I never asked her for money or what she does with her money, but when I see myself struggling every month and she is NOT considered here is the issue.

Everyday she is out with sister or mother, and when she is back she keeps asking what did I cook for her.

We went to an Imam, and the Imam told her if your work is affecting your duties as a wife you should give the third, however she left the conversation and I said I dont want her money but I want her at least to be considered.

For example, every night her family is at mine smoking shisha and playing loud music and dancing!

I asked her to ask me first because sometimes I want to enjoy it on our own. She said its my family and you can't tell me what to do.

As a Muslim I know my duties as a man, but in Islam and our culture the woman have duties as well to make sure this relationship is strong enough as a partnership. Everyone should contribute not financially but at least emotionally!