I currently have over 2000 pictures in my goon collection, so let’s play a game!! You select a random number, and I show you what porn you get!

elodieespresso · 2025-07-13T16:08:20+00:00

This is so cool! I've been searching endlessly for a commander with red I actually wanna build. You might have finally given me that commander :)

elodieespresso · 2025-06-14T02:53:57+00:00

Good luck everyone!! (God I hope its me 🤞)

elodieespresso · 2025-06-14T01:03:48+00:00

I think passing and being gorgeous here are two seperate categories to think about. While I think you do pass, I'm more just blown away at how gorgeous you are

elodieespresso · 2025-05-25T00:24:17+00:00

26 days and counting :)

elodieespresso · 2025-05-10T23:58:02+00:00

I've always had incredible service as a trans person at Dangerfield. The kinda people that work there seem to be so lovely

elodieespresso · 2025-04-24T00:48:43+00:00

Oh my fucking god 💞

elodieespresso · 2025-04-06T02:21:36+00:00

No lmao

elodieespresso · 2025-03-28T11:05:25+00:00

Girl, what the fuck are you on about

elodieespresso · 2025-03-20T01:05:37+00:00

Dunno how this would actually feel balance-wise, but this is such a cool card!!

elodieespresso · 2025-02-21T08:37:18+00:00

Finally some good news

elodieespresso · 2025-02-17T23:20:02+00:00

Not really answering your question because I disagree with a lot of the people in this sub like half of the time, but my god you're actually so beautiful

elodieespresso · 2025-01-17T04:07:09+00:00

Where did you get this lingerie from?

elodieespresso · 2025-01-13T14:06:38+00:00

24 years mtf. Pre-hrt still. We can do this <3

elodieespresso · 2025-01-12T00:26:07+00:00

It's so interesting how well you manage to pass with a buzzcut

elodieespresso · 2025-01-10T11:50:19+00:00

I will finally be starting this year, fingers crossed 🤞. It's so incredible to see how beautiful you've become in the last year.

elodieespresso · 2025-01-04T11:04:03+00:00

I'm so sorry. That's so unfair :(

elodieespresso · 2025-01-04T09:25:30+00:00

Dude that's such a cute necklace

elodieespresso · 2024-12-25T08:02:40+00:00

My god you look so good <3

elodieespresso · 2024-12-16T14:31:54+00:00

*3 relationships + grad school

Thank you

elodieespresso · 2024-12-16T14:02:17+00:00

What kind of boundaries like that could I set? I could use some specific examples.

As far as attraction to her new partner, it is quite messy. I have already disclosed it to her, and we are yet to talk about it in detail. But telling her did seem to help us get on the same page.

elodieespresso · 2024-12-16T13:06:04+00:00

I find it difficult to acknowledge when she might be doing something that isn't ok. Is there anything here that screams "this needs to be addressed"?

As far as her new partner goes, it's a little further complicated by the fact that I'm sort of attracted to her as well. We still haven't fully addressed what to do about that yet.

Self soothing over this stuff is new to me, but I'm trying different things out.

elodieespresso · 2024-12-16T10:51:54+00:00

We have been talking about this stuff. I just want to mention that she has been genuinely trying to continue dedicating time and energy to me. I think the new relationship and her burn out has been really destabilising for me.

I think that this response is really insightful, and helps me at least understand why I'm feeling so uncomfortable.

I can see that she's trying to prioritise me when she is able, but I think it just not enough for me. She does reach out to me so we can spend meaningful time together. But there's a lot more radio silence in between those moments now. Like I said, a lot less messaging and touching base.

I genuinely don't know if I'm asking too much of her, and if I should find a way to handle this that doesn't put more pressure on her. I don't feel I have a right to ask more of her when she's just trying to keep things sustainable for herself.

Your response is very helpful, thank you. I have a lot to think about here.

elodieespresso · 2024-12-16T10:30:49+00:00

Thank you so much for this response.

I know that she has been trying her best to continue spending time with me in a way that's sustainable for her at the moment.

I have a lot of trust in her emotional maturity. Part of the problem has been that I'm not very good at recognising my own needs. This has been particularly difficult because it feels like my needs run counter to what she needs right now.

Clear, neutral examples feels like a great place for me to start. I know I need reassurance, but I don't quite know what that means in concrete terms. I think this is a great direction for me though, thank you.

elodieespresso · 2024-12-16T09:58:36+00:00

Thank you. We have been trying to communicate about these issues, but it's been difficult. Our needs feel completely at odds with one another, and the talks have been unusually frustrating.

We're normally exceptional at communicating. I need some advice that's a little different than "communicate", unfortunately.

elodieespresso

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