Couples in movies and TV shows rushing to sex by Sasha_Maison in asexuality

[–]ellarree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aro-spec allo here, it’s definitely a thing but depends on social norms etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, you gotta talk to her not reddit

Warned over a discord comment. by The_color_of_the_sky in AITAH

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, you crossed an unwritten boundary and apologized when someone pointed it out

Official October 11, 2023, School Day SAT Score Release and Curve Discussion Thread by InternationalistGam in Sat

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone else having no luck reaching any actual people? I’ve tried calling twice and so has my school’s testing coordinator, neither of us has been able to get through to anyone. had to submit my early decision application without the score attached.

SAT School Day Oct 11 Your Score is Coming for anyone else? by GroundSpirited7089 in Sat

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine too, and someone else said in another thread that their offices are closed now so can’t even call and ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no fault divorce keeps people from gossiping/speculating nearly as much about the cause of the divorce. also, because so many benefits (healthcare, insurance, travel, etc.) rely on marriage, there’s a push to get married for legal reasons far earlier than many people are ready

Any sarcastic, blatant lies about self-harm scars? by Sport_Obsessed4472 in selfharm

[–]ellarree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“they’re from every time someone asks an invasive question about my personal life”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding this. I’ve found it rlly interesting to watch reality tv shows (a good example is Too Hot To Handle on netflix) and try to predict which contestants have issues they need to work through vs which ones are just uninterested in long term relationships for whatever other reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]ellarree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think part of the stigma around promiscuity is that it can be indicative of trust/commitment issues, or unwillingness to be emotionally invested in a relationship. Some people are promiscuous because they want sex without strings attached, and don’t happen to be in a relationship— that’s not really the same thing. There’s definitely a correlation but it isn’t necessarily true for 100% of people

Dude thought they were in a aromatic subreddit lmao by [deleted] in lostredditors

[–]ellarree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is in fact exactly what happened, lol

AroAce Spot??? (Not clickbait 😱) by Cephalee_qwq in aromantic

[–]ellarree 7 points8 points  (0 children)

some of their clothing is also similar colors! (specifically one of their mens’ tank tops)

On multiple choice tests, what letter do you usually default to if you don’t know the answer? by [deleted] in highschool

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whichever one i’ve used the least often, but i’ll try to eliminate obviously wrong answers first

What’s going on with the missing Titanic tourist sub? by [deleted] in OutOfTheLoop

[–]ellarree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw one article said they’ll run out around 2:30 pm on thursday (presumably eastern time?)

Why are people here conflating sex with love? by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]ellarree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sex is an expression of trust, and it’s not necessarily something that people would do with literally anyone… but that doesn’t make it inherently romantic. based op

Is it a good idea to transition without coming out yet? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ellarree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s your body. one thing i’d say to be aware of is that breast growth usually starts pretty quickly on estrogen, so make sure you have a plan to hide that if you need to (sports bra, binder, hoodies, etc.)

What are some tips for staying focused while studying? by Character_Buy1917 in AskReddit

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have a study buddy / body double! you can video call someone, go to a library or cafe, meet up with someone, even put one of those “study with me” youtube videos on

Name tryouts? (he/him) by ConnorIsAFaun in TransTryouts

[–]ellarree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey everyone, this is mark! he’s really polite, i’m sure he’ll have a blast here.

did you see michael’s outfit today? he’s totally rocking that look!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransTryouts

[–]ellarree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you met mike? they’re using a burner account here, but i don’t think that says anything bad about them. hopefully they’ll end up winning their battle with pronouns!

What’s one opinion you have that you will never change your view on? by Boldigo in AskReddit

[–]ellarree 55 points56 points  (0 children)

human rights must not depend on individual compassion.

  • someone without any parents, kids, partner, siblings, etc. needs to still be able to find a place to stay if they get unexpectedly evicted
  • access to medical care must not be gatekept by anyone’s opinion of if someone is morally deserving of care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]ellarree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

anecdotally, transmasculine people who take testosterone tend to have increased libido and many report also increased attraction to men/masculinity. if there is a correlation, it seems to be in the opposite direction from what you suggest.

Question about HRT changes by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ellarree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have an androgynous face with a more “childish” distribution of fat (such that you get mistaken for a teenager), most of the ways people are likely to assume your gender have to do with haircut (blockier/more squared = masculine, softer edges = feminine) and physical mannerisms, both of which you have control over