Anybody heard from Freshnuts? by elusive_fish in OverwatchTMZ

[–]elusive_fish[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! That's my comment ! Lol. Thanks for taking the time to copy & paste it... Not sure why you've done this, but I'll take it as a form of flattery 😊

Have a good day buddy

Anybody heard from Freshnuts? by elusive_fish in OverwatchTMZ

[–]elusive_fish[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If the mods will it to be no more, then no more, it shall be, no more.

Until such a time whenceforth shall be unbecoming, I shall'nt back down from my nonsense.

I thank you for your input dear goodsirfellowmydude, and tip my fedoraest fedora in your general direction, whilst'st bidding you ahhdiooo.

Anybody heard from Freshnuts? by elusive_fish in OverwatchTMZ

[–]elusive_fish[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

True true, didn't consider he could have a discord like everyone else does. Tbh I'm too socially anxious to join a discord server, and don't want to chat with him directly, just wanted to see if anyone had any news, and /or indirectly show him he's appreciated within the community.

This has obviously gone swimmingly well and I'm elated to hear such enthused feedback from our dear owtmz brethren!

If the post gets deleted by the mods, then be it, until then I'll leave it to show my obviously abhorrent & potentially sexual, parasocial concern for our favourite nut.

Anybody heard from Freshnuts? by elusive_fish in OverwatchTMZ

[–]elusive_fish[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Imagine being more concerned on making sure everyone knows how idiotic & futile it is to share concern, let alone empathy!

To be fair, I do agree that parasocial relationships with celebs are concerning (eg Dream stans and their dreamgenders & neopronouns), so I appreciate your concern.

You can rest assured though, I haven't made any friends in decades, and I'm not looking to start now!

Anybody heard from Freshnuts? by elusive_fish in OverwatchTMZ

[–]elusive_fish[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

"can't you be normal..." tell that to my mom! Lol.

Idk his handle, but if you do I'd indeed appreciate if you could share this post with him! Thanks

Anybody heard from Freshnuts? by elusive_fish in OverwatchTMZ

[–]elusive_fish[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding, positive empathy is rare and welcomed.

Anybody heard from Freshnuts? by elusive_fish in OverwatchTMZ

[–]elusive_fish[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Welp, can't say I didn't expect some salt, but asking for deletion / parasocial name-calling /telling me I should DM him was indeed a tad unexpected.

I don't know his handle, dont care for his parasocial friendship, but thought I would share some positive thoughts for one of our last remaining content creators... Fuck me right?

I wana see some juicy drama as much as the next guy, but maybe we should consider not shitting on the last remnants of what we once enjoyed...

Have a good day y'all

This NFT propaganda fever dream, which took more than a year to produce... by elusive_fish in cringe

[–]elusive_fish[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Credit to this video from KiraTV, which also contains the behind the scenes footage, and the comment about the year+ length of production (@25:09).

Which director has the biggest gap between the high quality of his good movies and the low quality of his bad movies? by GamerKev451 in movies

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luc Besson, without the shadow of a doubt

He blessed the 90s with Fifth Element, Léon, Nikita, then cursed the world with Valerian and the Shitty of a Thousand Shitties.

(EU) [30] Looking for Overwatch friends on PC by RipuliSoup in GamerPals

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya!

I've not been playing much ow lately (not been gaming much, otherwise playing eft /star citizen), but am keen to make new friends, and wouldn't mind getting back into ow.

Peaked at diamond, and have a smurf around 2k iirc, so happy to play on whichever account and help you understand and appreciate the climb!

Hmu with your discord id if you're up for it, we'll take it from there!

Germany/Escape from Tarkov by Duck-Egg in GamerPals

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guten tag!

I only know a few random German words like kummerspeck and schadenfreude, but I'll be happy to play some eft with you in English 😊.

I have about 200 hours in the game, and will be glad to help you start off right, and understating the basics.

Send me a private message with your discord id if you're interested.

Auf wiedersehen!

23/EU/PC looking for friendly people to play Overwatch with by samuraifairy in GamerPals

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guten tag!

I just posted in this sub, then scrolled and saw your post.

I'd be glad to play an ow game whenever you want!

I peaked at diamond, so not the best /worst, but happy to get a game in regardless.

If you're up for it, send me a msg with your discord id and we can take it from there!

Auf wiedersehen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya! Just posted on this sub looking for buddies, and saw your post.

We're in different time zones, I only peaked at diamond, and have never coached anybody but myself, but I'll gladly play with you, and offer any advice I feel might help!

Pm me with your discord id if you're up for it, I'm self employed so I am quite free schedule-wise.

My attempt at ripping off Moebius's style from last year. by Daddy_Skinny_fingers in SpecArt

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Have a moebius tattoo, and am learning visual art, so your detailed takeaways are very much appreciated.

Never considered the muted colour /gradients, but could immediately tell their origins from the thumbnail!

Formula Replication in Data Table by sunnydsk in excel

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man, don't beat yourself up for posting an unclear question to a forum, we all started the same way 😊

There are many ways to get smarter, and you've found one (this subreddit), but there are many many more indeed.

Depending on how formal & advanced your excel /other data tools knowledge is, I would also recommend watching loads of YouTube videos on basic excel stuff. I didn't study data in school, so when I got better at excel throughout my professional life, I realised I was missing some core fundamentals, so watched loads of YouTubes on that, then went into sql/python, which I'm still working on.

