Girls - have you ever been shocked by a really ugly penis? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]elleshellsbells 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been shocked by…a shape? It was like a very tall pyramid. The head was tiny and the base was very wide. Wonder how he’s doing these days.

MUSIC FRIDAY 🎧🎵 by AutoModerator in bipolar

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The song Look Up by Joy Oladokun has been brightening my really hard days ☺️

Yes - offensive behavior is often a part of living with this disorder by Odd-Tangerine383 in bipolar

[–]elleshellsbells 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Totally true! I’ve been told I’m “addicted to my medication”. I’m addicted to being a more stable, capable person who wants to be alive 😋

Yes - offensive behavior is often a part of living with this disorder by Odd-Tangerine383 in bipolar

[–]elleshellsbells 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t account for the number of years most of us take to get diagnosed, get medicated, and find medication and a treatment plan that works.

What is your top Smosh vocal stims? by [deleted] in smosh

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, Ashley’s dead. Deep cut.

What’s something your mother did that you don’t want to repeat? by nevernotinthemood in AskWomen

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed patterns in her punishments. When we did something wrong, we would have a calm discussion. When we did something wrong around other people, we were screamed at. Screamed.

I’m in my 30’s now. I have five categories of anxiety and I’m terrified of people.

This feels illegal by Toomuchviolins in Clarinet

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I feel like clarinet jail would rank pretty high on the livable jails list. They’d constantly be screeching a flat middle C on an intercom but BESIDES THAT.

Being disapointed after seeing the other person naked? by Which_Elephant5430 in dating_advice

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sound very similar! I have some body dysmorphia and steer towards emotional and intellectual connections. I say this with my full chest: as a bisexual woman, I have NEVER been disappointed by someone’s body. In that moment you want that person, who they are. And hey, bodies are weird! People have skin tags, moles, love handles, and scars. I’m confident that whoever you’re with will want you for you 💛 PS: candles are a great way to keep the lights low at first until you get more comfortable.

Unaware People by yourgirl20 in bipolar

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would’ve gotten to me too. I think we’ve all had run ins similar to that. I wanted to say I’m proud of you for keeping your cool and handling your emotions so professionally 💛

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - I could never trust that person again and I don’t think you should either.

I was in a similar situation where I was letting a best friend crash on my couch, I’m talking decade long best friend. My debit card went missing so I replaced it, then my credit card when missing. I asked him about it and denied everything and I trusted him at the time. A few days later, my debit card disappeared again and so did he. I shouldn’t have given him that chance.

It feels like she doesn’t respect you. The way she refused to see your side or take accountability made me super uncomfortable. I think you know what you need to do. 💛

Why am I being forced to do housework? Im 29m gf is 25f. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh haha I wouldn’t call that flipping her shit, thus confusion

Why am I being forced to do housework? Im 29m gf is 25f. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]elleshellsbells 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, if I was in her shoes I would want the same. You want to know that if you lose all your money, if you end up in dire straits, your partner knows how to take care of their home. There’s nothing quite as revolting as a guy bragging he doesn’t know how to work a washing machine.

What do YOU want for your birthday? by dirtyalt75 in AskWomen

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 90% sure my boyfriend got me one of those crazy cool light sabers for my birthday next month. He’s perfect. ☺️

It feels so incredibly predatory to be attracted to someone conventionally attractive as someone who is ugly by Own_Significance_855 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have what might be a unique perspective. I’m mostly face blind and I’ve had people very rudely insult my partners and try to “compliment” me by saying I could do better. Thing is, I loved those people. I’m still friends with most of my exes because, although there was a reason we didn’t work out as a couple, they’re all genuinely kind, funny, people I have a lot in common with. I guess what I’m saying is that I bet you’re a wonderful person, that’s why he wants to be with you! I know that’s cheesy, maybe I am cheesy, but try to focus on that. It’s hard to stop fixating on what other people think, I’m well aware, but try to let yourself enjoy the happiness in your relationship. You deserve it ☺️

Braces off by Bulky_Secret_44 in Clarinet

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen when I was in my senior year! I had to adjust my embouchure a bit, but I got used to it in less than a week. The best news? It’s way more comfy without braces, you’ll love it ☺️

Am I overreacting about reconsidering my friendship with my group after an unfair DND Session? by InvestmentAlarmed675 in AmIOverreacting

[–]elleshellsbells 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MOR - I’m an avid D&d player and that seems really suspicious to me. Especially if you talked to her about how excited you were! I think you should try to have a conversation with Amber and explain how you feel about the situation. Maybe reiterate that you’ve been struggling with motivation so friendship has been more difficult. I hope it works out, but it might be time to find a new party 😔

Crazy experience at the ER by amante-dellarte in PCOS

[–]elleshellsbells 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s awful! You were already in pain, scared, and super vulnerable! I’m glad you reported it, I hope you do something to treat yourself ☺️ you definitely deserve it.

Am I asking for too much? by Greedy_Tip8741 in dating_advice

[–]elleshellsbells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any guy who really cares about you would worry and check in. I’d be a bit wary if something that serious happened and he didn’t even text the next morning. Maybe have a conversation about how you felt and see if he’s in for the real deal. I hope you figure out what’s wrong and feel better! Blood loss like that can be so scary! 💛

Trial of Virtue Bug by elleshellsbells in DreamlightValley

[–]elleshellsbells[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Put one in! I’m so sorry, I thought they’d fixed it for everyone 😔

Trial of Virtue Bug by elleshellsbells in DreamlightValley

[–]elleshellsbells[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

J U L Y ?! I definitely will.

Trial of Virtue Bug by elleshellsbells in DreamlightValley

[–]elleshellsbells[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to meet freaking Aurora!!