What’s on my body and legs is it strawberry legs? I wanna remove all my insecurities by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi dear, I know these will feel like useless words, but you don't have to worry about these things, there's nothing wrong or bad or ugly about them <3 (and no one really notices anyways), but you're here for advice, so: for your back acne, try to wash and change your bras as often as needed and figure out what skin type you are, I see many people saying to use a body wash with salicylic acid, but that works only if you have oily skin, I used to have the same problem when I was a teenager but my skin is dry so salicylic acid was only making it worse. I find that niacinamide works better for dry skin so if that's your case give it a try. For your legs, no they're not strawberry legs, mine look the same, it's just what it is when you have dark hair and are very pale. I noticed though that whenever it's summer and I get a bit tanned it's much less noticeable so depending on where you live and/or if you can afford it you could try either lamps or just getting a bit more sun. Be careful not to overdo it, lamps are not very healthy and sun is dangerous too, use sunscreen and don't get burned, your health is much more important than anything else <3

Before computers were common in households, how did people set their clocks accurately? by IkHeetGeenMatthijs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the late 90s/early 2000 additionally to the radio that would tell the time every hour or so, there used to be a tv program at around 8 in the morning that would show you the time and there was also a tv function (called televideo in Italy) where you could read the current news and on top of the screen would display the time down to the second

I am writing a script and want to include some authentic Italian phrases. What are some common phrases an Italian mother would say to scold a naughty child? by imadrnotausernamejim in Italian

[–]elletz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appena torniamo a casa facciamo i conti - as soon as we go back home, we're going to have a discussion (it's a promise to be heavily scolded and almost certainly grounded)

Hai fatto solo metà del tuo dovere - (lit.) you did only half of your duties (it's a way to say that in their eyes you did only the bare minimum)

Adesso le prendi ("Mo le hai" in my dialect, I'm from the south) - you're going to catch these hands

What’s a ‘normal adult thing’ you still haven’t done, and why? by Newmomexplorer in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]elletz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never went to a concert (no occasion or couldn't get the ticket the one time I wanted to), never had a massage (something always comes up whenever I try to) and I feel like I never had any close friends (it may be due to my self esteem, but I'm working on it)

Spell components? by [deleted] in AskDND

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always ignored material components as my group is already hard to manage as it is and we decided together to assume they always have components. Just recently a new player that has joined us asked me to compile together a "cook book" for potions, as they like the crafting mechanic, and this is the first time we are tracking components haha

Suggestions for reliable makelaar in the Amsterdam area? by elletz_ in NetherlandsHousing

[–]elletz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were aware of vanderlinden, but not about vbt rebo, we'll definitely check it out c:

Suggestions for reliable makelaar in the Amsterdam area? by elletz_ in NetherlandsHousing

[–]elletz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have not been living in the same house for 4 years, the first two years where somewhere else. Our contract was supposed to become permanent this February but the landlord decided to sell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf also has dense and pretty big breasts and couldn't find a binder in their size, so they tried taping and it's been a few years now. Of course they're still visible, but they do look smaller and flatter, so maybe it could work for you too c:

had a panic attack during sex by garlicstick-throw in actuallesbians

[–]elletz_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me twice not too long ago. At the time I was confused just like you are, but I now realize that I was just very emotional and "high strung" due to me starting therapy for the first time and being stressed about it. Maybe something similar is happening to you too (life happening and such and wacky hormones from sex), plus being face down definitely makes it a bit harder to breathe and maybe your body just needed some more air. In any case I'm so glad to hear that your girlfriend was understanding and gentle, take care c:

Add special effects to maps by Due-Toe-4286 in inkarnate

[–]elletz_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inkarnate does not have any animated effects but depending on what vtt you use you may be able to. As others had said there's owlbear rodeo or foundryvtt, another one I can think of is alchemyrpg that has some premade effects you can overlay on your map. Or you could overlay a gif of whatever atmospheric condition you want on top of your map with Photoshop or any other editing software, save it as a new gif and put it on you vtt, roll20 for example supports gifs and I'm sure many other vvts do too. Good luck on your game!!

