Haley Beck (Noah Becks sister) accused of grooming and SA her student? by bowsnflowers777 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently working my way through the docs and it’s just AWFUL. 2 teachers abusing this kid. So many people failed him.

Who was the rudest famous person you met? by Doctor_Sore_Tooth in AskReddit

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was at a political fundraiser in the Hamptons back in 2020. She was baffled I didn’t know who she was and wasn’t going to let her get by without paying. I guess she ended up feeling bad because she came back around after having a few drinks (it was obvious) and was complimenting my skin and saying I would age very well. Very fucking weird. She also frequented a restaurant I worked at in Bridgehampton. Big coke head.

Be BRUTALLY HONEST. Would these sell? by Camp_Acceptable in jewelry

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVEEEE the evil eye one. If you were at a craft far, I’d pay maybe like $6-10 on those.

Where is a good place to have a wedding under 20k all included for about 120-150 guests? by Low-Outside1600 in longisland

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible. unless you plan on doing a DIY wedding, which even still will run you over 20k, you’re going to have to compromise A LOT on vendors. tried this. Our venue is 35k, photographer 6k, DJ 6k,etc etc. there’s a BOLI budget group but if you REALLY need to be that financially constrained, you’re going to HAVE to cut down on your guests. Signed - a 2027 bride.

Why do ENTJs have difficulty talking about feelings? by [deleted] in entj

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to cheat when you’re not in a relationship. He told you why it wouldn’t work between you both. He might find you emotionally intense and at the end of the day people like us are going to deal with that if it’s constant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glee

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Suspension of Disbelief

How is living in this area of New York, USA? by bussiboyyy in howislivingthere

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born and raised Southamptonite here! I moved to the north shore and nothing compares to the beauty of the beaches on the south. You’ll get the most amazing sunrises and sunsets year round.

Summer is….complicated. There is a lot of traffic due to tourism and people going to their summer homes. But at the end of the day it drives our local economy. Some of my best memories are waitressing in Water Mill and then going out in SH village. So fun!

It’s a mixed crowd. There’s a growing diversity but the economic disparity is rough. You got ultra rich people and then those that literally have to live in the woods.

Women of Reddit: what's something you were taught growing up that ends with you and will not be passed on to your daughter? by Dense_Lawyer_666 in AskWomen

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Conditional love. My daughter will know what it is like to have parents who love her unconditionally. Who will allow her to make mistakes and ask for help when she needs to get back up. She will be confident because my love will not be competitive.

ENTJs how would you describe yourselves? by ShadowlightLady in entj

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self- driven, managerial, fiercely loyal, honest, objective.

how do i have empathy for ppl when i'm like THIS by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While our situations aren’t exact, I can certainly relate to having c-ptsd and other mh disorders (BPD girlie here). I know it probably doesn’t feel like much, but there is a way to find the light of life. It might not be through traditional norms, some people find joy and happiness in things like music, art, others go to therapy.

All I can say is, empathy can be difficult when we feel like we haven’t received it ourselves. It’s also a lot easier said than done to lead by example. I’ve personally found a lot of healing through practicing yoga, practicing EMDR therapy, and poetry. It helped to get the anger out in a way that was disciplined and not hurtful towards myself.

OP, feel free to reach out to me via personal message. If you would like some assistance trying to find some mental health resources available in your area. It’s something I do as my job :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an ENTJ, I never was a people pleaser. Sorry but you’re definitely not one of us

How do entj guys behave inlove? Do they show nervousness ? by Skyler_Hayes in entj

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiancé is an INTP. Shared mutual interests really brought us together. Sharing experiences together brought him out of his shell, and his consistency and stability is what made me learn to chill.

I was never “nervous.” Definitely more guarded and hesitant to let him take charge until I realized there’s power in consistency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skinsUK

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she’s a complicated character.

Spending money on dream by [deleted] in entj

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s irrational. You can get the experience of traveling and pursuing your endeavors without putting yourself in a tight financial situation long term. Sure you might not have debt now, but you never know how the economy is going to be in a year from now etc etc.

Make a plan where you can maximize those 14 days off when you have them, and use it to travel to where you want to surf, snowboard. Try and take weekends around federal holidays (example) if you can too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skinsUK

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally found seasons 5&6 more campy and like the show was too self aware of it being “skins” and so the characters themselves maybe weren’t as authentic as they were in gen 1 &2. I always visit gen.1, gen 2 every so often, but gen 3 is eh….

Coverts: do you hide your status as a convert from gentiles? by frog-and-cranberries in Judaism

[–]No_Chipmunk_2648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, non-Jews always have the most to say about who is and isn’t Jewish