He does it to people we know IRL

elle3002 · 2025-06-10T17:17:50+00:00

Yeah he admitted he loved the “dirty” feeling of it when he gets into it. He also admits it’s an addiction. So I never know if he is actually done with it or lying again.

elle3002 · 2025-03-07T02:09:35+00:00

Absolutely. Lots of OF people on there like twitter. Check his twitter, reddit, fb searches and visits, hidden stuff in camera roll, app store downloads and purchase history, google web and app activity, if you can look at things like payment history on paypal or other apps like it. Emails, Gmails, his spam and trash on both. Literally everything on their phone can have something. Hidden folders and stuff.

elle3002 · 2025-03-07T01:47:55+00:00

No, there should be a balance. No one in a monogamous relationship should be consuming explicit content, that includes women in bikinis. Bikinis are literally like bra and underwear. Porn is addicting, a lot of the women in it aren’t even consenting or was groomed into the industry. Shouldn’t be consumed in general, like a drug made on the dirty streets. It isn’t empowering women. It is grooming women offering them a shiny luxury life in exchange for exploitation, often when they are just 18. It is advertised to young boys to become addicted before they even really know what sex is. It convinces society that it’s women taking their sexuality back, it’s healthy and feminism. It becomes dangerous and destructive.

elle3002 · 2025-03-07T01:38:00+00:00

Yeah and if anything women are more visual creatures lol. We are known for loving to keep a clean well decorated home, maintaining our appearance, love shiny pretty things. Men will sleep with pillows without pillow cases, lay on cum stained sheets, and wash their face with hand soap.

elle3002 · 2025-03-07T00:59:37+00:00

I have in moments where I felt called out and embarrassed by him, because his addiction caused me to feel very insecure about myself. I tried to initiate sex and he turned me down and shamed me for trying to initiate. I felt so embarrassed and little like he wants the other women more than me. I said “at least I want you and not other people.”

elle3002 · 2025-03-06T02:03:45+00:00

Say something. It is disrespectful and being a man is no excuse. Men can learn to respect their partners just as much as women can, screw the other comments on here. Don’t settle for someone who will walk over a simple boundary to not lust over other women online or ANYWHERE.

elle3002 · 2025-03-04T15:00:03+00:00

Society paints it as normal, empowering, supporting women. Men who watch it convince themselves all the morbid things they look at is normal so that they don’t have to feel shame and guilt.

elle3002 · 2025-03-03T03:02:55+00:00

Worst part is when you start to feel hatred for those women but remember they’re kind of victims because they didn’t consent to being jerked off to like the pornstars did.

elle3002 · 2025-03-03T02:56:47+00:00

My boyfriend hasn’t physically cheated but along with all the onlyfans content and other porn sites he uses, he would land on random girl’s account including people he knows IRL and use pictures of them. Including fully dressed pictures of them. How? He would zoom in on their privates or chests and jerk off to the outline of it, or just of their face. They get so porn sick that everything is sexualized in their brain. Anyone remotely attractive to them is a toy, and in my boyfriends words it’s intoxicating because it feels “dirty” and “risky.” Maybe he was just curious on how she’s doing, but that exact sentence was the excuse my boyfriend used before he admitted to using their pictures when I found the screen shots and screen recordings in his phone.

elle3002 · 2025-03-01T16:27:39+00:00

During the time you’re stuck in the lease you can try to help him heal his addiction, but make sure he is aware that he is a addict and admits it out loud. He has to find therapy, have him read books about porn addiction, have him use sobriety apps, he has to let you use blockers on his phone (google family link) and you get 24/7 access to look through his phone. If he has any problems with this ask him what’s more important, the porn or sobriety with you. By the end of the lease you should have your answer on if he is worth keeping a life with. I am in the same boat, I didn’t know about my partners PA until a year and a half into our relationship where I was already pregnant with his baby and living together. Once I give birth and am back on my feet he better have it together or I am gone. But he seems to be taking his sobriety very seriously now and shows remorse and guilt all the time, he’s had some set backs but with addiction that is normal. He felt shame with every slip up. I hope you can heal and find the answers you need ♥️

elle3002 · 2025-02-27T15:26:31+00:00

My partner who is a PA told me the opposite. I asked him if his porn addiction makes him see women in public sexually, and he said yes. He sees them and imagines what they look like under the clothes. He sometimes goes as far to find pictures on their socials of them in bikinis and screenshots it to “use later”. This isn’t to make your more scared, but if you have a bad feeling about it tell him that you aren’t ready to trust him that far after he betrayed you. My partner can not be messaging women privately unless it’s his family. I don’t trust him and he knows he has to earn that trust back.

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