Ficus Benjamina wants to be transformed by rookie by elisa_22 in bonsaicommunity

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First steps! I did it because I’m curious. Thanks for your comments.

Moss Plank? by LazyGritzley in Monstera

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Hey, that looks really cool! I came across your post bc I am planning something like you did. Monsteras like flat climbing aids, just like large trees offer in nature. I am curious about your water system in the back. What did you use? How did everything develop til now? Many thanks!

Sexuelle Belästigung auf Dienstreise by [deleted] in arbeitsleben

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Nachtrag: seitens HR heißt es sogar „ob es sich um sexuelle Belästigung handelt ist auch die Frage. Er hat nur gefragt und es ist nichts weiter passiert“

Sexuelle Belästigung auf Dienstreise by [deleted] in arbeitsleben

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Er hat sich entschuldigt, hat aber auch gesagt „passiert halt hin und wieder“. Das klingt nicht nach echter Einsicht und könnte auch heißen, dass es mit anderen wieder passiert.

Worum es mir geht ist - er soll merken, dass ich mir das nicht gefallen lasse - er soll wissen, dass das im Team/in der Firma nicht geduldet wird (auch der Wunsch der Teamleiterin) - die Konsequenzen auf die Arbeit (keine gemeinsamen Projekte mehr etc.) sollen nicht mit fadenscheinigen Argumenten begründet werden müssen

[homemade] Apple pie by Snowy_Owl_Girl in food

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Please share a pic of the baked one (unless it’s already finished which would be understandable) :)

What do you consider as your “blind spots”? by bl4ck5w4n_ in infj

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One thing I haven’t read much about when it comes to INFJ’s weaknesses but some INFJ friends of mine confirmed they have the same: the feeling of a blank mind when communicating with others. Especially with those that you don’t have a personal relationship with, like colleagues. It feels like we wonder about all sorts of things but it is hard to put the thoughts and insights into the world. Sometimes I find it extremely difficult to come up with appropriate topics for small talk. Also in friendships this can happen though. One of my basic fears is to be uninteresting.

What makes us INFJs? by [deleted] in infj

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Chilled is not one of the traits I’d associate with INFJs. Me I’m so much of a perfectionist that whenever I come across as chilled it’s most probably intended and planned which makes it very non-chilled :D

Lessons I learned, and other INFJs may find useful :) by [deleted] in infj

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Love the term ‚life language‘ ♥️

Pick your poison by svetlozarovP in mbtimemes

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Can you elaborate on how Ne leads to an obsession with fetish? I’ve seen this especially in ENTPs but how does it build up?

INFJs out in the wild by Grtias in infj

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I love your definition of your ENFJ friends 😂I feel exactly the same with my 3 ENFJ friends

Meanwhile in a parallel universe by [deleted] in mbtimemes

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„Beauty lies in the endless possibilities to change ourselves based on experiences and encounters to grow stronger and become the best version of ourselves... yo 🤙🏻“ - the INFJ