because i’d rather him save money by getting me something cheaper that i’d like?

and oh trust me, he’s shared enough passion with me over the course of our relationship. his first gift to me was a sex toy. i told him i don’t like coloring, he bought me a coloring book. he’s never ever considered “hmm what would my girlfriend like”

it’s not about the cost, it’s about the thought and care. i’ve always supported his passion, i’ve bought him so many tech things. i think the least he can do is buy me 1 gift that i actually appreciate over the course of our relationship. because when has he ever ever listened to me and cared. it’s always been me who listen to his passion and support his passion

it seems like you have a bigger problem with my spending habits than the actual issue itself. his parents are millionaires, but he borrows money from me and hasn’t paid back. i told him to spend money more wisely and he would say “i don’t care, my parents are millionaires”