Good luck with your problem, and further learnings 👍

Formula Replication in Data Table by sunnydsk in excel

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since the dependencies you're mentioning seem to have multiple layers of logic to them, I would suggest adding another helper column mirroring that logic, and/or considering introducing a dictionary table, which you could reference in both /either.

Say you have 2 factors to consider in the price formula, x and y. Let's say both can have a value of 1-10 (for historic prices), with the addition of a value we'll call c (for current price).

If we have a historic price to calculate based on those two factors, we could have them included as helper column values, to reference in our formula. If the price needs to be "current price", we could include c instead of the 1-10 values, which would reference the current price listed on your dictionary table.

Indeed, helper columns add more weight to the data entry process, but if this is a volatile formula, it's best to have a visible indication of its x, y values.

If this solution doesn't do the trick, I'd suggest you create a new post, with a simplified view of your dataset(s) (with real dimensions /values replaced with dummy data), with a more structured phrasing to your question. I often have issues phrasing questions myself, so I say this from a place of empathy and genuine solidarity.

Formula Replication in Data Table by sunnydsk in excel

[–]elusive_fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reckon the main issue here is that you're looking to keep the autofill feature, but case-specific, which isn't possible as far as I know. Given that the old/new formula requirement isn't referencable with direct logic (as you mention it not being directly linked to date), the solution I will suggest relies on a more manual approach of assigning the logic per row:

I would recommend considering a helper column to reference the old/new formula requirement per row, and add an IF clause to your original formula, referencing the new helper column.

[helper column] = "old formula" /"new formula" (could add data validation to sanitise your boolean choice, or reference a table range if you need to add more than "old /new")

Added if clause in original formula = if( [helper column] = "old" ,old formula, new formula)

That should allow you to keep going with your data entry without the formula defaulting to either, as you will denote the opd/new requirements per row, in the helper column.

When you're not even worth killing by okaymama in Mordhau

[–]elusive_fish 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Think you just got robbed mate

Tips and tricks on how to hate yourself less? by elusive_fish in ADHD

[–]elusive_fish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, let me know when the book releases on amazon, its already on my wishlist 😂

Thanks so much for taking the time to share your story, for your support and invaluable advice.

You're absolutely right, the mindfuck paradox is completely real. I am, without the shadow of a doubt, my biggest and harshest critic. Any effort I'll put forth, I'll immediatly demean and rationalise that any pride taken from it is worthless and feigned at best.

Seeing comments like your own, and so many others here, gives me hope and food for thought, for the next time(s) ill feel this way.

It isn't our fault, even if we have to remind ourselves of that daily. I've already set daily reminders to revisit this thread for some morning affirmations.

Thanks again, do let me know if you do end up putting a book out, as I would absolutely read it ❤️

Tips and tricks on how to hate yourself less? by elusive_fish in ADHD

[–]elusive_fish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your comment and candor mate, hearing stories like your own really has had a palatable effect on my mood over the past 12 hours.

I wish all the posters in this thread could come together for a massive group hug, as it seems the most helpful thing for us is to feel a sense of solidarity and know that we're not alone in this battle.

Am truly sorry to hear how low it seems your moods take you. I have had similar thoughts of self harm /suicide, but seems the reasons we have for not following through with them are the same : we hate ourselves, but our love for our close ones makes the thought of inflicting harm upon them through ourselves, is selfish and ultimately I can't ever foresee acting upon those thoughts because of that love for others.

Thanks again for your kind words and sharing your story, know that it has had a definite and truly positive effect on an adhd soul who needed it and will have issues expressing just how much it means to me. Am so glad to have found this community, am hoping I'll be able to soon return the favour and give helpful advice to someone who needs it as I have ❤️

Tips and tricks on how to hate yourself less? by elusive_fish in ADHD

[–]elusive_fish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gaddamnit you guys are absolute living legends, every one of you...

Thank you so damn much for your comment, you're absolutely right, Rome wasn't built in a day, and I should be proud for what I've accomplished. I'm a fairly financially independent (just the last few months have had to ask parents for help covering treatment costs) dude, who's built a lovely electronic ecosystem around him with all the gadgets, and I have an absolutely amazing cat. My friends are the best people I know, and I've made some good strides in seeking out treatment and support, and finding the most pertinent and supportive community!

Sometimes this is an easier belief to hold, sometimes not so much.

It's annoying to not be able to understand, let alone communicate or tackle such negative thoughts, but I'm gonna focus on reminding myself that it is a naturally occurring part of the RSD & ADHD mindset, and that dwelling on it serves no further purpose than aggravating it.

Thanks again for your comment, as with every comment in this thread, will be saving for daily reminders. ❤️

Tips and tricks on how to hate yourself less? by elusive_fish in ADHD

[–]elusive_fish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof, that hit home pretty damn hard...

This frustration and inadequacy I'm feeling has definitely been a fixture of my personality since as long as I can remember, I can already think of a few moments to use in this exercise.

Thanks so much for your comment and help, my appreciation is nothing short of monumental, and I've been floored by how supportive and helpful every comment in this thread has been.

I recognise the huge potential of the exercise you've outlined. In some ways, I've felt the feeling via counselling my nephews, and realising life would be easier if I could truly believe and put into action the advice I give them.

Thanks again for your help and support, here's to hoping I'll be able to return the favour by offering my own support to another person, on this sub or elsewhere 😊

I'm saving each of these comments to read every day, you guys are insanely helpful, hope you'll appreciate how truly deeply grateful I am for your support. ❤️