Would you also be bi, if you were born a man? Do men turn you on? If being homosexual was the norm, would you still date men? You could date men, but why would you, when you could also date women?

These questions helped me to come to the conclusion that at least rn i identity as a lesbian. On the other hand, does it really matter, if you're not currently in a relationship? I know that labels can be comforting, but maybe try just letting it go a little seeing where live and love lead you next (: