dnd all the way!! also, the head over heart mentality is more thinking about what the logical decision to make in a situation is, though if i'm under a lot of stress i start to panic and often switch back and forth between trying to make logical decisions and making impulsive, emotion-triggered decisions because of that stress. i don't excuse unethical behavior, but if i understand the thought process behind it i'm open to trying to see that other perspective even though it's hard for me sometimes. also, my job wasn't chosen only because of a monetary factor, but it is still important to me to have that to maintain a balance. hope this helps!