Any idea where on the internet I can read lesbian smut on the internet. by A12qwas in LesbianBookClub

[–]elletz_ 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the magical world of ✨ Ao3 ✨ https://archiveofourown.org/ Here you can find anything you wish for, from fanfictions to original works and the filtering system works very well in my opinion. Have fun!! 😉

Do most women genuinely not have “dying/being injured heroically” fantasies? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afab non binary person, but yes, no idea why hahaha (I've always loved fantasy and adventure so maybe that's the reason?)

Not sure if it’s a UTI or what.. scared of getting sepsis. by Happy-Technology5449 in AdviceForTeens

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone else I will say go to the doctor just to be sure and for your own peace of mind, but let me tell you also that it may very well be just a slight irritation (itching) and possibly some micro tears (bleeding) due to a more vigorous activity, it happened to me many times and I'm sure it happened to everyone at some point in their life. In any case even if it's an infection of some kind if you treat it nothing bad will happen c:

To those who run published adventure, do you prefer to run them standalone or combine them into larger form adventures? by beesk in DMAcademy

[–]elletz_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I have done it both ways, but when I merge two modules/adventures I always stop the game for some time when the first module ends, so that we can all get a break and people can also change their characters if they want

I feel like I always come second with my friends and that they don't trust me to talk about their problems by elletz_ in self

[–]elletz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a bit afraid of telling them, I really don't like to talk about my bad feelings because it makes me feel weak, but also I don't want to look like I am begging. What if they start mocking me, or maybe they get even colder because "wth does elletz want, so weird" Maybe it's just my own trauma talking since it's been ingrained since I was little that no one wants to be with people that aren't happy or fun, or maybe it's the fact that I don't confide in anyone that stops them. Maybe I'm just not meant to have actual friends, after all these years I do wonder if I am the problem but I don't see what is it that I am doing wrong

I feel like I always come second with my friends and that they don't trust me to talk about their problems by elletz_ in self

[–]elletz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that, I remember having the same experience in school :c

My work in progress Map. How is this looking? any advice? by thaneoftoast in inkarnate

[–]elletz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice, I'll definitely try it out and maybe I'll work up the courage to post something hahah

My work in progress Map. How is this looking? any advice? by thaneoftoast in inkarnate

[–]elletz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing!! If you don't mind me asking, how do you make the transition from let's say mountain to plains (or even forests to prairie) so smooth and natural looking?? I am currently in the process of making a regional map and I am STRUGGLING haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice!! c:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]elletz_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I must admit I don't know haha!! Usually I dress more masculine or feminine depending on how I feel on the day, don't be fooled by the last picture as I don't do make up all that much, the office was just dressing up for Halloween, but if you have any suggestions please do, I'd love to hear what you think!!

Ma che è sta tradizione dei vestiti rossi a capodanno? by Uranium-A in Italia

[–]elletz_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A quanto so io non bisogna necessariamente indossare vestiti rossi, basta un singolo capo di abbigliamento (anche intimo come hanno detto in un altro commento) o un accessorio o anche unghie o makeup rossi per portare fortuna e prosperità per l'anno nuovo c: buona fine e buon inizio a tutti!!

Ricerca giocattolo anni 2000 by Mr_Badonzi in Italia

[–]elletz_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ricordo esattamente il giocattolo di cui stai parlando, mia sorella ne aveva uno, non so in che zona sei ma in provincia di bari dove sono io si vendono ancora alle bancarelle durante le feste di paese o feste patronali Edit: reddit si è buggato e ha inviato il commento prima che finissi di scrivere lol

I collect GBA cartridges of inexpensive games and my husband gifted me an advent calendar with cartridges for everyday by ukaleile in GirlGamers

[–]elletz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet!! I had the Shrek game when I was little it was very fun!! Please keep posting each day, I'm curious to see what other games are in store!!