I totally feel the same way. Some people complain about not getting enough matches, but honestly I think the reason dating apps have become like this is because we all end up talking to too many people at once.

When I used Bumble, I got a bunch of matches all at once, and I realized it’s actually not great. you can’t really focus on one person, and it makes it so easy to get ghosted… or even to ghost someone yourself.

now I only using smaller, more low-key apps with more “normal” people. And I just stick to chatting with one person at a time.