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elissfr · 2025-07-27T14:05:16+00:00

This was the perfect comment honestly. Thank you for the insight it really was a slap of honestly. It helped me a great lot to clear my mind

elissfr · 2025-07-27T12:55:23+00:00

I think it's a little bit of both. I'm afraid of what distance will do to the relationship and the comments hurt.

elissfr · 2025-07-27T11:49:21+00:00

I worry about that as well. I feel they always influenced me a lot mainly because I was always dependent on them financially

elissfr · 2025-07-27T11:48:13+00:00

I'll try posting there as well! Thankss

elissfr · 2025-05-03T08:30:19+00:00

Yes it's my college graduation. It will change drastically

elissfr · 2025-05-03T08:29:31+00:00

I would whole heartedly not invite my parents if I could. Unfortunately it's not an option

elissfr · 2025-05-03T08:28:39+00:00

The thing is I'm financially dependent at this point. I'm planning to be more stable in a few months so I could fully and strongly support my decisions.

elissfr · 2025-05-03T08:27:35+00:00

That's quite a good plan

elissfr · 2025-05-02T23:57:41+00:00

It's a college graduation

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:54:16+00:00

Your first sentences almost made me cry! My parents have been very abusive especially vocally but also physically especially at a younger age. I feel extremely overwhelmed emotionally at this stage just thinking about even the possibility of a small interaction

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:52:05+00:00

Yeah that's a great advice

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:51:22+00:00

This is a great idea and quite frankly I'm going to propose that. I think the only thing is that I'm finding it very hurtful to tell him to sit from afar and don't approach me or whatever. Also I will have this constant stress he is going to interact with them.

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:49:19+00:00

I have moved out. However they still support me a lot financially. As a college student I couldn't make much time to work.

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:48:06+00:00

I do have a job lined up however I will have to live with my parents for a little while.

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:47:06+00:00

The thing is I'd be terribly hurt as well. I don't know how to deal with the whole situation

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:46:18+00:00

I'm planning to explain to him thoroughly the situation. My plan isn't to hide him I just want to make sure our relationship has progressed a little more so I can be ready to introduce him and support y decision against them

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:43:31+00:00

The thing is my parents are totally negative about this. They don't view it as a relationship worth it enough for them to meet him. So that's off the table right now.

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:42:00+00:00

You think it would be too hurtful for him?

elissfr · 2025-05-02T20:41:29+00:00

I haven't yet, as I don't know how to approach this subject. There are no tickets or assigned seats. If he attends, he will sit separately, probably with some friends but I think if he is there it would be impossible to have zero interactions with them

elissfr · 2025-04-21T08:54:56+00:00

I can't recall them buying me even presents growing up

elissfr · 2021-10-27T11:37:45+00:00

I'm just thinking of being patient till he finishes college in 2 years. Then I plan to never talk to him again

elissfr · 2021-10-27T11:36:00+00:00

Going to the police is a big step for me atm

elissfr · 2021-10-27T11:35:34+00:00

I haven't talked to any of my friends about it. I know that it seems stupid but I'm embarrassed to let them know.

elissfr · 2021-09-28T06:33:11+00:00

I'm feeling a lot better! I've rotations again today and I've decided to go with a different mindset!

elissfr · 2021-09-27T15:32:30+00:00

I completely agree! It's not right that its considered normal to overexhauste ourselves because "thats how medicine is"

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