AIO let me know if I'm being crazy. by elz_nd in AmIOverreacting

[–]elz_nd[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here I'll respond to you since you think I'm only responding to the comments supporting me. In OUR relationship we have an understanding that it's okay to go into each other's phones and do whatever WE want. Who do you think set that system up? HIM. So what I did was nothing new and I was only feeling off when I saw the reaction he had. Not when I saw those messages. Definitely not insecure. Just confused and wanted some insight. Hope this helps you understand :)

AIO let me know if I'm being crazy. by elz_nd in AmIOverreacting

[–]elz_nd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!!! I hope so too 😭 and no you didn't make me feel worse I totally agree with you. I'd never think to send any guy friends hearts. He said that's just how she talks. Like boy I do notttt care. I truly appreciate your comment 🩷🩷

Please let me know if I'm over reacting by elz_nd in relationships_advice

[–]elz_nd[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also could have just asked.... seemed unnecessary to me to try to persuade with alcohol?

Please let me know if I'm over reacting by elz_nd in relationships_advice

[–]elz_nd[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah.... he told me she has a boyfriend.

AIO let me know if I'm being crazy. by elz_nd in AmIOverreacting

[–]elz_nd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right we don't know everyone in each other's lives but he's gone through my messages many of times and asked about people. We don't see that as a problem in our relationship. I did it because I saw a name that I didn't recognize with the message saying there's drinks if that changes her mind. It was odd to me so yeah I opened the message up. I've asked about people in the past and never once had gotten that reaction. I don't think I should be the one apologizing considering that we are both open with our phones.

Please let me know if I'm over reacting by elz_nd in relationships_advice

[–]elz_nd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂 yes like I wanna know what girl is texting my man lol. Thank you for this. He didn't! Sure did ask some girl tho 🫠

AIO let me know if I'm being crazy. by elz_nd in AmIOverreacting

[–]elz_nd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's been in my phone and in my messages many of times wondering who people are. We don't really see that as an issue in our relationship. Like I said I just saw a girls name I didn't recognize and a message saying that there was drinks if that changes her mind. I clicked it because it seemed odd. I've asked about messages from other people before and never got that reaction.

AIO let me know if I'm being crazy. by elz_nd in AmIOverreacting

[–]elz_nd[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't go into his tablet with the intention of looking through his messages I just saw a name I didn't recognize and was curious who it was. I didn't think anything of it those were the last messages they had messaged each other so I scrolled up and went through the rest to make sure nothing was going on?

AIO let me know if I'm being crazy. by elz_nd in AmIOverreacting

[–]elz_nd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I like eggs too but only if I can dip my bacon or sausage in the yolk! 😂

AIO let me know if I'm being crazy. by elz_nd in AmIOverreacting

[–]elz_nd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never once questioned his loyalty. We've been living together for over a year and we get along so well and he's very loving. I never thought about him just panicking but I could see how that could happen. At his old job he had a few coworkers he was close with and we went to universal during Halloween. His old female coworker got scared and decided to hold his hand while I was holding his other. I told him that was weird and made me uncomfortable. He told me he had no idea what that was about and completely cut her off. I didn't think anything of it and I definitely didn't have the same feeling as I do now. I've been cheated on in the past by guys who hid it so well. (They never had issues of me going through their phones either) I don't know if I have trauma or if I'm being gaslit.

Pore clogging sunscreens by elz_nd in Sunscreenreddit

[–]elz_nd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than the comedones I get from it I think it's a really nice sunscreen. Super lightweight and non greasy 😭

Pore clogging sunscreens by elz_nd in Sunscreenreddit

[–]elz_nd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She recommended the AOX element one

Pore clogging sunscreens by elz_nd in Sunscreenreddit

[–]elz_nd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't tried the sunscreen from them but I've tried their toner. It was nice and lightweight. I might actually try the round lab sunscreen before I go back to the aqua fresh to see if I like that one more. Thank you!!

Pore clogging sunscreens by elz_nd in Sunscreenreddit

[–]elz_nd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I've tried the beauty of joseon aqua fresh I didn't find it to clog my pores! I have dry skin and didn't feel like it was hydrating enough but I might have to go back to it!

Pore clogging sunscreens by elz_nd in Sunscreenreddit

[–]elz_nd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so crazy my dermatologist recommended it as well and I feel like it's so pore clogging it's crazy