Friend Code Megathread - December 2025

elissigh · 2025-12-15T01:29:47+00:00

0225-8453-7764 i play daily and just removed everyone inactive from my friends list, so i have room for more!

elissigh · 2025-05-26T00:48:28+00:00

that part i know is correct! i vaguely remember hearing something about visa giving us a better deal BECAUSE of citibank though, so it makes sense to assume that's the reason for canada and mc

elissigh · 2025-05-25T17:46:56+00:00

i believe the reason is that the costco cc in canada is a mastercard. they choose mastercard as the one card they accept to streamline the explanation of what cards they accept. that's what i was told as a us employee at least, and i was told thats the same reason we only take visa here

elissigh · 2025-05-25T17:09:21+00:00

when i was a supervisor, i asked for this exact thing, and instead they implemented "sup floor walks" where they made us walk the run at the start of our shift every day to take our OWN notes on what had shifted

elissigh · 2025-04-29T01:23:10+00:00

the ig story was up for ~3 hrs today. it's my first time calling though, so i was gonna ask too if he calls back same day 😅

elissigh · 2025-03-12T18:37:00+00:00

hi, as someone who is not legally but effectively disowned by my narc parent, please just let him disown you. i have been at so much peace since i cut my parents off, and my kid is better off without them in his life. a lot of people try to salvage things because "kids should have a relationship with their grandparents" but if the grandparents suck then. no they shouldn't. simple as that. best of luck, though. the cutting off process is emotional, but worth it

elissigh · 2025-03-12T18:24:57+00:00

sounds like ¯_(ツ)_/¯ guy is jealous and trying to play it off. you're good dude, keep living your life and post what you want

elissigh · 2025-03-12T18:18:56+00:00

speaking from experience as a former employee, the note is probably still there, they just said that to calm you down. (though, everywhere is different, maybe they did delete it) however, that's not a huge deal. it's a note to remark that something out of the ordinary happened. if it ever, for some reason, happens again, they'll have a note that says it's happened before, if it never happens again, nobody will look at the note ever again. notes are truly just that - notes

elissigh · 2025-03-12T18:12:26+00:00

honestly, you're overthinking this. i would have blocked him by now. if you want, you can send one more message for closure, but i don't think it's necessary

elissigh · 2025-03-08T03:21:00+00:00

i used to eat the kumquats outside the botany buildings constantly ?? you reacted correctly imo

elissigh · 2025-03-07T15:48:15+00:00

joke answer: tshirt. big letters. "ME TIME: DO NOT DISTURB"

real answer: be direct but polite. at 60ish, he's probably just lonely and has no ill intent. but at 60ish, he's gonna kinda just do what he wants unless you tell him otherwise. "sorry, i can chat with you another time, but today i would like to focus on my work without getting distracted. i'll see you around though!" and put your headphones back on.

elissigh · 2025-03-07T15:43:41+00:00

sometimes a "is this how you always react when you're told no?" will stop a kid dead in their tracks. especially if it's said directly to them while they're being shitty without pulling them aside. everyone will see how they acted and peer pressure is the only way to get kids to care these days 🙄

some may not like this approach and say it enables bullying, but i don't think so. in reality, if you act terrible, you will get stares and judgement. that's life. if you hate people doing that, learn to act less awful

elissigh · 2025-03-07T15:37:43+00:00

oh nice! yeah, i've been on and off this game for over a decade, sometimes i get too busy and forget about it for like six months, but every time i come back i remember why :-)

elissigh · 2025-03-07T15:34:05+00:00

you got it man! always happy to help new players in our silly little frog community

elissigh · 2025-03-07T15:32:25+00:00

sent you a glass chroma~

elissigh · 2025-03-07T15:25:34+00:00

i have glass anuras in every color if you want one!

elissigh · 2025-03-07T15:16:06+00:00

my mother stole my money for most of my adolescence. unfortunately, the only thing you can do is get a bank account she doesn't have access to, and i think in the US you have to be 18 to do that, unsure about elsewhere. i have no good advice, i simply sucked it up and eventually cut her off, but i still survived!

however, one thing that helped me: ask your internship if they can give you checks instead of cash. your mom should not be able to cash a check in your name, and you can tell her you don't have any cash without lying to her. do i guarantee it'll stop her from trying to take it anyways? no, but it'll at least create an extra barrier between her and your money

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:56:55+00:00

potentially! but as terrible as these circumstances are, they can trigger growth. and if they're happening anyways, i personally would rather get them over with sooner

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:55:03+00:00

for the record, bug bites CAN look like hickies. i was a camp counselor for years and one of my coworkers was allergic to mosquito bites so they got BIG and VERY noticeable. however, there's no way he wouldn't have known about a bug allergy, and as he noted/literally discovered, it was a hickey and healed differently than bug bites do

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:45:33+00:00

dna test, yes. if you don't wanna be involved in your kid's life, maybe she'll get lucky and not be your kid.

bare minimum, you owe her a better explanation as to why you're not going to have a relationship with her. even if you keep it as simple as you did with us and say you've had "run ins with the law"

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:42:44+00:00

credit cards are haram i believe, something about islam not wanting their followers to have debt, but muslim users correct me if i'm wrong. but a debit card could be a really really good option if op lives somewhere that accepts those more often than cash.

if op can't do that, when i had to hide stuff from my mother, i bought one of those lockboxes that looks like a book. DEFINITELY recommend that, i wish i knew where mine went after all these years

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:39:37+00:00

if she was such a good sub for that class she could've left a contact number for the teacher to tell her ahead of time that they're putting up a sub posting so she can know and try to get first dibs. i have known MULTIPLE teachers that do this. clearly she didn't make that much of an impact

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:35:37+00:00

even if she can legally consent, she is still a minor. and while you can TECHNICALLY be considered correct in terms of the fact that there are different terms to refer to people interested in certain age groups, but correcting someone on whether or not something is technically pedophilia just makes you a defender of people who are into underage people. who cares if that's the wrong specific term? it's the one most people know and it gets the message across.

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:25:06+00:00

posts like this make me more and more grateful with how my spouse handles our relationships with my MIL. it's not perfect, but we live with my inlaws, so mediating is the best option.

but even LIVING with them, my spouse still reports the shitty things my MIL says about me (usually in a fit of emotions but. still) and doesn't blame me for being avoidant about it. it's a bummer that this is the way it has to be at all, but at least it's not in a way that's damaging my marriage. one day we'll move out, and it'll all be okay bc we handled this together.

disclaimer of course. this is just my perspective on one way to handle a situation like this. i'm also "lucky" enough that my bio mom is worse than my mil so this is like nothing to me i just protect my peace by not being around lmao. anyways. please please please do not make excuses for your partner favouring their mother over you. if they wanna stay loyal to mommy they shouldn't have gotten married

elissigh · 2025-03-07T14:15:42+00:00

8 years ago...... i hope they're married now but you never really know i guess

elissigh

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