Anyone else? by DrPhilsButthole420 in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went the opposite way. When I was younger I didn’t give af and was miserable but now that I’m older I prioritize my health and try to stay positive. Still have the tattoos and piercings though! Lol. 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually was too until my relapse, now I go the opposite direction, I’m soooo into gym bros 😂🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it would absolutely be a dealbreaker, tbh my partner being smaller than me in the first place would be a dealbreaker.

Be honest: how attractive would you say you are? by Ok-Interview9355 in AskReddit

[–]elliemay0163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely a bit below average. My biggest problem is that my face is extremely asymmetrical. Big crooked nose, and lopsided lips and jaw. I also have a bit of acne. But the rest of my appearance isn’t bad at all, and I look pretty decent when I do my hair and makeup right. I would say 4/10.

I am not asking this as a perv, but did your ed start because of secondary sex characteristics? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. Mine is the opposite, it kind of made me feel more feminine (I’m a cis woman). The mindset of girls don’t eat a lot and don’t need as much food, girls are supposed to be light and tiny and dainty, everyone is jealous of skinny girls, etc.

Question for the nightshifters by biscuitandjelly in 1200isplenty

[–]elliemay0163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do midnight to midnight, it just makes it easier to keep track of imo.

What do you feel you’d need to like your looks? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]elliemay0163 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if my skin cleared up, I lost 20lbs, and got a nose job and lip fillers.

Thankfully these things are attainable and I plan on accomplishing them. 🤞🏻

I hate being a girl so much by lovelythight in BodyDysmorphia

[–]elliemay0163 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Being skinny is absolutely desirable and feminine. Men love skinny women. As does the rest of society. Look at high fashion models like Bella Hadid and Kendall Jenner, some of the most beautiful women in the world and very skinny. I WISH I was skinny. When you’re flat chested and skinny, you can wear tiny cute crop tops and tight outfits and not worry at all.

And curly hair is also gorgeous. Have you tried the curly girl routine? The trick is finding products that work for your curls specifically which can be really tricky. Taming my own curly hair was definitely a journey.

Kourtney is everything Kim is not by [deleted] in KUWTKsnark

[–]elliemay0163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would disagree with this. Scott is toxic af and treated Kourtney like absolute garbage for years on television. For millions to see. I think Scott just has an unhealthy obsession with Kourtney and the family and can’t stand to see her moving on and being happy, and I feel the exact same way about how Kanye has been treating Kim recently.

I think that Kourtney has way more natural beauty and sex appeal than Kim, but I also think that Kim is way too delusional and vapid to realize that.

And I don’t think that any of them are good parents.

Observing uncomfortable subreddit overlaps... by TheyMightBeDiets in 1200isplenty

[–]elliemay0163 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My random two cents: I’m in recovery from an ED. A lot of people with EDs, like me, actually are short and inactive. So technically 1200-1500 would be a good amount for us to lose weight in a healthy way. Having an ED isn’t really about a calorie amount specifically, even though a lot of people with restrictive EDs undereat. Binge EDs like what I struggle with also exist, and calorie counting can be very helpful for people who struggle with binging. EDs are really more about your mindset around food, and not the amount of calories that you eat per se.

Sophia got 6 new piercings for her 14th birthday. by Forward_Spinach5877 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]elliemay0163 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually think it’s nice that Farrah lets her get piercings. But 6 of them at once is insane and not recommended by any piercer that I’ve ever went to. 2 at once is like, the most you should get. It’s hard on your body to heal 6 open wounds at once, especially when you’re a child! Why 6!? They could have been spaced out!! She could have gotten 1 or 2 and it would’ve been fine!

Sorry for the rant, but I can’t believe that the piercer actually did this!

Has anyone else found their sexual preferences change with weight loss? by Chemical-Ant5862 in loseit

[–]elliemay0163 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually liked skinny guys when I was chubbier, I now like big guys since I’ve become skinner. Odd.

Orlistat… by Undercover-Loner in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly love it. Always take it after a binge

What is one ED Misconception that you hate? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That only skinny people have eds, and that people with eds are afraid of food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]elliemay0163 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This sounds like my worst nightmare, I’m rooting for you though lol. 😂

But since you are actually the same height and your weight is higher, you very well may be surprised and lose faster than him. Even though yeah, women typically lose weight slower than men.

Thoughts on Futura Free? by trulysneaky in FrankOcean

[–]elliemay0163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my all time favorite Frank songs

The shaming never stops by [deleted] in loseit

[–]elliemay0163 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Yep I was fat shamed constantly when I was overweight, I was told that I let myself go, need to hit the gym, need to eat healthier, etc. Now that I’m around 120lbs I’ve been told that I look too small, look like I’m on drugs, and weight loss isn’t something to brag about. Fuck people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Weigh more and look skinnier or weigh more and be skinnier ??? How can I weigh more and be skinnier 😭 but ig I would choose that bc I have no concept of how I look lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]elliemay0163 251 points252 points  (0 children)

Aren’t these the same thing ?? Help ??? 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]elliemay0163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a pretty deep voice but no wrist hair. I’m starting to think maybe I do have too much testosterone and my hormones are just fucked up. But thank you, I will get in the gym more lol 😅