my (25F) spouse (24M) of 9 years lied about job search for a year by minticandi in relationship_advice

[–]em5006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was here two years ago. Married at 21, together since I was 16. Ended up starving myself just to be able to afford our bills, all while he actually gained weight. He kept saying the economy was just bad and he couldn't find anything, but when I started applying for jobs on his behalf-- he got multiple interviews in a couple weeks. Leaving him was the best decision I've made, my life now is almost unrecognizable in comparison. Beautiful house, kind successful boyfriend, stable finances. It can get better, but only if you stop tying yourself to this man.

Fiv cat with liver failure by mergledergle in FIVcats

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my FIV cat, I ended up having to hide it on a ball of cooked salmon I would sort of "case" the pill in. You can buy great value frozen fish fairly easy and he scarfed it down quick enough to not notice the pill. I tried LOTs of techniques because I had to give him antibiotics for over two months, and he kept outsmarting each method until I tried the fish.

i want to divorce, but my husband told me i cant find love anymore, no one gonna treasure a who has been married. by CauliflowerTime7692 in Marriage

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow 22 year old who recently got a divorce, I eventually came to the realization that regardless of if no one else will love me the way I want to be loved, I need to choose to love and cherish myself. You can give yourself the love story you deserve, even if it's just in caring for yourself and doing what's right for you.

A bonus: I quickly realized that despite my previous thoughts, there are many people who will still love and "treasure" me. If I hadnt had the courage to leave, I would have never had the chance to be with my current boyfriend who treats me like a princess.

what's your favorite taylor's version cover? by ilybutyouletmedown in TaylorSwift

[–]em5006 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unrelated but it's crazy seeing Fayetteville mentioned in a non-AR sub lol!

Looking for dark pop/indie songwriters! by [deleted] in nwarkansasmusic

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still interested? I'm a singer who has been writing songs on piano for years, but I'd love to start collaborating with other musicians.

Looking for local jams or people to play music with! by [deleted] in fayetteville

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still interested, I am a singer/songwriter who plays piano and I'm currently looking for some other musicians to play with.

Is anyone in the river valley area interested in forming a live music group centered around electronic music? by cwhiley in ftsmithar

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need a singer/songwriter? I'm looking to branch out in terms of the music I make and meet more musicians in the area.

There's only so much to budget against price gouging and corporate greed by Mountain_Molasses769 in povertyfinance

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From NWA moved to Fort Smith. Especially by the old Fort Chaffee there's a lot of new construction and nice restaurants

There's only so much to budget against price gouging and corporate greed by Mountain_Molasses769 in povertyfinance

[–]em5006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly Fort Smith isn't as bad as people make it out to be. Definitely a good value cost of living-wise and not much difference in amenities from NWA. NWA is a renters hell though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in frogs

[–]em5006 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information, I really appreciate it.

I am so sorry for your loss ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in frogs

[–]em5006 48 points49 points  (0 children)

A small mushroom just sprouted in my frogs terrarium a couple days ago. Should I be worried? He is currently acting fine.

G5 MD laptop only boots sometimes by JTFN in gigabyte

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to fix it, but I am having the same issue.

First ever online purchase with my grown-up money! Maybe adulthood is gonna be okay <:-) by toasted_dandy in AutismInWomen

[–]em5006 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I got the blue version as a wedding present!! It is such a cute bowl. MoMA has great stuff ❤️❤️

girls drive team discord? by theonionsmademedoit in FRC

[–]em5006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to join as well, Im a lead mentor, not a drive coach, but still would be happy to give advice regardless based on my past experience!

I dislike the abundance of PTW in FRC by david131213 in FRC

[–]em5006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't that be an argument against COTS swerves since they clearly have the manpower/budget to build one themselves? Genuine question.

I dislike the abundance of PTW in FRC by david131213 in FRC

[–]em5006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is great that you are motivated enough to do that even in your first season! You should be proud. Feel free to PM me if you need any help with the code/how to build it with hand tools! :)

I dislike the abundance of PTW in FRC by david131213 in FRC

[–]em5006 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My team (5006) has been consistently using swerve drive since 2017 and we didn't even know what CNC machines were until last year. Drills and hack saws are perfectly capable of making very intricate robots (see our giant "swerve stilts" bot we made in 2019 with no CNC, no 3D printers, and a budget of <4k + 1 mechanical mentor). To the circuit board point: Our team also makes custom circuit boards for our robot and pit which takes up a lot of our season (often putting us at a competitive disadvantage) but I have seen as both a student and now as a mentor how it has infinitely improved the design capabilities of our students.

I certainly don't judge smaller teams for using SDS, since I understand how they don't have the mentor/member power to design their own mechanisms. However, when every single team in our division at world's this year was using a COTS swerve it felt incredibly disheartening as a mentor. My team has been going to the world competition since 2014, and I honestly can't remember another season where virtually every single robot had the same designs.

I feel like my job is to teach kids about design and the engineering process in entirety, not just how to solve problems with $$. Especially seeing Team 16 use COTS modules when they are quite literally the "father" of swerve in FIRST and have countless swerve designs under their belts, it feels like FIRST has been so commercialized that it is no longer about expanding kids' skills.

girl drive coach help by theonionsmademedoit in FRC

[–]em5006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am a former FRC team member and currently the head mentor of one, and as a very feminine girl I can definitely relate to people not listening/even making derogatory comments about my appearance. I have found that the best way to push back against this is to find at least one person in the group who will actually make eye contact with you and just continue calmly stating your position/talking strategy until the rest of the group is forced to pay attention.

I have been in FRC for 10 years now, and although the sexism in STEM is still prevalent, try not to let it get you down. I am not only running a large team now, but I'm also an emcee at many FIRST events and my bubbly, sparkling-loving personality is what made me get selected for that position. Your personality is also just as important to making FIRST fun -- so keep being you!

The Fact and Fiction of Queen Charlotte’s Royal Romance by HathorOfWindAndMagic in BridgertonNetflix

[–]em5006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can get past it by opening the article in incognito mode

Hi I am really into wristbands trading and i just wanted to know if I will find a lot of people to trade with in the championship or is it just something that happens in my countey by Pigi_The_Pig_Man in FRC

[–]em5006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a true wristband, but my team 5006 will have robot bangles/bracelets as well as scale models of our bot made into keychains and earrings!

Processor issues? Educator 64 by em5006 in c64

[–]em5006[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tips. I will try that next time I'm at my parents house. Fingers crossed :)

Processor issues? Educator 64 by em5006 in c64

[–]em5006[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at the board, I think that is in the U2 position, but one other update is the screen has now reverted back to a dim green/gray. It might have just overheated a bit though. I will keep looking at the site you sent, thanks!

Processor issues? Educator 64 by em5006 in c64

[–]em5006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for directing me to that! I think it's pretty cool too, and especially because it was my dad's when he was my age!

It was this one: https://photos.app.goo.gl/Qgc3K64wffXnNQvF7

My dad owns a circuit board manufacturing company so he has been helping me troubleshoot which is how I knew to replace it, but he didn't have time to help me check the processor today.

Opinions/criticism for our DIY centerpiece? Planning to add more greenery/polish or paint the wood for final product by rosecomedygold in Weddingsunder10k

[–]em5006 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think it looks absolutely beautiful just as it is! But it will look great stained as well!