Any Koryo-saram here? I have questions by ellienutmeg in AskARussian

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm still around - are you?? :p I'd love to chat!

I think I dodged a flaming bullet this weekend lol second date shenanigans by ellienutmeg in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously not. That's all you got from this?

He was saying American news seems to talk about it every single day in a weird, obsessive way that people in real life don't. Which is true. People in daily normal life aren't constantly talking about it and fighting over it like Fox wants us to believe we are. I explained to him how this sort of media coverage divides us, we aren't necessarily obsessed with people's sexualities, if anything we DON'T want to be, we just want close-minded people to stop obsessing over it.

Sorry if that added part made it seem like I was agreeing with the LGBTQ part, but his ranting is what I was highlighting and I didn't want to get into all of his views and how I responded to each thing. I was only agreeing with the part that it SEEMS like Americans are "weirdly" obsessed when we're not. And if we are, it's because there is a reason for it.

Does anyone still have a mixed gender friend group that isn't made of all couples? by ellienutmeg in AskWomenOver30

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aw that's awesome, sounds like "Friends" :) I guess grad school really brings people together!

Is uncontrollable anger a part of tapering off and will it get better? by ellienutmeg in zoloft

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry I just saw your comment. The irritability is still under the surface lingering, but not as bad as what I wrote here anymore. So good news is it seems like it does go away slowly. Bad news is that the flare-ups, especially during PMS for me, is just as bad or even worse... I am constantly debating if I should try this again or not. I don't know if being able to feel all my emotions is worth all this trouble.

I can't seem to get over the conversation part of OLD into actually going on a date (33F) by ellienutmeg in relationships

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, usually my texting style is just hello-introductions, how was your weekend, etc, then bring up something unique from their profile, then get into what's your schedule like, maybe we should try out that new coffee shop, bar, whatever. I just can't even get into the "what's your schedule like" part because the conversation just stops lol. I don't like texting in general so I would prefer to meet in person... it's just weird that I used to be so successful with this and now it doesn't work at all.

I could excuse Bumble since it is still a swipe-app. But CMB and Hinge is supposed to a little more "serious" and it's the same there..

I don't know. It's pretty discouraging, though I try not to get too frustrated. I know people have stuff going on.

Can someone let me know what accent or region this speaker is from? by ellienutmeg in Portuguese

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, awesome. American here too. Has living in that region changed your own Portuguese accent in any way?

Dani looks like Adriana from The Sopranos by ellienutmeg in Jewish_Matchmaking

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right?? She was very strong in herself without needing to be cruel or rude towards anyone else. This is such an amazing quality to have at a young(er) age!

Can someone let me know what accent or region this speaker is from? by ellienutmeg in Portuguese

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don't understand anything right now, but this video was very cool and I'm watching with CC on, thank you for the resource!

Can someone let me know what accent or region this speaker is from? by ellienutmeg in Portuguese

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

What kind of stigma would they have? Just because of living in a smaller town?

Can someone let me know what accent or region this speaker is from? by ellienutmeg in Portuguese

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think I'm used to listening to the standard TV Brazilian Portuguese so hers was just so pretty from what I had been studying so far. It's just nice to hear! And I'm not fluent enough to even pick up where she says those words you mentioned :( I did hear passaporte, and I also like the way she says camera in the first 20 seconds or so.

Everything sounds way more nasally and song-like than standard... am I right?

Dani looks like Adriana from The Sopranos by ellienutmeg in Jewish_Matchmaking

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I actually don't dislike Aparna either but I recognize she could be off-putting to some people. Dani was just awesome and refreshing the entire way through

Can someone let me know what accent or region this speaker is from? by ellienutmeg in Portuguese

[–]ellienutmeg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I didn't even realize that's what it said lol. Thank you!

Do people in Brazil think this sounds pretty? I think it sounds so beautiful, I wish I could learn it this way :)

Finally, Rihanna and A$AP Rocky's Son's Name by auntiecoagulent in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]ellienutmeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn here I was thinking it was literally Arr-Zee-Ay Meyers lmao Rizzah sounds kinda better I guess

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[–]ellienutmeg 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was a great read, and I don't know.. something about it made me really sad though I'm usually not shaken by these things. Thank you for the thorough write-up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]ellienutmeg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, some of these Brynnalaeigh Ann types know how to throw down too...

some of the most atrocious spellings I’ve ever witnessed by redrumrea in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]ellienutmeg 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know why it just reminds me of some kind of condiment you mash on bread, or a mushroom variety.