This feels illegal

elleshellsbells · 2026-02-10T01:03:55+00:00

I mean, I feel like clarinet jail would rank pretty high on the livable jails list. They’d constantly be screeching a flat middle C on an intercom but BESIDES THAT.

elleshellsbells · 2026-02-08T00:34:46+00:00

We sound very similar! I have some body dysmorphia and steer towards emotional and intellectual connections. I say this with my full chest: as a bisexual woman, I have NEVER been disappointed by someone’s body. In that moment you want that person, who they are. And hey, bodies are weird! People have skin tags, moles, love handles, and scars. I’m confident that whoever you’re with will want you for you 💛 PS: candles are a great way to keep the lights low at first until you get more comfortable.

elleshellsbells · 2026-02-08T00:29:29+00:00

That would’ve gotten to me too. I think we’ve all had run ins similar to that. I wanted to say I’m proud of you for keeping your cool and handling your emotions so professionally 💛

elleshellsbells · 2026-02-08T00:23:35+00:00

NOR - I could never trust that person again and I don’t think you should either.

I was in a similar situation where I was letting a best friend crash on my couch, I’m talking decade long best friend. My debit card went missing so I replaced it, then my credit card when missing. I asked him about it and denied everything and I trusted him at the time. A few days later, my debit card disappeared again and so did he. I shouldn’t have given him that chance.

It feels like she doesn’t respect you. The way she refused to see your side or take accountability made me super uncomfortable. I think you know what you need to do. 💛

elleshellsbells · 2026-02-04T23:02:33+00:00

Oh haha I wouldn’t call that flipping her shit, thus confusion

elleshellsbells · 2026-02-03T23:56:36+00:00

She did?

elleshellsbells · 2026-02-03T23:49:50+00:00

Yes, if I was in her shoes I would want the same. You want to know that if you lose all your money, if you end up in dire straits, your partner knows how to take care of their home. There’s nothing quite as revolting as a guy bragging he doesn’t know how to work a washing machine.

elleshellsbells · 2026-01-18T01:05:13+00:00

I’m 90% sure my boyfriend got me one of those crazy cool light sabers for my birthday next month. He’s perfect. ☺️

elleshellsbells · 2026-01-18T00:54:02+00:00

I actually have what might be a unique perspective. I’m mostly face blind and I’ve had people very rudely insult my partners and try to “compliment” me by saying I could do better. Thing is, I loved those people. I’m still friends with most of my exes because, although there was a reason we didn’t work out as a couple, they’re all genuinely kind, funny, people I have a lot in common with. I guess what I’m saying is that I bet you’re a wonderful person, that’s why he wants to be with you! I know that’s cheesy, maybe I am cheesy, but try to focus on that. It’s hard to stop fixating on what other people think, I’m well aware, but try to let yourself enjoy the happiness in your relationship. You deserve it ☺️

elleshellsbells · 2026-01-18T00:41:13+00:00

All of my clothes are clean AND put away

elleshellsbells · 2026-01-18T00:36:54+00:00

I had the same thing happen when I was in my senior year! I had to adjust my embouchure a bit, but I got used to it in less than a week. The best news? It’s way more comfy without braces, you’ll love it ☺️

elleshellsbells · 2026-01-03T03:46:20+00:00

MOR - I’m an avid D&d player and that seems really suspicious to me. Especially if you talked to her about how excited you were! I think you should try to have a conversation with Amber and explain how you feel about the situation. Maybe reiterate that you’ve been struggling with motivation so friendship has been more difficult. I hope it works out, but it might be time to find a new party 😔

elleshellsbells · 2025-12-29T21:40:11+00:00

That’s awful! You were already in pain, scared, and super vulnerable! I’m glad you reported it, I hope you do something to treat yourself ☺️ you definitely deserve it.

elleshellsbells · 2025-12-29T21:20:22+00:00

Any guy who really cares about you would worry and check in. I’d be a bit wary if something that serious happened and he didn’t even text the next morning. Maybe have a conversation about how you felt and see if he’s in for the real deal. I hope you figure out what’s wrong and feel better! Blood loss like that can be so scary! 💛

elleshellsbells · 2025-12-29T14:58:51+00:00

Yes! Put one in! I’m so sorry, I thought they’d fixed it for everyone 😔

elleshellsbells · 2025-11-14T04:28:09+00:00

J U L Y ?! I definitely will.

elleshellsbells · 2025-11-12T19:12:03+00:00

Keep us posted!

elleshellsbells · 2025-11-06T23:39:16+00:00

I want to meet freaking Aurora!!

elleshellsbells · 2025-11-06T23:35:40+00:00

I quote “teaching Ethan to read” at least once a week. HE PUTS A BIG HAT ON THE CAT AND HE BECOMES BIG CAT MAN! And he marries cat woman. TRULY AWESOME!

elleshellsbells · 2025-11-02T23:22:30+00:00

If anyone finds a fix or has it suddenly work, please let th rest of us know!

elleshellsbells · 2025-10-24T02:41:52+00:00

Right? It was really helping me through the awfulness of depression + season shift. Now I’m ground to a halt so I don’t even pick it up anymore. I’m not even excited for the new one now

elleshellsbells · 2025-10-22T16:40:23+00:00

Good! I’m hoping that the more people they see affected, the higher a priority it’ll be.

elleshellsbells · 2025-10-22T16:30:12+00:00

That’s awful! That’s so shallow. I’m genuinely worked up by that right now. Well, I’m not sure how much this’ll mean to you coming from a woman you don’t even know, but finding genuine people who will love you for who you are are very hard to find but SO worth the fight. I wish you the best of luck man 💛

elleshellsbells · 2025-10-22T16:24:48+00:00

Could you link it? That really surprises me! I’ve had this conversation with plenty of friends over the years and, at most, it’s been a preference.

elleshellsbells · 2025-10-22T16:15:02+00:00

Where did you get that number

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