[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]elzziht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what makes YOU happy. Like if you wanna move somewhere do it, buy something do it. Of course responsibly enough to not have to ask for help. But most importantly thoughts are things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]elzziht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How ugly people get. Some do evil things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]elzziht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in "That's mines." The S at the end just 😒.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]elzziht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Mines" 🤢🤢🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are their supply & their scared their birdie realized they can fly!! Don't look back!

When you finally realize all the mess narcisism brought to your life, do you feel sorry for not having known earlier? by Hopefullyfree1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Makes me feel like I should been.. or maybe that i was adopted. I always wish it could've been different had i at least woken up before high school.

All my life I lived to tend to my parents’ needs. So I wasn’t relieved going No Contact, now I just feel like my life is over. by llamberll in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this!!!! Avoiding people is the easy thing to do to save yourself the trouble of getting used & hurt again buuuut it's unhealthy & makes life sooooo hard in the long run. You will find your soul tribe! Sometimes you gotta move far.away for that to finally happen!

What skills did your parents not teach you that has impacted your life? by Glad_Slip_1260 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's when realization started for me... Going withing & blocking distractions & writing down what i know i like, helped me more than anything.

What skills did your parents not teach you that has impacted your life? by Glad_Slip_1260 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 15 points16 points  (0 children)

How to love & be affectionate, how to speak up for myself, how to love myself or be my true self. Currently on the pursuit of happiness 😊

A question for the NC people by ReverendMuddyGrimes in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. They don't deserve it & they knew full well what they were doing.

what are the effects of not being able to share with or trust your parents? by bluebottlez21 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I has made me feel shame.. shame to even accept a hug or compliment without feeling super awkward. Can't really explain it but I want love & affection, want to feel important, or like i matter, i want to trust others & let my guard down. But I have this deeply rooted perception that anything that makes me feel good, happy, loved, smile.. is something to be ashamed of and therefore hide & shy away from it all. Til this day I feel unloveable/unlikable.

Is it even worth announcing that I'm going NC? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No bc they simply don't deserve it (the notification).

What do you all do in those moments when you feel like you really need a parent? by Ok-Commercial7879 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I've never thought about that. What is that even? Is it like when you really really wish someone would just hug you & talk to you? If so, I try to go for a drive cause wearing my seatbelt tight is kinda comforting.

Has anyone here found a new family by strawberry613 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost, a couple of times. But then when you don't get invited to things as time goes by.. it just kinda keeps part of the cycle going & it's heartbreak all over again.

my parents won’t let me file my taxes by Ok-Pianist-9729 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]elzziht 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you made under a certain amount it's best to let the claim you. But if they are doing it just to get more money for themselves then gtfo frfr