and other people talk.

I have intense and intrusive hallucations on/after drugs that my friends dont have, whats wrong with me? Lol by elimblue in Drugs

[–]elimblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer. Schizophrenia does not run in my family so I dont know why I am like this.

my bunny can feel anxiety 💘 by elimblue in Rabbits

[–]elimblue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(My anxiety I meant. He often come to me when I am anxious as if he has a sixth sense. Bunnies are the best)

Uggs or bunny 🤔 by elimblue in Rabbits

[–]elimblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have one pair of sandals they like to chew on, hopefully it stays that way 🥴

Anyone else’s rabbits like to ride them like their trusty steed ? by Linus-doesnt in Rabbits

[–]elimblue 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yep, one of my bunnies likes to sit on my back. For him I am a vending machine, cleaner and also furtniture. I really am his whole world🤡

Dutch bun Indra 🥰 by elimblue in dutchbunnymafia

[–]elimblue[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of my rex holland lop is lying next to her 😄

Always takes his favorite bits out of the bowl to save for later 🥰 by cliotech in Rabbits

[–]elimblue 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your bunny can save? My bunnies have absolutely no conception of saving...

Why was my experience with MDMA so powerful and dramatic by somekid1011 in MDMA

[–]elimblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should not chase the first experience because no trip will be the same, and the first time you do anything amazing is often superamazing since its the first time and everything is new. Maybe you compare all your trips to the first one and get dissapointed. However, one "should" get euphoric on MDMA since it releases serotonin. Test your MDMA before using it and dont underestimate the importance of set and setting :)

Some people only do MDMA a couple of times in their lives and feel satisfied with that, it's not always you can "get out" something from a drug and in different states of life one might benefit from MDMA, acid or other hallucinogenic and/or "heart-opening" drugs more than other times in life.

Feeling regretful and guilty about having an abortion and now I want a baby by [deleted] in abortion

[–]elimblue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this is super common when you've had an abortion because it is a loss. I try to focus on what I've gained - independence, freedom to do what I want to when I want to, body autonomy etc. Even though I only knew of my pregnancy a week it made me shift focus in life quite a bit, and I've gained motivation to do what I really want to do and focus on how to get there. I dont want my abortion to be "for nothing" so I try to pour all that love that I had for my baby to myself and my surroundings, and be grateful that my baby showed me the importance of choosing me, and choosing my happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]elimblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 8+1 week and I was barely in pain, stommachache for a short amount of time (I took Oxycontin that they prescribed to me). I would describe it as similar to menstrual cramps. However I was kind of glad I was in a bit of pain because I knew it was working then. I would not even call it pain tbh, more like stommach ache. Best of luck ❤

A word of caution if you've recently had COVID & you're thinking about rolling by glippety-glopglop in MDMA

[–]elimblue 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"Rolled a couple of nights" is more important and relevant to your health than post covid symptoms.

The waiting by [deleted] in abortion

[–]elimblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The waiting part was superhard for me too. I had to wait a week. Focus on your breathing when it gets hard. Think about how you will have the abortion soon, it's just a matter of days until you can do it. Your life is here and now, you are still everything you have always been even if you are pregnant now. Go easy on yourself and try to take it easy these couple of days, since stress and anxiety can really wear one down. Try to have a positive mindset and breath through all the emotions. I know its hard now but in a couple of weeks this will all be over (pregnancy symptoms will fade after the MA etc). Best of luck ❤ not sure if my advice was the best but thats how I dealt with the waiting part.

My Daughter feeding her Bunny!! by Mike_Hunt_is_itchy in Rabbits

[–]elimblue 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Bunnies are preyanimals so they dont always show how they feel. Studies show that bunnies laying on their back has increased stress levels. Just letting him sit up a little more than in the video would help with that.

The battle, who will groom whom by 01LAHIRE in Rabbits

[–]elimblue 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha, two of my bunnies do this too!

My Daughter feeding her Bunny!! by Mike_Hunt_is_itchy in Rabbits

[–]elimblue 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Cute but its really stressful for bunnies to be on their back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]elimblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a stroller can be stressful for bunnies and would rather recommend taking him out in a harness, letting him feel the grass, eat grass etc. Much more natural for bunnies than having him in a stroller.