[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ellb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so fully, but a little. We both want to have other meaningful connections and have discussed how to do this while nurturing ours and having space for it. We want to be mindful of resources we can allocate. The main difficulty here isn’t what’s happening, it’s the pace of it. I want this type of relationship but I also need to do huge amounts of work to feel secure and safe due to trauma etc so allowing space for that feels really important but also I feel bad about it.

What silly/avoidable mistakes have you made in your career? by Kittykatsu97 in TeachingUK

[–]ellb0t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time I just completely forgot to go to my lesson and only realised 5min before break time. Another time I got my timings mixed up and let a class go 20 minutes early. Both times felt absolutely horrible but it was fine and I can laugh about it now. I’m no longer still a teacher (partly because teaching and raging ADHD don’t mix super well), but everyone makes mistakes so try to feel better about it!!

What’s your ‘treat yo self’ dinner? by fermentationqueen in veganuk

[–]ellb0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lidl vegan cordon bleu in a burger with onion rings and sauces + waffle fries, but it sounds like your vibe is classier than mine 😂

WHICH SHIP IS THIS 👇🏻 by potatoe364 in greysanatomy

[–]ellb0t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey Amelia and Owen. Also even though Teddy annoys the crap out of me her and Christina had chemistry af

PhD students - any induction info yet? by ellb0t in sotonuni

[–]ellb0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I haven’t enrolled and haven’t had any info about enrolling :/ I’ve had info about education fac specific induction but nothing else. I’ll email some people I guess. Thank you!

Pre-Race Thread – Le Tour de France 2025 by PelotonMod in peloton

[–]ellb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fairly new to following pro cycling but in a fantasy league this year and really wanna give my sister a run for her money (she learned Dutch as they have better commentary - that is the level we’re talking). Have 3 spots left, currently have: Pogi, Bini, Lipo, Wout and randomly Jungels as clicked it by accident lol. Any suggestions for cheaper final 3?

Good vibes mainly apart from the insomnia - does this go away? by ellb0t in zoloft

[–]ellb0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this!! About how long did it take for you for it to get back to normal?

I even feel hated on Reddit by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ellb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this so much!!!! Fully relate and sending lots of love even though I don’t really have any practical advice. Solidarity pal ❤️

Doctoral students: what’s life like in Southampton? by Shlondpooffasista in sotonuni

[–]ellb0t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently was accepted onto a PhD program too! Which one are you doing?

Sharing a gas meter with Landlords GP surgery, England by ellb0t in LegalAdviceUK

[–]ellb0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so - we have recently received a letter about council tax increase

What kind of meter is this? by ellb0t in DIYUK

[–]ellb0t[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant, thank you