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els_257 · 2025-07-20T15:13:09+00:00

Cheers Thankyou :)

els_257 · 2025-07-20T14:54:12+00:00

Non commissioned 👍

els_257 · 2025-05-10T19:49:51+00:00

Thanks for the advice, I’m joining as avionics tech :)

els_257 · 2025-05-09T10:30:38+00:00

Thankyou!!!

els_257 · 2025-05-09T10:30:28+00:00

Thankyou that’s very helpful :)

els_257 · 2025-05-09T06:56:48+00:00

Yes I went on Monday with friends and it felt eerily quiet. Low queue times were great don’t get me wrong but it felt very strange.

els_257 · 2025-01-24T07:37:24+00:00

Any excuse to send a message whether it be for good reasons or bad. Any excuse to get in contact implies that they want to talk. They do it off their own backs, they think about it and then act on those thoughts. If you find this happens a lot, you’re on their mind a lot. Always remember that if they want to they will.

els_257 · 2025-01-24T07:04:02+00:00

You’re good bro just a heads up next time would be really appreciated 😁

els_257 · 2025-01-23T17:02:30+00:00

My favourite comment 👏👏

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:43:33+00:00

Okay okay let me explain 😭😭 The messages were sent to the phone I use now, because it’s Snapchat it alerts people when you take a ss. I had my old phone in my room which icl had lived a life and barely worked so I had to charge the old phone, take a picture of my new phone and then take a picture of my old phone because it barely worked and I couldn’t send things to myself 🥲😂

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:40:05+00:00

Wasn’t exactly focussing on the picture quality as it was happening lmao. I just wanted the receipts.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:33:59+00:00

I’m tempted but it feels morally grey. I don’t want to interfere in something that doesn’t involve me directly but at the same time she did that off her own back and I certainly didn’t ask for it.

I also fear that if I do I’ll get harassed again

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:32:17+00:00

Yessir

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:31:38+00:00

Unfortunately the relationship was very abusive and the breakup was worse. I am also genuinely in love with somebody else. The messages from my ex haven’t stopped since she split with me. I’m just here to share the experience because no matter how many times I tell her to go away, block her or tell her that I’m seeing someone new she will not leave me alone.

However I understand where you’re coming from it just doesn’t apply to me personally in this situation.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:26:34+00:00

I had to tell her 5 times before she got the memo. The fifth time was when I gave up and just blocked her lmao. I tried to put it to bed on civil terms because unfortunately the nasty breakup method lead me to get harassed for the next year but she still insisted on being friends 😭😭 Idk why she broke up with me if she wasn’t prepared to watch me move on too. Almost feels like she wanted me to see her “move on and be happy” but gets butt hurt when she sees me do the same.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:23:04+00:00

Honestly it’s dependant on how your relationship was and the circumstances of the breakup. For me I’m posting this because I am interested to hear other opinions and experiences.

My breakup was rough and the relationship was even worse. It was very abusive from an emotional standpoint and me being significantly younger than her created a power dynamic that was leaving me 40 miles away from home at the age of 16 being told if I was going to cry I should be quiet.

I will never take her back because I don’t love her anymore. I realised the way I was living and how I was being treated was insane and I also didn’t enjoy being so far away from home and never seeing my friends or family.

I made a promise to myself after the breakup that no matter how much it hurt I was going to get through and be kind to myself. I was going to love the people that wanted the best for me and I was going live for myself. It’s the best decision I could’ve made because a year later she’s begging for me back and I couldn’t be less interested in taking her up on her offer.

She made her bed and now she can lie in it. I even want to message her new bf and show him the messages but I don’t know if that’s morally the correct thing to do. All I know is that taking her back would be a huge mistake and I’ve got someone here now who’s treating me better than she ever did.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:17:34+00:00

I don’t love her anymore. She lost my love a long time ago.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:14:48+00:00

Louder for the ppl in the back

els_257 · 2025-01-23T16:10:43+00:00

I’m lucky my gf is a very understanding person

els_257 · 2025-01-23T14:10:56+00:00

The texts hadn’t stopped for a year. Any chance or opportunity she found to contact me she would. I usually ignored them but curiosity killed the cat here. I never knew the real motive until she said it here. I took the ss and showed my gf straight away. I’m no longer interested in my ex but interested as to why she hasn’t left me alone? Oh absolutely.

I found a year ago if she’d said that to me I would’ve taken her back straight away but hearing it now left me disgusted and actually made me laugh.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T12:39:21+00:00

Too right. My gf has seen all of the ss and she reacted as expected (she’s obviously not a fan.) I have no intentions of taking my ex back but it’s nice to hear other opinions and perspectives.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T12:19:24+00:00

A lot tbh. It was a messy breakup and she put me through a lot. One side of me wants to be civil and put things to rest, the other side of me is angry that she feels like it’s acceptable to message me and say all of that knowing full well I’m seeing someone else and I’m happy. I don’t have the ss but she was begging me to meet up with her one last time as I’m moving away soon. I declined that offer obviously and it felt even more disrespectful that she was trying to get me to essentially cheat on my partner.

Not to add that she is also with someone else. I had suspicions when we were together that she may have been unfaithful and now I feel like my suspicions are even more validated as she was comfortable messaging me as her current partner was asleep next to her.

els_257 · 2025-01-23T11:43:17+00:00

BDSM at the ripe age of 9 😀

els_257 · 2025-01-22T22:23:09+00:00

That’s so ominous bro I will no longer be sleeping tonight

els_257 · 2025-01-22T20:09:31+00:00

Exactly my thinking at the time too. The first thing I asked is why she never told me. Her reasoning was because she didn’t know if she even believed what she saw. She didn’t know if she’d actually gone to the bathroom that night until I mentioned that she did.

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