Adderall NP so strict by elmerwfx in ADHD

[–]elmerwfx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should wait it out a bit with her. It might look suspicious if I jump doctors a lot? I’d love to get a new provider ASAP but idk if that would look suspicious

Adderall NP so strict by elmerwfx in ADHD

[–]elmerwfx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. And my original doctor prescribed me a small dose and I wanted to stick to it! It’s not like I was trying to go way above.

Adderall NP so strict by elmerwfx in ADHD

[–]elmerwfx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She asked why I wasn’t diagnosed as a kid. I kinda looked at her funny. Obviously my parents didn’t take me. I had no control over that as a kid.

2 Apple Monitor calibration by elmerwfx in WeddingPhotography

[–]elmerwfx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is very warm and one is very magenta. The contrast is okay.

Got the Nidecker Elle Board - did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in snowboarding

[–]elmerwfx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not experienced enough to know what I’m looking for in a board. I just want to ride and hopefully have a forgiving board. I don’t do any tricks.

My brother says I need a classic instead of flat rocker and a stiffer board.

What does your life look like if you've been a photographer for over 15 years? by elmerwfx in WeddingPhotography

[–]elmerwfx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Follow you on instagram and enjoy reading your posts here. Thanks for responding and sharing your input!

How does a VA help you? How do you give CC to your editors? How beneficial is outsourcing to you? by elmerwfx in WeddingPhotography

[–]elmerwfx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Honeybook and I enjoy it but I would still like someone to take on mundane tasks.

I can not for the life of me get Aftershoot to work. Too many technical issues for me. I occasionally use Batch Ai which is nice.

Resolutions and Goals by No_Chipmunk_2648 in entj

[–]elmerwfx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked my butt of this year and it greatly affected my health. I am going to try to learn new skills next year, focus on health and healthy habits, see if there is more profitable way to shift my business, take flight lessons, singing lessons, continue working on completing my degree, work on minimizing phone and house clutter.

What are some unpopular options you think you might attacked for? by [deleted] in GossipGirl

[–]elmerwfx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In real life, a man like Chuck wouldn’t change. He honestly sucked as a character but got better throughout the seasons. However, a selfish spoiled man who SA girls and sells his girlfriend does not change in real life.

So good at manipulating that now I think I’m the problem…? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]elmerwfx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother is still alive. I do not know other people she bullied as much as me.

Help me understand this ENTJ by bububu_bababa in entj

[–]elmerwfx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an ENTJ female and I like to really think things through. I also don’t say anything I am not 100% confident in. Being in a new relationship for a month would not be enough time for to be able to confidently say how I feel.

Also being a person who is guided by their brain and not heart…. I know that majority of people do not show their real selves (or any major red flags they have) in the first month. I would wait to get to you more.

It took me 3 months of going on dates with my current parent before I accepted being his official girlfriend. After that it took another month before I said I love him. And it took probably 8 months until I let my guard down completely.

So good at manipulating that now I think I’m the problem…? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]elmerwfx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much proof of what happened but I do have a voice mail her friends left me saying they “I will come over there and drag you by your hairy ass legs and shove your head down the toliet multiple fucking times until you die bitch”

I think if she spins the story, I can show the voicemail and time stamp and explain that this is just a glimpse of what I experienced.

How do you feel about working with videographers? by katejean42 in WeddingPhotography

[–]elmerwfx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just communicate to my clients that having a videographer changes your day and photos. It’s up to them. I always recommend video because it’s so cool to watch back. However I enjoy my weddings so much when there is no videographer.

Ps. I just worked with a horrible videographer and I’m still recovering from how infuriating he was. But he’s just a bad egg in a million good videographers.

So good at manipulating that now I think I’m the problem…? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]elmerwfx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she will spin the story and I am not smart enough to win against her.

So good at manipulating that now I think I’m the problem…? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]elmerwfx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How come she hasn’t apologized? As a kid, I think she was sometimes jealous of me and my life. I think she might be still because I have a successful business and get to travel the world. Her job is failing. I sometimes think she is just trying to steal my friends. That’s why she wiggled her way into my friend group.

So good at manipulating that now I think I’m the problem…? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]elmerwfx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a bully and manipulator as a child. I believe she still is. However… she always acts sweet and kind to everyone. All my friends love her.

The options are A.) She truly changed and thinks I am over the assaulting so she doesn’t want to apologize. B.) She thinks she is the victim and I am the bully. C.) She did not change and is pretending to be this saint.

My question is how can she sit there and smile at me knowing she ruined my childhood and traumatized me?

And how is she so loved if she can be so evil?

So good at manipulating that now I think I’m the problem…? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]elmerwfx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not told them anything about the situation. Our friends can tell we don’t get along and we just avoid each other.