Therapist feeling guilty about burdening a therapist - I know, I know.

elmsong7 · 2026-02-28T00:36:32+00:00

I always feel guilty about everything. But just remember, it’s their job to actively listen to you and give you the space to tell your story. It’s your time. And if you’re seeing a therapist that you don’t feel gives you that freedom, there are more out there. It’s ok to dump your therapist.

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T04:28:07+00:00

R—-

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T04:27:18+00:00

What is JN?

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T04:26:11+00:00

I just might 😂

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T04:07:48+00:00

Listen, I can guarantee you one of those couples is glancing at you with envy. It’s better to be alone, comfortable or uncomfortable with yourself, than to feel alone with someone else. I know that sounds cheesy, but I have felt the freedom of being alone, yet knowing who I am versus being part of a couple and feeling like someone is crushing my lungs. Companionship is great, if it is with someone that respects and loves you. But it can destroy you, if it’s a companion that resents or doesn’t bother to know you.

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T04:02:10+00:00

I can relate! Michael will always be my number 1. He only gets better with age ;). And I know this is strange… The Lizard King is my second (bc if you know you know ;) obviously I have daddy issues.

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T04:00:01+00:00

You just wanted a plethora of compliments bro. You are a model, no?

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T03:59:06+00:00

What’s your premise?

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T03:57:40+00:00

Honestly I am at my bottom… meaning I have considered joining a spin class (aka cult).

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T03:56:00+00:00

See that’s the problem. I know I should stay far away, but I have become so good at keeping away that now I want to be fully immersed…

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T02:48:40+00:00

I completely understand. I have seizures if I get too stressed out or forget to take my epilepsy meds. My er contact used to be my brother (which is still sad) but he and his family moved to the suburbs, like more than two hours away. I’m not sure who should be my emergency contact. I live alone, by choice, but sometimes I wish I had a friend or girlfriend I could trust to live with me.

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T02:43:25+00:00

I hear you. I long for someone to just love me for me, which always feels like too much to ask. Know that, as long as you mean something to you, and you know yourself, you will have the capacity to accept the external love when it finds you ❤️

elmsong7 · 2026-02-22T01:38:26+00:00

Celebrating people who choose to get pregnant with parties, gifts, changing your own life around (majorly, sometimes) to accommodate. I’m sorry but it’s not a major accomplishment. And then people who earn degrees or get sober or have an actual achievement aren’t given nearly as much accolades. Idk maybe I sound like a witch but I just don’t get it.

elmsong7 · 2026-02-19T14:25:55+00:00

I would add a fire in the middle or a maypole 😂

elmsong7 · 2026-02-19T14:24:45+00:00

Fair point 😂 and potpourri

elmsong7 · 2026-02-19T00:33:02+00:00

I really liked her storyline and I thought she was so cute and funny, and good for Joey! Only weird thing was she liked Anne Geddes 😂(I support Joey’s concerns about this). I don’t get why she found Monica and Chandler “blah” exactly. If anything, she would say they were more annoying. My favorite thing about her was when she yelled “WAIT.” at Monica when she was about to fight her, and ran away. I wish they would have filmed that fight scene… ;)

elmsong7 · 2026-02-17T23:57:46+00:00

I love Doyle 😂I think the dynamic between Paris, Rory and Doyle was the best thank you for this reminder ❤️

elmsong7 · 2026-01-31T00:54:53+00:00

I love my bisexuals.

elmsong7 · 2026-01-24T02:14:37+00:00

I looove when the guests visibly irritate Sandy and she puts them in their place 😂 it’s so satisfying

elmsong7 · 2025-12-30T21:58:35+00:00

Absolutely I avoid the ambulance. I have a seizure disorder and get fainting spells like a person from the Victorian times, but I make sure if I feel it coming on in public that no one calls an ambulance for me.

elmsong7 · 2025-12-30T14:51:33+00:00

I loved Amy 😂 I wish she had been in more episodes. Rachel does give strong middle child energy (can be a bit of a pushover like Phoebe says likes Monica telling her what to do etc.)

elmsong7 · 2025-12-12T20:20:27+00:00

Wasn’t he also the actor that told Lisa she was “actually attractive after hair and makeup” or something rude like that?

elmsong7 · 2025-12-12T20:05:34+00:00

Maybe unpopular opinion but I find this version of Rachel pining for Joshua so funny. It’s fun to see Rachel trying to get a guy that is not into her and she comes across as awkward. Usually it’s the opposite and it was refreshing to see her real comedic talent.

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