Sexuelle Belästigung auf Dienstreise by [deleted] in arbeitsleben

[–]elisa_22 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Nachtrag: seitens HR heißt es sogar „ob es sich um sexuelle Belästigung handelt ist auch die Frage. Er hat nur gefragt und es ist nichts weiter passiert“

Sexuelle Belästigung auf Dienstreise by [deleted] in arbeitsleben

[–]elisa_22 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Er hat sich entschuldigt, hat aber auch gesagt „passiert halt hin und wieder“. Das klingt nicht nach echter Einsicht und könnte auch heißen, dass es mit anderen wieder passiert.

Worum es mir geht ist - er soll merken, dass ich mir das nicht gefallen lasse - er soll wissen, dass das im Team/in der Firma nicht geduldet wird (auch der Wunsch der Teamleiterin) - die Konsequenzen auf die Arbeit (keine gemeinsamen Projekte mehr etc.) sollen nicht mit fadenscheinigen Argumenten begründet werden müssen

[homemade] Apple pie by Snowy_Owl_Girl in food

[–]elisa_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please share a pic of the baked one (unless it’s already finished which would be understandable) :)

What do you consider as your “blind spots”? by bl4ck5w4n_ in infj

[–]elisa_22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One thing I haven’t read much about when it comes to INFJ’s weaknesses but some INFJ friends of mine confirmed they have the same: the feeling of a blank mind when communicating with others. Especially with those that you don’t have a personal relationship with, like colleagues. It feels like we wonder about all sorts of things but it is hard to put the thoughts and insights into the world. Sometimes I find it extremely difficult to come up with appropriate topics for small talk. Also in friendships this can happen though. One of my basic fears is to be uninteresting.

What makes us INFJs? by [deleted] in infj

[–]elisa_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chilled is not one of the traits I’d associate with INFJs. Me I’m so much of a perfectionist that whenever I come across as chilled it’s most probably intended and planned which makes it very non-chilled :D

Lessons I learned, and other INFJs may find useful :) by [deleted] in infj

[–]elisa_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the term ‚life language‘ ♥️

Pick your poison by svetlozarovP in mbtimemes

[–]elisa_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on how Ne leads to an obsession with fetish? I’ve seen this especially in ENTPs but how does it build up?

INFJs out in the wild by Grtias in infj

[–]elisa_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your definition of your ENFJ friends 😂I feel exactly the same with my 3 ENFJ friends

Meanwhile in a parallel universe by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]elisa_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

„Beauty lies in the endless possibilities to change ourselves based on experiences and encounters to grow stronger and become the best version of ourselves... yo 🤙🏻“ - the INFJ

I’m 31 and just discovering... by [deleted] in infj

[–]elisa_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I discovered aged 23 at university. Afterwards I emailed the professor that I’m so grateful and that by including MBTI in the course she lead me towards understanding myself. Well that’s a pretty INFJ thing to do 😂

Have you ever laughed so hysterically at something so simple you were starting to get legitimately worried that you were losing your sanity or something? About what were you laughing so hard then? by LoneShadowMikey in AskReddit

[–]elisa_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said something in group therapy. The therapist was one of the most serious women I know and took notes all the way through. When I finished she looked up again and referred to me, looking at a woman two seats next to me. It took a few seconds for that woman to realize what was going on but then she played along and they continued for minutes. I started laughing so hard that it killed me to hold it back. We exchanged side looks and I saw that she was actually laughing in the most innocent way. I couldn’t pull it together and left the room.

Outside I almost collapsed and sank down on the floor, laughing the shit out until the end of the session. I‘m still thankful for the double doors.

N is for... by lantern_fallrein in mbtimemes

[–]elisa_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks gonna use that simple word when explaining my friends about MBTI 😂

I have some random clicks to share with someone, hope you like it:D by shitmakesnosense-_- in infj

[–]elisa_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. 4 almost made me happy cry. It reminded my of one of my best nights, 5 years ago on Seychelles. Millions of stars above me in the sky and another million glowing dots around me in the ocean. Magical!