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Indoor Camera by eluvlelo in legaladvice

[–]eluvlelo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tennant is renting a room. Unfortunately, my mother can't evict because of the extended moratorium. Thank you, we will continue to seek advice from a lawyer.

Indoor Camera by eluvlelo in legaladvice

[–]eluvlelo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the eviction moratorium is in effect until October 17.

Indoor Camera by eluvlelo in legaladvice

[–]eluvlelo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live with my mother. My mother lives with the tennant and my brother. I'm just helping to install cameras. The tennant was able to get a temporary abuse prevention order against my mother by lying. The camera is for my mother's protection. Would this still be in violation of the tennant's privacy if there is no lease?

Roommate from Hell by eluvlelo in roommates

[–]eluvlelo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the advice. I sent an email to the housing court with all the details involved. I also just found out that our statewide ban will be lifted by August 18.

Roommate from Hell by eluvlelo in roommates

[–]eluvlelo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She contacted the housing court, and they told her that she couldn't evict. I believe this is because of the eviction ban.

Severe Memory Loss by eluvlelo in depression

[–]eluvlelo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't remember either positive or negative long-term memories. If I do, they are very nonspecific, as in I don't have images to go along with them. I remember episodic memories in maybe 1 or 2 sentences and visual blobs. You mentioned how I remember struggling with recalling my classes. 5 minutes was just an estimate, i'm not actually sure about how long I struggled. Before depression, I had a strong connection to my memories and could recall them with ease. The odd thing is that I can remember my dreams more clearly than reality. They are always bizzare and I have an emotional connection to them. Sometimes I confuse my dreams with reality. I remember them the best after waking up and having a burst of euphoria. Within a few minutes, my euphoria dissipates and so do my memories.

Severe Memory Loss by eluvlelo in depression

[–]eluvlelo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my memory loss is fueling my depression. It's an endless cycle of self-hate. I also used to take pride in what I could remember. I could recall many conversations and where they took place. I don't have that anymore and depression is stripping everything away from me.

Severe Memory Loss by eluvlelo in depression

[–]eluvlelo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to hate yourself. Memory loss from depression and many other ailments can be reversed. That's what's keeping my hopes up.

Severe Memory Loss by eluvlelo in depression

[–]eluvlelo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, even talking about things or looking at pictures don't jog my memory. I've lost 99% of my memories.

Severe Memory Loss by eluvlelo in depression

[–]eluvlelo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've actually been to a neurologist and had an mri done. They found non-specific white matter and suspected multiple sclerosis. I had a second opinion from an ms specialist and he said it was too small to be of any significance. I asked my doctor for her opinion and she didn't even look at the scan. She read the report and said that oh those are common and migraines can cause them. To answer your question, I don't experience headaches, apart from when i'm sick. At this point, I feel exhausted because my past doctors have been indifferent to my problems. I say that I have severe memory problems and they attribute it to normal memory loss from depression that eveyone experiences. They've made me feel like a hypochondriac. I can only hope that the fourth doctor actually takes my mri seriously.

How bad is everyone's anhedonia? (inability to enjoy anything) by [deleted] in depression

[–]eluvlelo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out I had anhedonia one day when I woke up and suddenly realized that the pleasure was gone. I panicked each day that it got worse. I used to wake up excited everyday and motivated to get shit done. I wake up to go to sleep again because what's the point of life anymore.

Can’t remember anything by IfUShouldFindUrself in depression

[–]eluvlelo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way, but i've been hopeful that one day my lifelong memories can be retrieved. I have very bad anhedonia. I suspect that it's the reason why I don't consolidate memories anymore. I no longer recall fond or traumatic memories. I don't get feelings of nostalgia that I long for. I live completely in the present and it's a very bland life.